I am quite a chilled out and bubbly person, creative and experemental and never really take myself too seriously. Love to cook and make art, play games and watch documentaries. Love dogs and also terrified of heights. But can happily get rid of spiders for you.
I am also submissive by nature, have switched in the past. But ultimately love to please others and find the idea of someone taking control intoxicating. Think there should be a nice build up of trust before anything really however.
Desires and Fantasies
Fantasies are usually something that can chop and change, but the key part I've always found is the idea of surrendering and someone taking the control. And living the lifestyle.
24/7 chastity with tease and denial.
Being kept as a slave
Being tied and used as furniture
Prolonged bondage
Orgasming through prostate play
Rewards and punishments
collar and lead training.
Made to worship, please with oral etc.
Pee, poop, blackmail, financial domination, extreme pain, blood. Probably others but can't think off the top of my head.
I'm getting there thanks Main one for me is the chafing sometimes over long periods but use vaseline and it helps!
Found it also can also test the limits of how far you can bring yourself. Like if your told not to cum, and its a trust and test of your endurance. Can imagine someone in control would feed on the desperation they have given to their sub.