Personal details

Gender Man
Age 27
Status Single
Height 170cm
Weight 114kg
Body shape Curvy
Eye colour Other
Hair colour Blond
Hair length Middle
Beard Goatie
Orientation Bisexual
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin USA
Pubic Hair Natural
Body hair Some hair
Zodiac signs Leo
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings

About me

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Description

Hey, I am not too good at these. But I am an artist and recently started getting into cosplay. As far as my kinks go well the main ones are Dom and sub (yes I am a switch), I like being in a cg role, but I also have a little space (though rare for me to go into), and I enjoy pet play. I can get into BDSM. If you are wondering about anything else just message and ask.

Fantasies

My desires and fantasy's kind of vary. But the biggest desire to find is that person to talk to. I am a conversationalist by nature, so even if in a d/s relationship I will still want conversation regardless.

Fetish.com gives you…


Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Seneca with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!

Steampunkicuras
icon-wio Steampunkicuras wrote something in the forum
  • 18.11.2018 3:53:31
  • Male (27)
  • Seneca
  • Single
A little confused by things i am recently finding out about myself advice please.

Thank y'all for the advice, at this point I do have time to think on all of it and figure a few things out. You are all kind and helpful thank you.

Steampunkicuras
  • 08.11.2018 8:50:24
  • Seneca
A little confused by things i am recently finding out about myself advice please.
Hello,
I am relatively new to the scene. My last ex introduced me to the lifestyles, and we found comfort in ddlg. But we started getting intimate, she talks telling me to stop holding back and i just start letting loose. As I start to let loose i got more aggressive physically, and the next Read more…morning we had found a fair number of new bruises from that night. It actually felt really good to let loose like that; though at some point i didnt speak anymore i just growled and grunted as i was completely dominating; not going into much more detail. but I never got to let completely go on it, i was looking into the BDSM arch-type page and the primal hunter catagory seems to be the closest decription to. Now on to what i need advise about though, I enjoyed the ddlg lifestyle in day to day life, but in the bedroom how does the primal tie into it? and I am terrified if i let completely go with my next partner (when ever that may be at this point) that i might hurt them severly more than just bruising, and when i was letting go before i could feel the control over strength and force slip little by little as i gave into instinct and urge and desires. Is it normal like that when letting go? am I weird with that much control slipping? should i try to find a way to embrace it more? should i avoid it since strength control seems to slip when letting go? I am not sure on all this so I could use some advice.... if this is a strange train of thought i apologize.
LikeCutesandra1488, ccat83 · 4 Replies
Steampunkicuras
Steampunkicuras Thank y'all for the advice, at this point I do have time to think on all of it and figure a few things out. You are all kind and helpful thank you. Thank y'all for the advice, at this point I do have time to think on all of it and figure a few things out. You are all kind and helpful thank you.
Like · 18.11.2018 3:53:31
Stew64
Stew64 It is ALWAYS up to the Master/Dom/Daddy to maintain control , once a sub/little hits space they will be unaware of lots going on around them and often oblivious to acts being carried out that they would not normally agree to
remember , SAFE, SANE, CONSENSUAL
and never play without a safe word It is ALWAYS up to the Master/Dom/Daddy to maintain control , once a sub/little hits space they will be unaware of lots going on around them and often oblivious to acts being carried out that they would not normally agree to
remember , SAFE, SANE, CONSENSUAL
and never play without a safe word
Like · 14.11.2018 11:25:09
eyemblacksheep
eyemblacksheep first off. I think it's good you're asking yourself these questions - try to answer them in your own time, rationally - it's very easy to get too excitable or to overthink
A thing to consider is that you don't (necessarily) know who your next (sexual) partner will be - what they're into and what Read more… scope for chat you'll get before the first time(s) you get intimate.
There are so so sooooo many variables - it's important not to get lost down too many rabbit holes.
To completely back up FabSeverus - always remain in control. Regardless of the context and the interests - this may sound like a contradiction but you can stay in control whilst 'letting go' it's just important to know where the boundaries are of the other person and being able to back off if needed.
That's in between what she tells you and what you can read from her - remember - a golden rule is if you don't take things far enough, you can take them further next time - if you go too far, you can't always take it back.
LikeVictoriaBlisse, MissTillysue · 11.11.2018 2:13:34
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icon-wio Steampunkicuras created a status update
  • 17.10.2018 3:16:10
  • Male (27)
  • Seneca
  • Single
Hey I feel like I should post a bit more about myself on here. I have both a pet space and owner and both a daddy space and little space. It all depends on the person I am talking to. I have done a lot of research and asked allot of question on the BDSM slave life style and I just don't think that Read more… is completely me. The biggest thing is I still live a vanilla life and do this in spur of the moment. Meaning I may head out and go to a bunch of game and comic stores or I may draw or write for extended periods of time. So where with a slave style relationship where I need to ask permission for everything would be very difficult to live because of that. Of anyone is checking my profile out and decided to read this whole post; first thank you for taking the time. Second if you want to be my mommy or my little, or my pet or own me as a pet. I am open to that however it would be very difficult for me to be so submissive that I am asking for permission for everything. I love the things I do in vanilla life and are so natural to me that I don't often think in them, as common as brushing my teeth. So if I seem like the kind of person you like feel free to message me. I am also looking for new friends so if you just want someone to talk to please feel free to shoot me a message to just chat, I am told I am a wonderful conversationalist. Thank you for reading all of this and have a lovely and beautiful day.
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icon-wio Steampunkicuras created a status update
  • 15.10.2018 23:22:16
  • Male (27)
  • Seneca
  • Single
Well after a bit of soul search and self discover I am sad to say I do not think I am fully capable of submitting to the level of a slave. My strength of will and will do not bend far enough for that kind of submission being a bit submissive I can do but not to the degree of a slave. So I apologize Read more… to any dommes or mistresses that may have checked out profile.
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  • 15.10.2018 23:13:01
  • Male (27)
  • Seneca
  • Single
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  • 14.10.2018 22:51:13
  • Male (27)
  • Seneca
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  • 14.10.2018 22:01:24
  • Male (27)
  • Seneca
  • Single
How did you get switched on to Fetish.com?
I was looking around for possible groups to a lifestyle I got introduced to and found this site and loved it here.
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  • 14.10.2018 22:01:24
  • Male (27)
  • Seneca
  • Single
What types of kinksters are you hoping to meet here on Fetish.com?
I really enjoy ddlg and Dom and sub lifestyles, I am pretty open to try other things too.
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  • 14.10.2018 22:01:24
  • Male (27)
  • Seneca
  • Single
When did you discover you were kinky? Tell us about your journey through kink and BDSM.
6ish months ago.
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  • 14.10.2018 22:01:24
  • Male (27)
  • Seneca
  • Single
What was your first kinky experience? What did you learn from it?
My first kinky experience was when my ex teased me too much and my Dom switched flipped completely on and she submitted right away and listen to what I say and how. I learned I am very dominant.
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  • 14.10.2018 22:01:24
  • Male (27)
  • Seneca
  • Single
What qualities are most important for you in a relationship?( BDSM, kinky or vanilla)
The kinky is nice but I want true depth in a relationship. Conversations trips out the works.
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  • 14.10.2018 22:01:24
  • Male (27)
  • Seneca
  • Single
Tell us a bit about your kinky lifestyle. Do you go to fetish clubs and munches, are you in a 24/7 relationship...?
I don't have any events like that around that I know of.
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  • 14.10.2018 22:01:24
  • Male (27)
  • Seneca
  • Single
What BDSM skills do you have (i.e. rope bondage, play piercing, etc)? What are you interested in learning more about or get better at?
I am interested in learning in sub training and bondage and getting better at being dominat.
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  • 14.10.2018 22:01:24
  • Male (27)
  • Seneca
  • Single
D/s: Dom/me or sub? Top or bottom? Caregiver or little? Owner or slave? Do you switch or are you unsure?
I am switch when it comes to it all but I prefer to me the cargiver and dominant one that what I enjoy most in my last relationship, but if someone wants to show me what it like to truly receive the other side I will try it.