I hate mine but for reasons outside kink but when we together I know that my respect and love will fall once in his arms. Takes for me just rubbing my head to fall asleep or breath in my neck or daft thing he holds my thigh when driving (not endorsing this ) remember don/ sun is different to dom / Read more… slave you want a sun remember we control everything just talk and let the journey be amazing if you cannot talk then sorry there is something wrong and you need to look at if it right for you and her / him

Learn learn learn and read read read as a sub best way for you to learn but as a Dom it’s the same . My master wasn’t in scene for years and I have brought out of him by talking lots and to others as well . We talk for hours and shown him way I like what I like . You need to talk to others see what Read more… they do and also a sub talk for months get to know each other what you like . This can be done in line so don’t need face to face till you are comfy . I did this and now I’m where I am today comfortable and more out going with Doms and Donmes . I’m still shy but soon goes . Hope this helps message me if you want to know my journey and more masters