weird thing for me though was the language/verbal ***, sounds bad but it was intense. Physical stuff was good but the verbal stuff was amazing

me too

Er, I take it back, after previously saying I had difficulty orgasming from pegging/anal, my girlfriend/mistress gave me a treat today. Bare in mind I have not had an orgasm since last october and am caged 24.7 she arranged for her ex boyfriend who is also bi to pay me a visit while she was away on Read more… work. I can confirm that I orgasmed several times even while caged! His verbal *** was incredible, took me over the edge. It seems the verbal stuff is key to me reaching that point with anal.

inner thigh, my mistress is also very sensitive there

Sorry to the OP for her issues.

I can't speak for females as I'm male HOWEVER I also suffer from not easily being able to achieve an orgasm in the normal way.

In part it is because of 40 years of CBT, 20 years in chastity etc plus more recent body mods which mean I no longer have a frenum or Read more… foreskin and my glans was modified etc etc resulting in very little sensitivity or feeling in my penis. As a result it is almost impossible for me to orgasm from masturbation/penetrative sex.

I now require my partner to use pretty extreme verbal stuff to take me over the edge OR odd physical stuff such as slapping my balls really hard. I can also orgasm from a guy using my throat too, odd as that sounds but I guess after so many years of doing crazy stuff my brain has 'programmed' itself to hit orgasm under certain scenarios that are not normal (or lets just say not vanilla)

I have been a sub for most of the last 40 years and sm currently with a new albeit inexperienced Mistress. The rules she has set me are not like those above, in fact quite different. She is only here three days a week because she works away and also has a 4 month old to deal with too (bump). Read more… However my rules are as follows based on whether she is here or not:
If Mistress is here:
1) Do all bumps feeds including nightimes, change his nappies etc
2) Make her a cup of tea when she wakes up
3) cook her breakfast
4) wash, dry and iron her and bumps clothes including hand washing her delicates
5) at weekend cook lunch and tea on saturday, take her out to resturant on sundays
6) hoover, dust and clean house including thorough clean of bathroom
7) Give her a massage daily
8) give her an orgasm every night before she goes to sleep using my tongue or fingers
9) Let her have full control of what we we watch on TV
10) remain in my chastity cage permanently other than for when it is removed for cleaning
11) Only have an orgasm when she permits it (this is based on a points system she has)
12) Pay for all her travel costs, new clothes, shoes and perfume etc
If Mistress is not here than most of above still applies where applicable but in addition:
13) send Mistress good morning message
14) Ask permission to P and if necessary do web call of me P'ing
15) Send her pics of every meal I have
16) Ask what clothes she wants me to wear each day
17) Call or message her to say goodnight
There are also bonus tasks such as washing her car, running her candle lit baths, taking her out shopping etc that earn extra points.
In addition she gives me points for each task I complete to her satisfaction and if I earn enough points she will allow me an orgasm. However she has set the target to such a high level that at current rate it will be approx one year before I can have an orgasm - ok slight exaggeration but it feels like it LOL

@woburn169344 this message will probably get deleted but just in case you get chance to read it, I have now submitted a new thread about scammers but was refused by the mods, they claimed it was because it was a dupe post, so I replied to existing thread that they linked me to but they then closed Read more… that thread down. The site is now infiiltrated by scammers, prositutues and financial dommes etc. The mods shut down anything that dares suggest this so likely this messgae will last all of 5 minutes. The scammers now ask for ***s and names within their first messsage or so and they have all been German in my recent experience. Coincenitally the country the site uses for its payment system? I do not believe any of these people are genuine and after a few minutes have found that they wouldn't know what a body mod was to save their lives. Why are the mods so desparate to close down any discission on this?
PS. CURIOSULY ALL THESE NEW SPAMMERS ARE PREMIUM/VIP MEMBERS......

as a guy without a foreskin I can confrim that I have very little feeling or enjoyment through my glans.
Be aware though that the foreskin is not the issue. My frenum removal happened before my foreskin removal. The lack of frenum means the foreskin can't naturally pull up/cover the glans. So you Read more… lose sensitivity with just the frenum removal. After having my frenum removed I never had my forsekin naturally pull over my glans and in fact it gradually dimished even without being cut.and in my case I'd guss at about 90% of pleasure/stimulation being lost with removal of frenum

My Mistress came home from work last weekend (she works away during the week), was meant to unlock me for the weekend but had left her key at her mums 150 miles away (in UK that is a long way) and she'd forgotten where she'd hidden the spare key in my house. She is a bit dippy. I would say she is Read more… blonde but that would get me flamed for being stereotypical but lets just say she is very like Alice in 'Vicar of Dibley'.PS. Wouldn't have minded so much if it was my normal wire cage which can be worn for weeks on end as it requires no cleaning other than just having a bath with it on. But in this case she'd locked me in a solid stainless penis shaped thing that she likes, can't clean it while fitted, needs to be removed after few days not just for cleaning but for my penis health as it gets a bit clammy in there. 6 hour round trip and £40 of diesel later to get key......
and for any US readers, I know 150 miles sounds like nothing but this is from Brigg in North Lincolnshire to Manchester via the woodhead pass in UK xmas traffic in a 2.5 ton pickup truck. with a crying baby on board too....and trust me, if you know that road you'll know what I mean!
NOTE: don't believe the hype about isofix car seats, trying to swap a car seat from the back of a 3 door Corsa into a pickup truck in torrential rain is not only a PITA but takes as long as doing the ***y journey itself... nearly to the point I was "look, forget about it, I'll just wear the cage for another week"
NOTE2: Got home only for her to remember she'd hidden the spare key in the posh purple lovehoney rabbit case in my wardrobe..... sigh

and PPS for anybody ever contemplating doing this a BIG WARNING, it is not like in the porn vids. I bled so much, literally squirting out ***, that I had to have a tourniquet around my penis while being driven to A&E. Do not even think about doing any penis mods at home. The risk is insane both Read more… from *** loss and infection. My mods were done with a hot filament knife, similar to a soldering iron but with a filament blade, medical type. Even that did not successfully cauterise the wounds.
and anybody that wants to see the results message me and I will provide pic. Just don't look at it while eating your boxing day meal ;-) My girlfriend/Mistresses first reaction when seeing it was OMG, it is so ugly and it has a hole ini t!

Thank you.
Trust me, when your boss tells you on a friday afternoon he has just signed up a new customer on the caveat they get a demo of a product that doesn't even exist but he has promised them a demo of it on the following monday you'd understand my issues.... ;-)
Er, so that is 30 days work Read more… and we have 2 days to complete it? and I have to ask my team to work the weekend?
Gives you some idea as to why I came home on a friday night and think fuck it I want my foreskin removed (actually thought about alot worse but Mster wouldn't dream of going through with it....)....... LOL
PS. He wonders why I smoke 40 a day.....

BTW Woburn, wanted to send you a private thank you message but can't as your profile prevents it so I'll say it here. Thank you very much for you understanding.

Thank you, that is very much appreciated.
No, I do not blame the other party because of many reasons:
1) I entered into it willingly and agreed to it.
2) I am in a job where I have to manage and take control of a team of people. Even if they mess up I will always take the blame/responsibilty. Read more… Sure, we may have a stern discussion in private amongst the team but not openlly in front of managers and in many cases it was my lack of time or being stuck in meetings that caused team to take short cuts or make decisions that were wrong. They weren't at fault, I was. It was my job to ensure that shouldn't have happened. Many people do not understand that you get the high salary in part because you have to take responsibility and blame when things go wrong. So I'm already in that mindset?
3) My kinks/fetish are odd (extreme some might say) but I have been into them for over 40 years and had countless experiences and relationships. So I am experienced enough and mature enough to know that what I am getting myself into. Sure I may regret some things later but I take full responsibility because I agreed or wanted it or even begged for it at the time despite my Master/Mistress objecting to it.
4) I'm 58, so pretty old and not that I claim to be wise but I would say I have learnt to handle situations. What myself and my partner may argue about in private is not for public consumption and I have never blamed my partner publically for something we both entered into. That is not just relating to kink life, it applies to every day life too.
NOTE: I have had a few partners off this very site, one of which I fell in love with and despite our very fiery relationship which often ends in months at a time not speaking to each other after we swear at each other and don't see eye to eye, what happened between us is our private affair and I am equally as guilty as her in what happened. If she reads this she will know who I speak about. I still love and adore her even after everything that went on. I should clarify she was not involved in my mods, that was by a Master I took on a few years back and he is still a very close friend despite everything that went on.
NOTE2: If you ask/beg your Master to inflict ***, treat your body as a piece of meat, ask to be used and ***d, shared and beg to have your genitals rendered uselsss etc etc than you must accept the responsibility. Should he have gone through with some of it? possibly not but I was the one that suggested it and coerced him into doing it.
NOTE3: I'm in a very senior position in my day job, it involves lots of responsibility and being very dominant. In my personal life I crave the exact opposite. So my mindset with my kink partner was of utter submission and I gave myself over to him utterly. (within a set of things I'd signed up for). It is hard to explain but some weeks I just get home and think god, I just want somebody else to make all the decisions in my life and I want to be a total submissive mindless slave.

oh and BTW when these things go wrong and you get infection or worse, try going into an NHS hospital in UK..... if you ever want *** don't bother paying (unless you count the NI we all pay anyway) as laying on a bed, in a corridor, fully exposed with a group of doctors and nurses examining Read more… you/tutting at you and while half the waiting room can see you is possibly the height of *** (and state of NHS) and at that point you are thinking why did I even think this was a good idea? ;-)
I developed gangerine in my penis after an infection got so bad. Thankfully the NHS did manage to actually resolve that and didn't resort to amputation of the limb....... but even so!