About me, I am feisty, fun, passionate, and always in control. I have a lot on my plate and a lot I am responsible for. I am at a point where I know I need to relinquish some of the tight reigns I have and have some fun. Since I can remember, I have always been highly sexual and not vanilla. I was the kid reading every book on the body and how it worked. In college, I specialized in human sexuality and how the body responds. I have never been married and have no kids; it’s always been about caring for business. I have had a few outstanding men in my life, kind and generous, but sexually I always craved more. None of them could cure my appetite. As I have gotten older, I have realized I am a true sapiosexual and must be stimulated by my mind first. I spent the last five years in a dark and tumultuous relationship, where I became the dominant. While the relationship was toxic, I realized so many of the elements of what I was to him I craved. The ability to put your complete trust in someone and hand the keys over to them with your pleasure opened another door for me that I know I need to explore.

That said, I am not looking to be a doormat or be humiliated. I am not interested in pain that leaves marks or being owned. I have some pretty hard no’s and I am sure to most on here I might be vanilla. I just know I need a strong alpha. I can’t do the hybrid males or I will become the dominant .A need a man who appreciates a woman, who is always a lady, who is intelligent, independent but wants nothing more than to find a man she can submit to and shut my mind off. A man who can be my peace, my quiet place.

No marks
No severe pain
No gagging
No humiliation
No feet
No fisting anal or vaginal
No blood
No scat
Not interested in woman