Am I weird for enjoying watersports?
As with most of my fetishes, this was discovered by accident. But I am amazed at how uncommon it seems to be amongst members. People posting in their hard limits "watersports" and "urine".
I am a big proponent of "to each their own" so please think nothing more
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There also doesn't seem to be more distinction between the giver/reciever, humiliator/humiliated, and many other aspects within the taxonification of urolagnia. (Although I bet google would reveal such if I cared to look.) However, this app has a community and I choose to ask the community thier thoughts rather than googling for the answer I want to hear.
The first time I was ever urinated on I was giving oral to a playfully adventurous ex of mine. During orgasm she couldn't contain herself and urinated in my face. Longer story short, I enjoyed it. Mind you in my asking, this is not being "squirted" on which I also enjoy. This was her releasing the contents of her bladder completely. She was embarassed but for a breif moment until I assured her I enjoyed it.
Seemingly however, outside of her and a few very accurately self-defined "squirters" in my past, this fetish has been more destructive in relationships than I think it should.
The simple "Would you ever *** on me?" or even a nudge of "You don't have to stop to go ***. I am ok being ***d on." even on a fetish based dating app seems to have become more taboo.
So community... Is this simply that uncommon of a fetish or by some stroke of luck is there no correct way to seek out others of the same kind in this genre?
I haven’t had that same situation happen again, and I’ve wanted it. (but it could happen tomorrow)
I also think it’s just easier to put the general hard NOs on an online profile because you can’t explain all the “if this happened and it felt right, I’d be open to it” nuances. In person with real trust that conversation is a lot easier.