Making a connection is obviously the most important for me. Looking for [preferably] local kinksters to interact with and potentially play if fitting.
I'm looking for a experienced bottom to help me hone my flogger skills. I am not a sadist
I am a more sensualist top, but I can deliver if that is what gets my partner off.
My sadist streak is in pleasure torture ? ...beg me to let you cum

I know that I am a pleaser and get far more pleasure from being able to blow my partner's mind than recieve. I especially like to do something to please him/her unexpectedly. Sometimes I feel like taking over and being the teaser and torturer in control of their pleasure.
I enjoy playfulness mixed with discipline.

I would like a space to learn to turn over control and be able to trust I'll be taken care of and caught if- more like when- I fail.

I am curious, but need help to realize, act on and express my desires. I've got a strong switchy streak, dependant on partner/dynamic.

My default is sucking cock and I feed off and get most of my pleasure from how crazy I can make him and how hard of an orgasm I can give.
I'm not good at receiving the attention and tend to get too caught up in my head. I am far more comfortable being the giver than the reciever.

What I know I like and desire:

praise/positive affirmation
gripping/ pulling my hair
"using" me roughly for his pleasure
inspiring need and passion from my partner
spanking when I get cheeky
rope restraint
tender carress of my body that makes me feel sexy and cherished- like my partner is in awe of me soft touch/ teasing patterns on my skin
verbal direction on how to please him








Desires and Fantasies
Being taken from behind; Variations of me on all fours for you, bent over the end of the bed, across a table or bench, up against the wall; make me walk my hands down the wall for you, or the shower with water pulsing down over our bodies.
From this position my entire body can be engulfed in your's wrapped around and over me; your hands are free to explore my body, nibble and bite my neck, shoulder, ...

We could experiment with also telling me to touch myself or applying clit stimulation to make me spasm around your cock.

I want the feeling of domination whether slow and torturously sensual or pounding my pussy. You determine how fast and how far you push into me.

Taking control of my hips and moving my body against you to your chosen rhythm; or you could verbally direct me how to impale myself and move on your cock while you just rest back on your heels.
If you want to go hard and fast I can also meet your thrusts; wrap my legs around your's for maximum contact and grip to you.

I want sensual teasing with some crazed passionate manhandling.
Worship but also Punishment.