I am just your ordinary man, with a dominant side, that gets stronger with each year, I primarily identify as a Master with caregiver tendencies.
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When I am in a relationship I give 100%, and expect the same in return, as well as open communication, and when there are issues they can be raised and communicated rather than ignored until they build up and the relationship implodes.
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I love rope bondage as it helps build a connection to my partner, and I also have a tiny inner sadist who likes to get out the impact play things, but mainly use them for discipline, unless my partner is masochistic, in which case I can be creative.
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I seek partner that will challenge me, that will keep me on my toes not blindly fall at my feet and whimper. A relationship is a partnership, not a one sided affair. We would be yin and yang, different sides of the same coin.
My bdsm test results
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
97% Dominant
94% Rigger
90% Master/Mistress
87% Brat tamer
82% Owner
80% Sadist
75% Degrader
72% Daddy/Mommy
64% Primal (Hunter)
57% Experimentalist
57% Voyeur
45% Switch
44% Non-monogamist
43% Vanilla
21% Exhibitionist
20% Ageplayer
needles, scat, leaving permanent marks, blood, underage, financial
No one says that unless theyre a con-artist.
Sad to say you have been scammed, i bet you have never met in person only on skype, or through messages.
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If you havent done it yet cut contact and report them to the police. Also report them on whichever site you met them on as most dont allow FinDoms.
I have a problem with the Michael Makai books, given his history.with law enforcement.and trafficking charges, which granted didnt stick due to a technicallity, but thats still a red flag.
Munches and other events will be able to point you to local classes or have people willing to mentor you.
I would suggest fetlife (Aka FL) and then find your local munch and meet people in a social setting.
For rope bondage Clovers Rope Bottoming guide is a good start, its a free pdf download, just google it a d you will find it.
Researxh the hell out of red flags.amd how.to spot them. Ask.questions Read more… (and youve made a great start asking here) in forums here and on fetlife, especially in the newbies & novices on FL as well as this forum
Pointing potential betties at this thread.
Or maybe youre approaching people wrong. I get replies from people and have good chats.
Honestly the overall package, do we get on as people, shared interests both vanilla and kink and many other things.
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So many here are fantasists on both sides of the slash. With unrealistic expectations, and lack of understanding of what is involved.
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D/s relationships are about more than Sex, Read more… in fact sex is just a small part of the dynamic, just like it is in a vanilla relationship.
Very true, i phrased my response incorrectly however, statistically speaking the majority of dominants are men.
Not evil just a little more twisted when it comes to adding that little extra edge.....
If you wanted to mess with the sub, leave out the ear plugs, and slip the maid some money to knock on the door, open it and shout house keeping without coming in then you pretend to be the maid cleaning the bathroom including cleaning around her.