You will find that there are a number of terms within the fetish and kink community that can be disputed or potentially vague definitions.

Each clube has its own rules, and it may depend.on the type of event you attend.
A fetish/kink night is more likely to have consensual contact only, house safe words, and what activities.can or cannot take place, eg No Fire Play or limited to designated. No touching or using.other peoples tools, Read more… no interupting scenes or getting in the way so as to spoil headspace
Swinging events may be more relaxed.

Passive is that you only doing something to pleae your partner.
Active is that you are doing it as much for yourself as for your partner.

I did say it can be situational,.i hit enter by mistake half way a reoly.
That was one example and one of.the common ones ive come across. There are other reasons and everyone is different.

Eg a woman may be dominant with other women but submissive with men or visa versa.

Switches can be situational,

Communication, trust and compatiblility on both kink and vanilla levels.

Stop trying to be a barrack room lawyer. Also advising someone to create a trust in writting in your name is bad advice. Especially as in some jurisdictions they can be overridden by a court and annuled if they decide it was done to hide assests.

He can also sue the site. In addition its against the T&Cs of the site to publicly name and shame.other users.

The thing with Claires Law is that the police can choose not to disclose any DV issues in his past.
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Also it depends on whether an ex partner has reported previous DV issues, there are those who are just happy to get out and move on without involving the police.

The banning on you talking to her is an attempt to isolate her because he knows that he could lose the target of his abuse.
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Unfortunately there is little you can do, if that happens, except tell her that youll be there for her if she needs you.

Thats is the case with all such relationships, especially if one of.the partners is nassassitic.
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Outwardly everytjing looks normal and if the abused speaks out to family they get accused of being a drama queen or making it up as the abuser wouldnt do such things.to someone the 'loved'.
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And Read more… then the abuse gets worse because the.abused spoke out.

I know ive been there, all you can do is listen, and suggest she talk to someone. You could look up a help line and put it in your phone so if you meet alone she can talk to someone without him finding out (eg checking her calls etc).
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However, I guess she is kept on a short leash by her owner, so Read more… doesnt have much chance to speak to people alone without him being there.
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Sorry thats Bullshit. No owner i know in my.local community requires payments of any kind from thier partner.
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IMHO any owner that wants payment from a slave should be avoided at all times as they are not interested in the person/slave just the money.