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Status

Not single

Open relationship with Ask me

Personal details

Gender Man
Age 49
Status Not single
Height 173cm
Weight 68kg
Body shape Athletic
Eye colour Blue
Hair colour Other
Hair length Short
Beard Shaved/no beard
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin USA
Pubic Hair Part shaved
Body hair Hairy
Circumcised Yes
Zodiac sign Taurus
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

Description

Let's have some stress free kinky fun and laughs! I'm the boy next door with a wicked edge. ;)
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Ethnically Non-monogamous with an incredible woman who isn't into kink and play separately.

.
Primarily interested in making a connection with someone local to play with regularly. The most enjoyable experiences happen after building trust and comfort among partners. SSC!
.
Kink experiences we could explore: shibari, impact, flogging, various sensations play, and/or explore kink events together.
I'm vaxxed and boosted and STD free.
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Outside of kink, I enjoy live music, theater, burlesque, finding cool spots for drinks/food like a speakeasy or pub, outside activities, and indoor rock climbing.
Notable interests that if you're into or curious about could be common interests:

  • Burning Man events and Large scale art
  • SCA or the BOG
  • Burlesque and Improv
  • Production of live entertainment
    .
    Let's check out an intriguing speakeasy for kink talk and dreaming up scenarios over dim lighting and drinks.

    Or
    If you like to climb indoors, let's trade belays! It could be a good activity to break the ice. ?

Limits

Humiliation, Disrespect of boundaries

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Stumofun
icon-wio Stumofun wrote something in the forum
  • 13.02.2024 0:21:06
  • Male (49)
  • Arlington
  • Not single
Conflicting Vanilla and Kinky Personas

I understand where you're coming from. I definitely wouldn't call that "fake dom." Real know one should be "dom" to a "sub" until they agree. Being a dom or have someone submissive to you takes respectful communication to negotiate. It can feel awkward in the beginning when flirting turn to D/s and Read more… a potential submissive is itching to submit but haven't yet worked out the parameters out the power exchange.
SSC/RACK should be fundamental to Dominants. I take them seriously and tell the submissive that we will have discussions about desires, limits, and consents before proceeding in earnest to build trust and comfort. This signals to the submissive that you respect their submission and boundaries while signaling your desire to be dominant over them after negotiations.

Stumofun
icon-wio Stumofun has uploaded a new photo
  • 04.02.2024 1:33:46
  • Male (49)
  • Arlington
  • Not single
  • Stumofun
Stumofun
icon-wio Stumofun has uploaded new photos
  • 19.01.2024 20:02:29
  • Male (49)
  • Arlington
  • Not single
  • Stumofun
  • Stumofun
  • Stumofun
Stumofun
icon-wio Stumofun has uploaded a new photo
  • 15.01.2024 12:14:18
  • Male (49)
  • Arlington
  • Not single
  • Stumofun
Stumofun
icon-wio Stumofun has uploaded a new photo
  • 12.01.2024 0:51:50
  • Male (49)
  • Arlington
  • Not single
  • Stumofun
Stumofun
icon-wio Stumofun has uploaded a new photo
  • 10.01.2024 11:26:40
  • Male (49)
  • Arlington
  • Not single
  • Stumofun
Stumofun
icon-wio Stumofun has updated their profile description
  • 10.01.2024 0:33:39
  • Male (49)
  • Arlington
  • Not single
Let's have some stress free kinky fun and laughs! I'm the boy next door with a wicked edge. ;)
.
Ethnically Non-monogamous with an incredible woman who isn't into kink and play separately.

.
Primarily interested in making a connection with someone local to play with regularly. The most enjoyable Read more… experiences happen after building trust and comfort among partners. SSC!
.
Kink experiences we could explore: shibari, impact, flogging, various sensations play, and/or explore kink events together.
I'm vaxxed and boosted and STD free.
.
Outside of kink, I enjoy live music, theater, burlesque, finding cool spots for drinks/food like a speakeasy or pub, outside activities, and indoor rock climbing.
Notable interests that if you're into or curious about could be common interests:

Burning Man events and Large scale art
SCA or the BOG
Burlesque and Improv

Production of live entertainment
.
Let's check out an intriguing speakeasy for kink talk and dreaming up scenarios over dim lighting and drinks.

Or
If you like to climb indoors, let's trade belays! It could be a good activity to break the ice. ?
Stumofun
icon-wio Stumofun wrote something in the forum
  • 25.08.2023 1:55:35
  • Male (49)
  • Arlington
  • Not single
I just want to ask something

Some scammer here play a long game to suck you in and then have "financial trouble" and need gas money to meet you. Never send money to anyone to meet.

Likelovelacesinclair · Jump to discussion
Stumofun
icon-wio Stumofun has uploaded a new photo
  • 24.08.2023 5:29:03
  • Male (49)
  • Arlington
  • Not single
  • Stumofun
Stumofun
icon-wio Stumofun wrote something in the forum
  • 15.08.2023 21:43:47
  • Male (49)
  • Arlington
  • Not single
EYE OF LOVE TREASURE HUNT 💎 THESE ARE THE WINNERS...

Grid #9 is mine. It isn't where I think it should be.

Stumofun
icon-wio Stumofun wrote something in the forum
  • 02.08.2023 23:38:20
  • Male (49)
  • Arlington
  • Not single
Issues for men trying to find women partners

It is comforting to see other men talking about these shared experiences. Thank you, brothers!

Likeexploramore · Jump to discussion
Stumofun
icon-wio Stumofun wrote something in the forum
  • 28.07.2023 23:13:15
  • Male (49)
  • Arlington
  • Not single
Vetting Process

I ask them to send me a photo with today's date on paper. Similar to being verified on here.

Likehiddenvixen, ViktorParker, Sweetness247 · Jump to discussion
Stumofun
icon-wio Stumofun has uploaded new photos
  • 20.07.2023 6:46:34
  • Male (49)
  • Arlington
  • Not single
  • Stumofun
  • Stumofun
Stumofun
icon-wio Stumofun is in an open relationship
  • 14.07.2023 2:21:28
  • Male (49)
  • Arlington
  • Not single

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