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Not single

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Personal details

Gender Man
Age 48
Status Not single
Height 173cm
Weight 68kg
Body shape Average build
Eye colour Blue
Hair colour Other
Hair length Bald
Beard Goatie
Orientation Bi-curious
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Pubic Hair Part shaved
Body hair Some hair
Dick length 17cm
Zodiac signs Libra
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings

About me

I’m looking for:

Description

I’m hoping to find a little adventure and mutual enjoyment.

Having recently-ish discovered my kinky side I’m very keen to explore further with the right person(s). I can switch but am probably more submissive at this stage, definitely not a person of extremes, and hoping to find someone patient enough to help me learn and explore further.

Note: I'm attached, I have 'permission' but its just me. Not looking to change anyone’s domestic situation, but definitely open to longer-term meetings & relationships, as definitely not finding this sort of expression at home.

Physically - I have a shaved head, neatly trimmed goatee and I'm 5'8 (just)....couple of 'mid-life crisis' tattoos! ;-)

I'm trying to look after my health & enjoy running, although I'll admit to a bit of a dad-bod!

If you are interested, please do say 'hi' !

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Switch
95% Rope bunny
84% Boy/Girl
78% Daddy/Mommy
77% Non-monogamist
71% Rigger
70% Submissive
70% Voyeur
63% Sadist
62% Primal (Hunter)
61% Ageplayer
61% Exhibitionist
59% Brat
59% Brat tamer
58% Degrader
58% Experimentalist
56% Dominant
52% Primal (Prey)
45% Masochist
43% Slave
41% Owner
41% Degradee
36% Master/Mistress
27% Pet
22% Vanilla

Fantasies

Would love to play with a really bratty sub and polish up my daddy-dom skills.

Love starting in the dominant role, especially enjoy tie & tease and orgasm control with a female sub, but absolutely love having the tables completely turned on me and ending up being totally dominated.

Hoping to learn Shibari/rope bondage.

Have an as-yet-unfulfilled desire to be with a dominant TS woman.

Fetish.com gives you…


Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Milford with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!

Celtic_Castaway
icon-wio Celtic_Castaway wrote something in the forum
  • 02.01.2019 17:45:31
  • Male (48)
  • Milford
  • Not single
NooB Sub, starting a relationship with a Domme, need advice!

and there’s a little coda to this: have met someone (a real, actual person!) through a vanilla dating website who is honest and has turned out to be *massively* kinky, albeit not especially dominant. One door closes....!

Likeeyemblacksheep, haroldcecilgeorge · Jump to discussion
Celtic_Castaway
icon-wio Celtic_Castaway wrote something in the forum
  • 02.01.2019 17:42:16
  • Male (48)
  • Milford
  • Not single
NooB Sub, starting a relationship with a Domme, need advice!

thanks for following up. So...sage advice was given by some of you and was duly noted. I gently pushed back: could I have some more recent / current photos (agreed but not provided), could she be more specific about date & time to meet (evasive response) and crucially would she accept a modest Read more… gift *in person* and if we get on let’s take it from there? Suffice to say she has faded away.
So while I still feel very naive it’s also clear I dodged a bullet. Lesson learned (hopefully!) Thanks again for sound advice. A cautionary example of excitement (almost) getting in the way of judgement

Celtic_Castaway
icon-wio Celtic_Castaway has updated their profile description
  • 05.12.2018 18:10:12
  • Male (48)
  • Milford
  • Not single
I’m hoping to find a little adventure and mutual enjoyment.

Having recently-ish discovered my kinky side I’m very keen to explore further with the right person(s). I can switch but am probably more submissive at this stage, definitely not a person of extremes, and hoping to find someone patient Read more… enough to help me learn and explore further.

Note: I'm attached, I have 'permission' but its just me. Not looking to change anyone’s domestic situation, but definitely open to longer-term meetings & relationships, as definitely not finding this sort of expression at home.

Physically - I have a shaved head, neatly trimmed goatee and I'm 5'8 (just)....couple of 'mid-life crisis' tattoos! ;-)

I'm trying to look after my health & enjoy running, although I'll admit to a bit of a dad-bod!

If you are interested, please do say 'hi' !

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Switch
95% Rope bunny
84% Boy/Girl
78% Daddy/Mommy
77% Non-monogamist
71% Rigger
70% Submissive
70% Voyeur
63% Sadist
62% Primal (Hunter)
61% Ageplayer
61% Exhibitionist
59% Brat
59% Brat tamer
58% Degrader
58% Experimentalist
56% Dominant
52% Primal (Prey)
45% Masochist
43% Slave
41% Owner
41% Degradee
36% Master/Mistress
27% Pet
22% Vanilla
Celtic_Castaway
icon-wio Celtic_Castaway wrote something in the forum
  • 03.12.2018 23:17:34
  • Male (48)
  • Milford
  • Not single
NooB Sub, starting a relationship with a Domme, need advice!

yep, and no problem with that of course. Maybe she's just demanding, maybe its maybelline, I guess we'll find out. As I said, I've suggested a more modest tribute to be made in person, which I think it reasonable for a first meet, so it may work out yet. Am learning fast!!

LikeMissTillysue, eyemblacksheep · Jump to discussion
Celtic_Castaway
icon-wio Celtic_Castaway wrote something in the forum
  • 03.12.2018 20:05:23
  • Male (48)
  • Milford
  • Not single
NooB Sub, starting a relationship with a Domme, need advice!

Thanks for the responses. Some good advice @SexualCorruption you've nailed it (so to speak) when you point out I've missed such a basic question that I should have asked early on. We did discuss likes & dislikes, but given I had an underlying concern I should just have got that out in the Read more… open right away.
I've done some checking re: the name she has given me, facebook profile, etc. and everything looks pukka on the surface, but when I look again, it starts to look a little less convincing. I've asked for a firm date & location for meet and suggested I'd be happy to bring a less elaborate tribute in person for our first meeting. We'll see how that goes, but....
I'm getting the sense that I may have narrowly dodged a bullet here, lesson learned. I do feel like such a naive tw@...48 years old and nearly duped, desire and optimism getting in the way of good judgement.
One way or another I'll be a bit more considered with future connections. You live and (occasionally) learn.
@eyemblacksheep I've got to take my hat off (sort of) to the dude who ran the scam with photos of his wife...ffs, takes some ho-jo's!

Celtic_Castaway
NooB Sub, starting a relationship with a Domme, need advice!
Hi everyone,
New to the site, new-ish to kink, looking to tap into the wisdom of the crowd! I've recently met a dominant woman via a different (ironically vanilla!) dating site, and we have progressed to intimate chats via whatsapp, exchanging pics, etc. and are looking to arrange a dungeon visit. Read more… I've suggested a coffee or a glass of wine initially, but she's of the opinion that the best way to know if we will 'click' is through an intimate encounter. Tend to agree, so I'm cool with that, obvs....
She has set me a few tasks to prove myself, so far so fun and no real problems there but she is now asking for a 'tribute'. Again, no problem in principle and my natural inclination is to be generous, but she wants an incredibly expensive bespoke leather dress. And all of a sudden I'm that much less comfortable.
Is this unusual? I realise many dominant women will want tribute from their subs, but this seems....excessive...this early on? She's not looking for paid services and I don't think this is a findom situation (and no disrespect to anyone who willingly seeks and accepts that, but its not something I'd personally want). So at what point does 'tribute' become findom, and at what point does that (potentially) become exploitative?
My instincts, normally reliable, tell me she's not rinsing me, and for sure she'd look like a goddess in the dress.....but I just don't know. Seems like a big ask.
Am I being daft, or am I being rolled??
Thanks
C.C.
LikeAlexandra600, Alexa360 · 11 Replies
Celtic_Castaway
Celtic_Castaway and there’s a little coda to this: have met someone (a real, actual person!) through a vanilla dating website who is honest and has turned out to be *massively* kinky, albeit not especially dominant. One door closes....! and there’s a little coda to this: have met someone (a real, actual person!) through a vanilla dating website who is honest and has turned out to be *massively* kinky, albeit not especially dominant. One door closes....!
Likeeyemblacksheep, haroldcecilgeorge · 02.01.2019 17:45:31
Celtic_Castaway
Celtic_Castaway thanks for following up. So...sage advice was given by some of you and was duly noted. I gently pushed back: could I have some more recent / current photos (agreed but not provided), could she be more specific about date & time to meet (evasive response) and crucially would she accept a modest Read more… gift *in person* and if we get on let’s take it from there? Suffice to say she has faded away.
So while I still feel very naive it’s also clear I dodged a bullet. Lesson learned (hopefully!) Thanks again for sound advice. A cautionary example of excitement (almost) getting in the way of judgement
Like · 02.01.2019 17:42:16
MrDarcy45
MrDarcy45 As a point of personal safety, I would never arrange to meet someone from the internet in a non-public space for an initial meet. If they're genuine, then they should be happy to meet you for a coffee or drink before hand.
Second, I would never buy expensive gifts without it being clear what the relationship was. I certainly wouldn't be handing them over without having met the person in the flesh.
Third is that I'd be really cautious about having met this person on a vanilla dating site. As a point of personal safety, I would never arrange to meet someone from the internet in a non-public space for an initial meet. If they're genuine, then they should be happy to meet you for a coffee or drink before hand.
Second, I would never buy expensive gifts without it being clear what the relationship was. I certainly wouldn't be handing them over without having met the person in the flesh.
Third is that I'd be really cautious about having met this person on a vanilla dating site.
LikeVictoriaBlisse · 02.01.2019 17:11:03
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Celtic_Castaway
icon-wio Celtic_Castaway found their first fetish item!
  • 01.12.2018 13:52:59
  • Male (48)
  • Milford
  • Not single
Celtic_Castaway
Newbie, looking to connect with BDSM/Kink community in Guildford area
Hi everyone, greetings & felicitations & that,
I'm new to the site and relatively new to the whole Kink scene, having discovered my kinks within the last year or so. I'd really like to connect with like-minded people in my area but can't find a Munch, and really don't know who to contact Read more…or how to get started. My motivation here is really to engage with a community and learn, not necessarily hookup, as I assume that's what the site is for! (although that would be nice...) Really just interested in getting more insight into the mindset, other people's kinks (and my own!) and maybe learning some new skills...for example, would love to learn rope bondage!
So if anyone is able to point me in the direction of a Munch or any kind of social / community engagement in the Guildford/Woking/Surrey area in general I'd be really grateful!
D.
LikeAlexandra600, Alexa360
Celtic_Castaway
icon-wio Celtic_Castaway completed their confessions
  • 29.11.2018 1:05:55
  • Male (48)
  • Milford
  • Not single
When did you discover you were kinky? Tell us about your journey through kink and BDSM.
I discovered my kinks through meeting a submissive woman, initially for vanilla encounters. I had always felt there was something missing but had never even thought seriously about kink/BDSM prior to that. Through conversations and intimate encounters she taught me to explore my dominant side Read more… and really start to embrace my kinks. The more we talked the more I realised I also have submissive side, which I've been exploring ever since.
Celtic_Castaway
icon-wio Celtic_Castaway completed their confessions
  • 29.11.2018 1:05:55
  • Male (48)
  • Milford
  • Not single
What was your first kinky experience? What did you learn from it?
Brief encounter with a TS. Learned I'm a lot more adventurous than I had previously thought!
Celtic_Castaway
icon-wio Celtic_Castaway completed their confessions
  • 29.11.2018 1:05:55
  • Male (48)
  • Milford
  • Not single
What qualities are most important for you in a relationship?( BDSM, kinky or vanilla)
Mutual respect and a willingness to put your partner's pleasure before yours. The feedback loop is so important: their pleasure is my path to pleasure, dom, sub or vanilla!
Celtic_Castaway
icon-wio Celtic_Castaway completed their confessions
  • 29.11.2018 1:05:55
  • Male (48)
  • Milford
  • Not single
Tell us a bit about your kinky lifestyle. Do you go to fetish clubs and munches, are you in a 24/7 relationship...?
Have not been to clubs (yet) and not sure I have the confidence (yet). Looking to get involved in local Munches in my area.

Domination & Submission for me are 100% sexual, so you won't find me doing your hoovering wearing only an apron & a gimp-mask.
Celtic_Castaway
icon-wio Celtic_Castaway completed their confessions
  • 29.11.2018 1:05:55
  • Male (48)
  • Milford
  • Not single
What BDSM skills do you have (i.e. rope bondage, play piercing, etc)? What are you interested in learning more about or get better at?
Really interested in learning rope bondage/shibari. Aesthetically beautiful, deeply erotic and highly skilled!
Celtic_Castaway
icon-wio Celtic_Castaway completed their confessions
  • 29.11.2018 1:05:55
  • Male (48)
  • Milford
  • Not single
D/s: Dom/me or sub? Top or bottom? Caregiver or little? Owner or slave? Do you switch or are you unsure?
I'm a natural switch, my style of domination and submission is more about rewarding good behaviour than punishment, but I'd love to take a truly bratty little sub in hand!
Celtic_Castaway
icon-wio Celtic_Castaway completed their confessions
  • 29.11.2018 1:05:55
  • Male (48)
  • Milford
  • Not single
What turns your kinky brain and body on?
I'm fascinated by the sheer power of female sexuality, and am in awe of anyone who really understands and is in control of their sexual power.