I’m hoping to find a little adventure and mutual enjoyment.
Having recently-ish discovered my kinky side I’m very keen to explore further with the right person(s). I can switch but am probably more submissive at this stage, definitely not a person of extremes, and hoping to find someone patient enough to help me learn and explore further.
Note: I'm attached, I have 'permission' but its just me. Not looking to change anyone’s domestic situation, but definitely open to longer-term meetings & relationships, as definitely not finding this sort of expression at home.
Physically - I have a shaved head, neatly trimmed goatee and I'm 5'8 (just)....couple of 'mid-life crisis' tattoos! ;-)
I'm trying to look after my health & enjoy running, although I'll admit to a bit of a dad-bod!
If you are interested, please do say 'hi' !
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
95% Rope bunny
62% Primal (Hunter)
59% Brat tamer
52% Primal (Prey)
Would love to play with a really bratty sub and polish up my daddy-dom skills.
Love starting in the dominant role, especially enjoy tie & tease and orgasm control with a female sub, but absolutely love having the tables completely turned on me and ending up being totally dominated.
Hoping to learn Shibari/rope bondage.
Have an as-yet-unfulfilled desire to be with a dominant TS woman.
and there’s a little coda to this: have met someone (a real, actual person!) through a vanilla dating website who is honest and has turned out to be *massively* kinky, albeit not especially dominant. One door closes....!
thanks for following up. So...sage advice was given by some of you and was duly noted. I gently pushed back: could I have some more recent / current photos (agreed but not provided), could she be more specific about date & time to meet (evasive response) and crucially would she accept a modest Read more… gift *in person* and if we get on let’s take it from there? Suffice to say she has faded away.
So while I still feel very naive it’s also clear I dodged a bullet. Lesson learned (hopefully!) Thanks again for sound advice. A cautionary example of excitement (almost) getting in the way of judgement
yep, and no problem with that of course. Maybe she's just demanding, maybe its maybelline, I guess we'll find out. As I said, I've suggested a more modest tribute to be made in person, which I think it reasonable for a first meet, so it may work out yet. Am learning fast!!
Thanks for the responses. Some good advice @SexualCorruption you've nailed it (so to speak) when you point out I've missed such a basic question that I should have asked early on. We did discuss likes & dislikes, but given I had an underlying concern I should just have got that out in the Read more… open right away.
I've done some checking re: the name she has given me, facebook profile, etc. and everything looks pukka on the surface, but when I look again, it starts to look a little less convincing. I've asked for a firm date & location for meet and suggested I'd be happy to bring a less elaborate tribute in person for our first meeting. We'll see how that goes, but....
I'm getting the sense that I may have narrowly dodged a bullet here, lesson learned. I do feel like such a naive tw@...48 years old and nearly duped, desire and optimism getting in the way of good judgement.
One way or another I'll be a bit more considered with future connections. You live and (occasionally) learn.
@eyemblacksheep I've got to take my hat off (sort of) to the dude who ran the scam with photos of his wife...ffs, takes some ho-jo's!