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Gender Woman
Age 65
Status Single
Height 152cm
Weight 102kg
Body shape Plus-size
Eye colour Green
Hair colour Red
Hair length Long
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin USA
Body hair None
Breast size D
Zodiac sign Cancer
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Tattoos
Piercings
Disability

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You: Strength of character, calm and in control of self, respectful, sexual, experienced in the lifestyle, knowledge of the submissive mind and know how to stay two steps ahead of me. These are the ones that gain my attention. What excites me? Dominance - of my mind, body and eventually my heart and my soul. Try to just take it by demand, and you may as well walk away, because that's what i will be doing.
i am submissive. 23 years in the lifestyle. seeking a LTR with an experienced Dom, or a Dom who is real and compatible with me. I am a little bit disabled and need some special attention, but not overly so. my submission is my heart and soul. Loyal and serving to a fault. i still have much to be taught, not much real life experience even though i've been in this LS for a long while. I've been trapped a long time in a vanilla.. and i burn.
I was once asked if i am a sub or a slave? My answer was:
What am i? Sub or slave?
There is no real difference (in real life terms) between a slave and a sub. They are the same person.
Any "sub" with all her limits and contracts and her "cherry-picking" of what she will and will not do...it is good in the beginning. But it all dissolves away when in the RIGHT relationship, and eventually, inevitably, she is slave to Him.
So, to answer, i am a "sub" until fully and deeply committed, then i am slave.

Limits

Not nearly as many as i started out with long ago.
i Still have a few hard limits. No blood, scat, animals, insects, minors or cutting.

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Distance Between Us

i've wished all those miles, and also that ocean, to go away so many times now. but they so selfishly refuse to indulge me. i know so well what You speak of. The longing that never ceases. But oh how beautiful the experience of connections, which make the distance disappear for a few amazing Read more… moments. Bittersweet. Thank You @Intellectual Ruffian ... well written.

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A true submissives nature.

You are absolutely correct! i should not have put that word in the statement at all. Point well taken, and i apologize!
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A true submissives nature.

Yes Sir @gemini_man. As You said, there are many intricacies in every relationship that differ from any other, and a custom fit is needed each time. But a holding on to the concept and intent of the lifestyle, in every one of them, that being SSC - Safe, Sane and Consensual, must apply. The Read more… acronym itself is a wide umbrella, and each of its components are wide umbrellas of their own. SSC and the 7 Pillars are the basis to conduct oneself by and be intelligently adhered to. If a situation falls outside of the umbrella of SSC, that doesnt "necessarily" make it a crime (although some argument can be made in some cases on that), it just makes it no longer true BDSM. (Do what you will, but unless you are in compliance, do not call it BDSM.) In a lifestyle this diverse, of course the very high levels of guidelines must be a generalization. But as it filters down into the many many different details and variations of kink, the top rule of SSC always applies and needs to be followed, or people get harmed, oftentimes seriously harmed. There is a reason for it. No It is not a single and only definition, as there are other acronyms that have been since added such as RISK and CNC, but even these also fall under the umbrella of SSC. which is the defining factor of the general "official" organization, and what sets it apart from unruled and chaotic, even heinous acts inflicted upon human victims throughout human history.
I agree that "BDSM" has been around longer than the 1980s. It was only "publicly" proclaimed in that particular decade by Stein and His group in the US. It has been practiced widely in every corner of the world in many forms. In fact it is as old as mankind itself, entrenched in our basic animalistic drives. We couldn't get away from it if we tried, and be truly whole. Vanillas are merely socially repressed souls who are too locked in their upbringing and the society around them to know the freedom to be found in their natural states.
So, we are saying the same thing here i believe, and thank You Sir for pointing out that the higher level ideals are in fact a generalization, as in they are an umbrella that covers and applies down to the far reaches of all of the many diversities.
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A true submissives nature.

There is a True Dom and a True sub, and a True path. The terms is used in the lifestyle to denote following the BDSM lifestyle as it was originally intended and formed, by David Stein who first coined the phrase SSC back in the 80's, during the first BDSM and Leather community's appearances. In Read more… the Traditional BDSM lifestyle there are set rules and guidelines for conduct and honor whose value has never lessened even though the "New Age" lifestyle has since contorted and diluted it to fit and accommodate the newer generation's preference to behave however they like. A great deal of the New Age practices ignore the strictions of the Older ones, and an unhealthy influx of untrained, uneducated, undedicated people have introduced teachings that are not accurate, not safe, not sane, and not even sensible. Many new "categories" of roles have been created out of the blue, in order to suit those unwilling to make the effort and spend the necessary tie and energy to achieve the Traditional level of "True". True, as in authentic, original. The True ones are now so very rare that the lifestyle population in general don't even recognize them when they see them, and instead shun them and accuse them/us of being narrowminded and out-of-date. Well, you know what? We ARE narrowminded and out-of-date. But that certainly doesn't mean we are wrong, or no longer valuable. If you seriously, truly, desire to know the lifestyle as it's meant to be lived, and find that astounding level of depth and meaning that so many today have no clue exists, then do yourself a large favor and actually research what this really all means and what it is meant to be. Below the surface. Seek out and speak with the Ones of tradition, and you will quickly see the difference. i wish you all most well.
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You: Strength of character, calm and in control of self, respectful, sexual, experienced in the lifestyle, knowledge of the submissive mind and know how to stay two steps ahead of me. These are the ones that gain my attention. What excites me? Dominance - of my mind, body and eventually my heart Read more… and my soul. Try to just take it by demand, and you may as well walk away, because that's what i will be doing.
i am submissive. 23 years in the lifestyle. seeking a LTR with an experienced Dom, or a Dom who is real and compatible with me. I am a little bit disabled and need some special attention, but not overly so. my submission is my heart and soul. Loyal and serving to a fault. i still have much to be taught, not much real life experience even though i've been in this LS for a long while. I've been trapped a long time in a vanilla.. and i burn.
I was once asked if i am a sub or a slave? My answer was:
What am i? Sub or slave?
There is no real difference (in real life terms) between a slave and a sub. They are the same person.
Any "sub" with all her limits and contracts and her "cherry-picking" of what she will and will not do...it is good in the beginning. But it all dissolves away when in the RIGHT relationship, and eventually, inevitably, she is slave to Him.
So, to answer, i am a "sub" until fully and deeply committed, then i am slave.
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== My BDSM Test from Fetish.com ==
95% Submissive
0% Dominant
== My roles ==
95% Slave
70% Prey
65% Rope Bunny
63% Brat
48% Masochist
43% Little
18% Degradee
0% Rigger
0% Master/Mistress
0% Degrader
0% Sadist
0% Caregiver
0% Brat Tamer
0% Hunter
0% Pet Owner
0% Pet
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Not nearly as many as i started out with long ago.
i Still have a few hard limits. No blood, scat, animals, insects, minors or cutting.
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