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Gender Man
Age 42
Status Not single
Height 191cm
Weight 108kg
Body shape Average build
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Short
Beard Shaved/no beard
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Body hair Some hair
Dick length 21cm
Zodiac sign Capricorn
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Tattoos
Piercings

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Description

looking for friends or none sexual play partners.
I’m a bit of a masochist, so obviously love to be hurt, although it’s been a minute.
if you fancy a chat, hit me up and I’ll get back to you as soon as I see it!

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Garrotjax
icon-wio Garrotjax wrote something in the forum
  • 18.06.2023 20:57:43
  • Male (42)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
Smiling Doms 😀😁😈

Why wouldn’t you smile if you’re pleased or happy?

LikeGoddess_Fifi · Jump to discussion
Garrotjax
icon-wio Garrotjax has updated their profile description
  • 01.05.2023 21:13:23
  • Male (42)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
looking for friends or none sexual play partners.
I’m a bit of a masochist, so obviously love to be hurt, although it’s been a minute.
if you fancy a chat, hit me up and I’ll get back to you as soon as I see it!
Garrotjax
icon-wio Garrotjax wrote something in the forum
  • 08.02.2023 12:53:07
  • Male (42)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
Ideas for new dom/sub

I haven’t but I will now!

Garrotjax
icon-wio Garrotjax wrote something in the forum
  • 07.02.2023 15:55:55
  • Male (42)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
Ideas for new dom/sub

I really like like that! Thank you! You have suggestions on decent books?

Garrotjax
icon-wio Garrotjax created a topic in New to BDSM, Kink & Fetish?
Ideas for new dom/sub
My partner and I have recently started investigating bdsm (bedroom only) she’s quite subby and it turns out I’m a bit of a switch.
I’ve had her tied up, blindfolded and edged, which it’s great fun for the both of us! I really like impact play, and she up for it as long as it’s light, which is fine Read more…by me as I like the control, of her and myself by keeping it light.
We’ve obviously done the usual sex stuff (hair pulling,choking and arse slapping) I praise her by telling her how good she looks and feels ect, and she’ll follow instructions I give her.
The problem is, I’m a decent problem solver, but don’t have a creative bone in my body! So if any of you guys can give me some ideas, that would be great. Softer ideas would probably be better until we actually get into the swing of it 😁
LikeSlaveAbuser, Zoomout160and 8 more… · 19 Replies
Stryker1988
Stryker1988 By no means am I an expert and quite honestly, I'm still very new to this. But I'm an intellectual guy which means if I'm going to take on a challenge, I consume all the information I can so that I can be fully informed to be prepared.
From what I've read and the suggestions I've gotten from Read more… people I've met at a munch, I ran some ideas past my partner (total sub) as we are currently geographically separated and phonesex is holding us over. She seemed to really like it so I'll share my plan.
Do anything that you guys find fun. It doesn't matter what it is as long as it's something you both fully enjoy. Think fun date night. Bring her home and wrap her in your arms and kiss her passionately as you walk in the house. Tell her, "I had so much fun tonight....but I'm not done and want more. Close your eyes and stay right here. Do not move." All of this, practice your voice tone to ensure you are adding some bass to your voice and your voice is not cracking. Say it like it's a command from an military Officer but say it at a low volume and ....say it at a pace slower than you normally talk. Confident people do not talk fast. They speak slowly and with very deliberate intentions.
Then continue, walk away and grab a blindfold. It can be an actual blindfold but not a sleep mask. those suck. If you don't have one use one of your ties. As she's blindfolded, slowly run your hands from her shoulders to her hands and guide both her hands behind her back. With one hand, hold both her wrists behind her back as you lean into her so that you are essentially cheek to cheek and say, "Follow me." Then walk her into the bedroom (slowly) and position her somewhere infront of the bed so that, if your room is large enough, you can sit on a chair and watch her or if your room is not large enough, you sit on the edge of the bed and position her far enough away so that you can watch her.
Then tell her, "I'm going to remove your blindfold....do not move until I say so." Then sit back down and say, "Now I want you to remove your (shirt/coat/skirt/coat/dress/whatever she's wearing), and I want you to do it.....slowly. Unzip your dress but don't let it fall. I want you to use your hands to slowly slide your dress off your shoulders and slowly guide it down your hips and ass. I want to watch." As she does, verbally let out a slight "mmmmmm" and "hhmmmmm" or "........yes." as she does. Keep going until she's fully naked.
Then slowly walk up to her and slowly run your hands anywhere on her body from low to high and cup the sides of her face. Give her a short but passionate kiss and tell her, "I really enjoyed that. You did very well." Then guide her over to the bed or dresser. Anywhere where you can have her stay standing but bent over so her hands are resting on something and it forces her to bend over and stick out her ass. have fun with her body however you want but don't touch any of her erogenous zones so no sex and no oral....not yet. Feel free to give her a few spanks or use any toy to provide some light spanks or use them to rub on her body to provide anticipation.
From here....it depends on what you have available to play with. Me? I have a structural support beam in the room which I've installed a hook where I plan to bind her hands together and hook them up high so that her body stretches out and her high heels make her ass stick out. I'd tell her, "I'm going to spank you now....and you're going to count the number of the spank, say my name, and tell me how that felt from a 1-10. So I want you to say, '1 Daddy, 4 out of 10' 2 Daddy, 6 out of 10" etc, etc. Finger play and intercourse would continue after I have some fun with her body...but I wouldn't do it for very long. I also have restraints on the bed where I will move her to the bed, restrain her and then fuck her face while she can't move.....or I'd restrain her face down, fuck her face and then tell her, "You can struggle....but it won't stop me from getting what I want." and then fuck her from behind.
Really though....this is super light bondage as I'm still getting to know what limits my partner has and I'm in no rush to get to the finish line. I rather enjoy the journey instead.
LikeKinkyMinx2023, BBW43 · 15.02.2023 8:24:52
Garrotjax
Garrotjax ➦Garrotjax quote kimutu72:❝have you tried commanding her to go to the room in what you want her dressed in and the position to wait in she will be blindfolded and earphones on playing music she like❞
I haven’t but I will now! ➦Garrotjax quote kimutu72:❝have you tried commanding her to go to the room in what you want her dressed in and the position to wait in she will be blindfolded and earphones on playing music she like❞
I haven’t but I will now!
Like · 08.02.2023 12:53:07
SysiphusBolder
SysiphusBolder Karma sutra* Karma sutra*
Like · 08.02.2023 5:28:52
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Garrotjax
icon-wio Garrotjax wrote something in the forum
  • 07.02.2023 13:19:28
  • Male (42)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
Opinions on pussy eating

I love to eat pussy for my own pleasure, yes it’s obviously great for my partner, but I only do it Because I want to. I don’t see giving myself pleasure as being submissive

Garrotjax
icon-wio Garrotjax wrote something in the forum
  • 07.02.2023 13:16:24
  • Male (42)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
Oral sex - pussy eating

Watch Nina hartleys guide to eating pussy on PH, then add in what you like. That woman changed the game for me

Garrotjax
icon-wio Garrotjax is in a relationship
  • 06.11.2022 20:47:34
  • Male (42)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
Garrotjax
icon-wio Garrotjax has uploaded new photos
  • 11.09.2022 18:58:59
  • Male (42)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
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Garrotjax
icon-wio Garrotjax finished the BDSM Test
  • 11.09.2022 18:46:12
  • Male (42)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single

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Garrotjax
icon-wio Garrotjax wrote something about themself
  • 14.08.2022 13:55:56
  • Male (42)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
so I’m new to all this, and pretty much have no idea what I’m talking about, but recently I discovered that I really love getting beaten by the Mrs… not sure why this is, but it’s great fun and super relaxing.
I’m just here to make friends and to explore a bit
Garrotjax
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  • 14.08.2022 13:52:52
  • Male (42)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
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Garrotjax
icon-wio Garrotjax finished the BDSM Test
  • 13.08.2022 20:19:23
  • Male (42)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single

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Garrotjax
icon-wio Garrotjax is in a relationship
  • 13.08.2022 18:15:22
  • Male (42)
  • Nottingham
  • Not single
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  • 13.08.2022 18:13:25
  • Male (42)
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