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Personal details

Gender Man
Age 45
Status Not single
Height 180cm
Weight 71kg
Body shape Slim
Eye colour Blue
Hair colour Blond
Hair length Middle
Beard 5 o'clock shadow
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin Switzerland
Body hair Hairy
Zodiac sign Aries
Languages German
Swiss German

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

  • Kinky Dates
  • NSA (no strings...)


Well educated and well hung. Focused and calm. Polite but firm. Tenderly strict. I don't need to shout at you to obtain what I want.

I like to control and dominate, punish and discipline, degrade and humiliate. However, only you decide what exactly I am going to do with you and what limits I need to observe. I believe that any form of dominance is meaningless without deep respect, affection and tenderness. My ideal partner is submissive only in the sexual realm but independent and assertive in all other aspects of life.

Before we meet, I want to understand exactly what turns you on and how you desire to be treated. Knowledge is power, and I will use my power to bring you the joyful lust that comes with sophisticated humiliation and affectionate chastisment.

I am married and not interested in nor available for a 'regular' relationship. That doesn't mean that I am looking for a one-off thing here, I'd like to find someone who is interested in building together the emotional connection needed for quality play. Be aware that you'll need to be both patient and discreet if you want to meet me.

Desires and Fantasies
Looking for a dirty little slut eager to please and aroused by the thought of shamelessly seducing a married man behind the back of his wife. If we meet in public, you will show up without wearing panties, ready to be embarrassed. At home, you like to be tied up, gagged and played with like a toy. You dress up like a whore because you know you are one. As with every good little girl, the very meaning of your existence is to obey your Daddy and Master and fulfill all his wishes by the letter. Any sloppiness or - God forbid - disobedience shall be punished severely.

(Note: The above is not to be understood as a predefined playbook, everyone has different needs and desires and should expect their partner to be able to adapt and cater to these specific needs and desires.)

Complimentary Quotes
"But I don't want comfort. I want God, I want poetry, I want real danger, I want freedom, I want goodness. I want sin."

Aldous Huxley, Brave New World

“Ce n'est pas dans la jouissance que consiste le bonheur, c'est dans le désir, c'est à briser les freins qu'oppose à ce désir.”

Marquis de Sade, Les Cent vingt journées de Sodome

"Himmlisch wars, wenn ich bezwang
Meine sündige Begier,
Aber wenns mir nicht gelang,
Hatt ich doch ein groß Pläsier."

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