I had the privilege to experience both. As a femdom I get very calming and warm feeling, and a tingling sensation in my brain for some reason.
I switched one time for someone close and wouldn't do it again, BUT because of our very deep connection at that point I did and I got in a very deep Read more… subspace. He could have thrown me around and I wouldn't have noticed. I wasn't able to think or process instructions, but i wasnt dissociated. That behavior is very far from my natural character, so yeah, I would say there is a sub space and there can be a very severe sub drop, which I also had to experience.
D/s is not a game to my knowledge

Uuuuh, true! Very true!!!

"I am yours" my all-time favorite. Makes me purr 🤣

A lot of male subs just want to be used, because they hope the sex will be better AND the fem-dom just has to be a freaky little thing.
Their egos are fragile and their patience is nonexistent: They want sex now in the way they want it, led by a woman, so there is no mental load or performance Read more… pressure.
So please act accordingly, ladys. If not, you are a prude!🤣

Maybe this gives hope: i found reel connection, eventhough it didnt last forever but for quite some time. As a femdom it might be easier, but I also had to block subs, who behaved badly and needed to be replaced😉
I have the feeling that a d/s dynamic gives the opportunity for reel and deep Read more… connection, because the exist through raw feelings of Lust and obedience.
Just fyi, if someone offers me ***, I always end the contact, because the connection wouldnt have the chance to grow into a relationship..it would be just business.
All the best!

I hate love-bombing! "You are the greatest most beautiful dom with the perfect mindset!" Oh come on...give me a break, you know me for a minute. It has nothing to do with me in that moment, so i cant take the dynamic seriously. Beside that: without liability im out. If there is a dynamic which Read more… leads into connection the sub belong to me and I will take care of him, but that is a process. Subs, who dont understand that will go crazy very quickly.

I didnt cross the boundaries of someone today, eventhough I really wanted to...

Uuuuh, i love "bull"!

Thought you might have had bad experiences, so you have to condemned a group of individuals you don't even know.
I wouldn't judge people that quickly.
Just wanted to make clear, that not every dom is a narcissist, even though there might be a lot in that position.
Just dont give up SoMakeMe, Read more… you'll find a suitable one.

Oh nooo, Bubba! Who hurt you? I take care of my subs and using gladly the room they give me bordered by their hard limits. I wouldnt describe me as narcissistic person and neither would they.

Im sorry, that you have to experience that. It must be very hurtful and I hope you can heal from it with the knowledge that it wasn't your fault.
Im not a little, im a femdom, but I can tell you that even on this position you can feel this betrayal. The risk of this dynamic is the deep connection Read more… which comes with it.
All the best, honey😘

As a female dom, i find the connection most important. If you want just to please some kinks without emotions, you could suck on a doorknob as well...same excitement.
But its necessary to see what both parties individually want, so there won't be any drama at the end.