:1780958682,7350701, You're mad he didn't treat the entire relationship as a bdsm session and respected you outside of a scene?

No what is being said is "confidence" is key.... " We have that table, or the corner booth... Which do you Read more… prefer?" You're giving her the choice of the 2... Not saying " well the whole restaurant is open.. pick a spot" she wants to know you can at least do that... But not " that table there, I've gotta be able to watch the exits". Lol

Watch the room, don't case the joint....
When asking her out... I'm open Tuesday or Saturday, what works better for you?

Translation is, be an old fashioned man... Not a modern pansy or total asshole.... Btw this is coming from a self proclaimed asshole, who knows how to be a gentleman until I'm not!!

It's the stress... It happened the first time...now you're ***ly afraid it will keep happening... So it does! Just have fun and get her off... If you stop worrying about how you'll perform... It will fix itself!

There are several things out there that claim just that. Most I would bet are not real... Kegel exercises tend to rejuvenate the pelvic floor and give growth in both ways.... But unless you get the correct exercise and routine... It's just exercise!

Ok, size aside.... He wants to know what helps.... Pills, pumps, kegel exercises, or the lovely cock rack ..

I don't mean this to sound negative.. but a bit more vetting at the beginning helps to make sure the relationship isn't just a bedroom relationship.... Good communication is key, make sure he knows how to spot your lows, and what helps...

What you call a Dom/Domme is between you and them and should be a mutual agreement!! These relationships are more give and take then most vanilla ones!

I love the way this is stated, it puts the true mind set for the D/s relationship into words.... It's more than sex, it's the responsibility of making sure safety, and trust are at the forefront of the relationship!! At least IMHO