Bjs aren't for u. It's for me. You don't fuck my mouth. I fuck u with my mouth.

Omg I'm obsessed. I give female oral too. If ur a good receiver and make noise and especially if I can tie the legs and hold the rope while I have involuntary muscle movements i will almost always suck it n rub my clit and squirt. I have to give oral prior to penetration every time.

Take notes, take longer to link, take time to vet. I talk weeks months before a meet. I develop feelings before a meet. Sometimes they are local sometimes far. And for every 200 ppl I talk to I may meet 2 and out of em one lasts.

U got off too easy. U could use a Chasity cage

Neither or. I enjoy feeling like I'm more than I am as most do. Challenge me, learn me. Vet. Too needy is a bad look on anyone. I take my time to value u as a person, ur needs, an assess what I can offer u then we hone in on those abilities and sharpen the rest. But to know what quality care u can Read more… recieve isn't apparent just by u asking would u cage me? Can I be your toilet mistress. I live the dynamic I redirect praise reward discipline teach punish and reward. It's all organic and never looks the same. Burn ur need for a script come get nurtured used legit

Find one who is willing to do all things. I added so many things I love in a few months. I require flexibility in a sub.

Lmao I don't celebrate but.... This makes me feel like I'm definitely missing out. Hahaha

Mmmm I'm working on inducing lactation. This made me very anxious. I can't wait

I'm a switch, there's activities I enjoy like being choked. I can order my sub to do them and I get it all on domness mode. But it's possible I'll meet someone who I respect and view in a way that makes me feel like rip toeing and being more back seat. For now I'm the driver. Sex is different with Read more… different people. Two weeks ago there was 2 things I was kind of closed off to. Then I met someone who shyly said I like to dress up. Alone I thought of him in a skirt getting bound and now I have to have it. Someone else it may not be for me. But I love him being my housewife. New organic language and views emerged and it's amazing to see what can evolve when ur open minded, considerate, and compromising. We're here to grow. If ur fixed u either really know urself already or you're in the wrong place. Imo

Yes. It happens. I changed my whole orientation lol.

More or less I fully agree. It equips you to adopt a role with all its properties. Not just sex top or bottom.

I believe all of us here have desires, interests, unique to us. We're viewed outside as extreme or out the norm. Some of us are more in tune with why we like what we like and others ponder n some just accept it n think no further. To really answer ur question u need to ask the one you're with. Keep Read more… in mind some of these responses are going to be possible trauma, or from exposures, some things are never spoken and some will come after trust. It's awesome to feel invested in enough to answer. Be sensitive, open minded, and offer aftercare when asking.
Personally I'm a switch I possess the extremes of both Dom and sub. There was a younger more vulnerable me she loved guidance, accountability, and to be all accommodating without need to request. She's my sub side 15 yrs ago.
I am now the head of my household, I'm independent, nurturing, and possess the tact to include my needs and wants. I am the one everyone turns to I solve all problems and take on each need as presented. I am the queen, the boss, and the leader of my unit. This is my boss status now.
In a relationship I show I care by all I do. And yes that means owning that whore. But I respect my partner and dream of long term goals where we build an empire. I still value and respect a man. I give him his space and role accordingly. But also I ask the same in return. And in bed I can b the boss or switch it up. It all comes natural. But the trip here took much life experience and feeling extremely limited. But this bitch b out now in full effect.