Hi @PurpleNjoyer,
I well understand your dilema, At 55 having been legally blind since birth, And only in the last few years having dipped my toes into the kink community.
Additionally to my visual impairment i tend to be very nervous and anxious in social situation were I don;t know anyone or I Read more… am meeting new people for the first time.
In many ways, for the most part the Kink / Fetish community is almost easier than general society, because there is so much awareness and emphasis regarding, Consent, respect and not judging people on their differences or lifestyle choices. Obviously being blind or having a visual impairment is not a lifestyle choice but the respecting other and nonjudgmental attitude spills over to a large extent to all area's including disability's. At least in my limited 3 - 4 years very tentatively delving into this community I have experinced mush less negativity and toxic judgemental behaviour towards my disability than in general vanilla society.
In terms of the logisitics of orientation and mobility in clubs and munches, Again in my limited experience they have been dark and often with much subdued lighting or very bright coloured spot lighting particularly reds, violet / purple spot lighting which is especially difficult for me as with my eye condition where i do not have the iris which controls the light coming into the eye like an apeture on a camera, so sudden changes from very bright to very dark takes my one remaining useable eye a lot longer to adjust than for most people. Heck just walking down a footpath where there is a lot of changes in light from full sun to shadow from trees can have me taking of my sunglasses and putting them back on every 20 - 30 seconds under my cap
If you already use a white cane (street name; the blind man stick) for mobility in everyday life either fulltime or just when needed I would strongly recommend using that when visiting clubs etc, If not for literal mobility reasons, but they also are a great way of highlighting that you have visual issues and that if you accidnetally bump someone, a chair etc. or are percieved to be looking wierdly (yes it's a technical term :-P) at peoole because of your poor vision and they are much less likely to quickly judge or think you are just a rude obnoxious person. You also get the bonus points of it being a conversation starter when people (well, the normal reasonable ones anyway) ask about it in an attempt to learn and understand what it is about and why you use it. Double bonus points if you are comfortable and want to be a bit cheeky, You get to use that to bring into the conversation how blind guys are really good with sticks and balls. :-) and how blind / low vision people are very tactile, (due to life necessity.)
If you are not a White cane user, perhaps consider the use of a mini guide a small (fits easily in the palm of your hand ) ultrasonic obstacle decector. These are great for smaller spaces where a long cane can be difficult to use. You generally need a little orientantion and mobility training to get proficient using them but they are a lot more discreet than a white cane. if you are concerned about the stigma that can come from some when using them. Or the assumption that becuase you are using a white cane you MUST be completely blind or faking it for sympathy.

Hopefully many other countries will follow the UK’s lead on this front.

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