Im 6ft athletic build. I enjoy the gym sports outdoor activities.
Desires and Fantasies
For me being a master is also being a sub.
Let me explain. While i like to find a womans levels im actually being controlled by them subconsciously. My sub is giving signals of what they like. If they are excited, hurt or nervously waiting to learn her limits. Also while i might be acting in charge im driven by my lust for my sub. Her body drives my urges. Her pleasure is making my kinks tick. Her every moan whimper or squirm of the body is secretly controlling my actions. There is a fine line to sub/dom relationships when it comes to who is actually in control. A submissive is actually more powerful than most men realise. Being a dom for me isn't 1 way, for me im getting my kicks from making my subs expierence perfect for her.
I'm open and willing to try almost anything but scat Is the hardest of limits.
Blood, branding, burning, extreme pain cutting.
Just some ideas off the top of my head. The elastic band on the wrist. Subtle sharp pain no visible marks or uneasy for your partner to witness. I suggest things like nipple clamps there's shockers electro causes the same feeling without your partner needing yo physically exert to cause it. Wax Read more… melts. Hair pulling. Tickle torture. Clamping or tying of boobs them groping can cause a decent level of pain. Binding rope play in uncomfortable positions. Sitting/ kneeling on uncomfortable surfaces. Extreme cold hosing. Ice cube play
Loads of "Doms" here eill tell you it's a full package deal. You must submit fully without any reward to your own kinks and needs. This is wrong. I'm sure there are others who understand the need of their partner and will offer such services. Be true to yourself spanking can be the gateway but Read more… nobody should be forces to run before they walk.
The hardest thing in life is having a good thing but being untrue to yourself or your other. All to often in life people walk unwilling into commitment when growth changes a person. Its unfair for both parties to string things along knowing that a road block ahead will cause hurt and pain to one Read more… or both. The most important part of kink and being a good partner is transparency regardless of how difficult or how much you are losing. A professional dom can see if the relationship has outgrown the dynamic and a real caring dom knows they must reevaluate terms and if they cant be agreed there must be amicable parting of the ways. This separates those who are genuine and those who are disingenuous. It sounds to me like your submissive has come to you with a growth moment to negotiate terms. The only valid response is to find mutual ground or accept crossed paths and part ways.