I'm a bisexual woman. I'm a masochist, middle and a sub brat.
I consider myself amusing and laid back but also complicated. I am extremely loyal and very friendly. But I can also be a little needy, when I'm serious about someone. I'm honest to a fault. I enjoy reading. painting. making resin things. I'm a gamer and play d&d, maybe little bit of a nerd heehee. I'm hopelessly romantic. I love the beach and a good snuggle. I am sweet and kind to people I care about. I wear my heart on my sleeve and hate lying and liars. I need good communication from a partner.
I would someone who likes me for me. Who is genuine and can make me smile and bring more joy to my life. Someone who is honest and caring. Who respects my boundreys. I find super casual very unsatisfactory, especially when it comes to bdsm. I can't do long distance either. I am a genuine submissive, I do not sub for fun I take it seriously. I am not a toy to be played with and discarded when bored, message me as such and I will reject the message and block.
want to know something? just ask. I don't hide much. I have fibromyalgia, worth noting. >>Open the message with a joke and I will know you have taken the time to read my profile. and I'm much more likely to respond.
poop and puke.
Also being ignored. Will never tolerate this as a form of punishment from a dom. Its a massive trigger for me. I dont mean oh I'm busy and haven't had time. but the ignoring which is deliberate and just to punish the sub. nope thank you!
Never shove my face into food. You may think its funny. I will not.
I don't understand how a cheating kink would ever work in a relationship? I find loyalty is a make or break for me. I'm incredibly loyal and I don't understand why people find cheating attractive. Maybe could understand it if the person had a kink about being cheated on...maybe....like a degrading Read more… thing. But to get off on hurting another person by cheating on them. I get the power of it. But I think its awful. One of the worst things you could do to someone. It damages them so much. Trust is also really important in bdsm relationships too.
Limited info. Listed as single but they are with someone. Just saying hi but not actually reading your profile.
How they react to an objection. Or if you disagree with them. How someone reacts tells you so much about them.
I'm disabled. And it's on my profile. But I find with an understanding partner, it doesn't matter so much. It sometimes effects my partner but I try not to. I also find that it weeds out the d heads real quick though because they don't have the patience to even read up on my disability.
I just Read more… find I have to be very honest with partners and prospective partners about how it effects me. I find most real kink gentlemen tend to be open minded.
Your needs are valid too. Relationships need to evolve and adapt or they won't succeed. You need to sit down and talk to them. Even if there is no solution. So they are aware of how you feel. Or the envy may turn to resentment.
Don't tolerate that. Say what you need before you ever have a session either a new person. Should always have been discussed in detail. Then if they don't follow up with what was requested...leave...
A good dom will never leave a sub like that.
Respectful sub brat with middle tendencies.
I love it and hate it. It's torture!