I was originally a submissive rl poly relationship. The idea of being submissive was fine, I am a switch, but I found out with a craptastic Dom and me being far more Dominant than I thought , that it wasn't something I enjoyed. It was more for me , seeing someone else in the position I was in than Read more… being in the submissive role that was a turn on and enjoyable. I bet there are also considerably more women who fall into the D/s roles that really don't fit them, but believe it's how it should be by those generational expectations and or just don't understand how to really be that role in a relationship.

In general, I believe most littles want to just be protected and cared for and to let go. The variety of what a little is, is based on the person. From age play to just needing their lives taken over and being held and wanted.
I'm not a little, I'm a Dommy Mommy, and I would expect any little, just Read more… as in any other kink or fetish type of submissive to explain to me what they would need and expect from their Mommy/Daddy and if that would fit.