Hi Serenity, I don't think that Subs can be too submissive. You would still have to train the person as to how you expect things to be done. I have been told that I'm stricter than previous Doms so there is always work to do. I like a cheeky personality in a sub, but I find Brats too annoying.

In my 24/7 Dom/Sub relationships I do all the normal relationship things too. I dont do this, but it was just a sexual Dom/Sub relationship I would have a conversation with my sub before and would talk and cuddle during Aftercare. So a friendship is possible in the 2nd scenario too. I'm a friendly Read more… person as well as being very strict, so I guess it depends on the couple.

Hi PF, Im not a switch and I cant begin to understand them. An experienced Dom/Domme doesnt have to be cruel though. Choose a sub who wants what you're willing to provide. You need to read a lot, experience a lot and know what you're doing. A bad Dom could easily injure someone permanently.

It could be ok if it's on HBO. Harry Potter brings joy to a lot of people, so it's all good.
Star Wars is a very generic story and given that there are only seven different narrative plots, nothing seems original or new.

Personally, No. I find Dominant women very unattractive, so I could never date a switch. I'm not saying being a switch isn't a thing. I just know deep down I'm a Dom. I just can't comprehend someone's fundamental identity being so fluid.

I agree with some of the earlier comments. There will be a scene but it will be further underground. Its human nature.

I like them when used properly. I know it's off topic, but id prefer a lady with nipple bars.

No mention of Aftercare in the initial discussions with your Dom, should be a large red flag for subs.

No mention or after care in the initial discussion should be a red flag for subs.

Thankyou for posting. I was about to post something as I have ADHD. It's even more difficult to find the way to your people when you have struggled to understand the rest of your life 😊

I had an automated rejection msg once on here. It annoyed me but had to respect her for her app knowledge 😀

I wanna tell you a little secret, being a Dom is just like being in love. No one needs to tell you you are in love, you just know it, through and through.Balls to Bones.