Chains

An aesthetic that's hard to beat

For all chain lovers

Real chains don't usually have all that much of a place in BDSM, being as they are heavy and cumbersome and expensive, but that doesn't mean nobody uses them - and there's certainly an aesthetic effect to them that is hard to beat. if you'd like to try them out, have a look around your local DIY shop - they often sell chains of various weights by the metre there, and while you're in-store you can pick up a few padlocks to complete the set with!

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QuietConfident

QuietConfident

Male (35)    170 cm, 80 kg

Friends, BDSM Lovers, LTR (relationship)

Chichester, UK

E-dUbBs

E-dUbBs

Male (37)    180 cm, 75 kg

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates, Friends, NSA (no strings...), LTR (relationship), Pic Exchange, Cybersex, Networking

London, UK

DaddyHurtsBest

DaddyHurtsBest

Male (30)    185 cm, 78 kg

BDSM Lovers, Friends, LTR (relationship), Events & Places

London, UK

HarshestMale

HarshestMale

Male (34)    184 cm, 81 kg

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Leeds, UK

morris159

morris159

Male (58)    176 cm, 96 kg

BDSM Lovers, Friends, NSA (no strings...), Pic Exchange, Cybersex

London, UK

Toxicfiction

Toxicfiction

Male (62)    201 cm, 100 kg

BDSM Lovers, LTR (relationship)

Corydon, USA

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BerryBrighton

BerryBrighton

Female (37)    150 cm, - kg

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates

Brighton and Hove, UK

Tactile2468

Tactile2468

Female (43)    157 cm, 55 kg

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Cardiff, UK

Femalegoth97

Femalegoth97

Female (21)    - cm, 65 kg

BDSM Lovers, NSA (no strings...), Friends, LTR (relationship)

Ellesmere Port, UK

KinkyBrat19

KinkyBrat19

Female (30)

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Flintshire, UK

paige_me

paige_me

Female (33)    162 cm, - kg

Friends, Events & Places, Networking

Salford, UK

Bambie

Bambie

Female (21)    152 cm, 92 kg

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Fayetteville, USA

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SadoPaarHZ

SadoPaarHZ

Female/Male (53/58)    165/172 cm, 66/68 kg

BDSM Lovers, LTR (relationship)

Halberstadt, Germany

caraviri

caraviri

Female/Male (37/57)    58/- cm, -/- kg

BDSM Lovers, NSA (no strings...), Swingers, Kinky Dates

Flintshire, UK

NandS

NandS

Male/Female (41/27)    180/167 cm, -/- kg

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates, LTR (relationship)

Bournemouth, UK

Abirdinthehand

Abirdinthehand

Female/Male (37/43)    -/- cm, -/- kg

BDSM Lovers, Friends, NSA (no strings...), Pic Exchange, Events & Places

Stockton-on-Tees, UK

PaulandSyl

PaulandSyl

Male/Female (38/38)    200/184 cm, 92/- kg

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates, Friends, NSA (no strings...), Swingers, Events & Places

Leicester, UK

Xtasia

Xtasia

Female/Male (42/58)    -/- cm, -/- kg

NSA (no strings...), Friends, Swingers, Friend with benefits, Events & Places, BDSM Lovers

West Bromwich, UK

 Why should you use chains for bondage?

Ask anyone about bondage and they’re bound to mention chains. They are heavy, cold and un-giving. They make it incredibly hard to move freely because of the weight and once secured they stay in position unlike rope which has a little give.

Psychologically being chained is strongly linked to slavery and servitude, so you manipulate your sub/bottom’s frame of mind as well as their body when chain is used.

How do you play safely with chains?

Unlike rope, you can’t cut through metal links so you need to make sure the connectors used are easy to release in case of emergency. Chains have no give in them, so don’t put them on too tight as they won’t loosen. Always have a safeword in place and release the bottom if they get intense pain, ins and needles or numbness in an area that is bound.

Do I need to buy specialist bondage chain?

No, not at all. You can buy chain from your local DIY store. Just think about the size of link for what you want to use it for and how heavy it’s going to be!

Can I use a chain just for restraint?

Chains can also be used for temperature play, as you can make them very cold by putting them in a freezer or warm by putting them in hot water (be careful not to scold anyone though) and also can be used for costumes and dressing up.

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