About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- Events & Places
- BDSM Lovers
Description
Seeking a relationship exclusively with a woman including kink.
I want someone who will be my partner and equal in life and a sub in the bedroom, or wherever else being a sub would be fun and satisfying
It's not all sex is it? I have passing interests in art, theatre, astronomy, astrophysics, Sudoku, other newspaper puzzles, DIY, property management, theology and psychotherapy. I play guitar (badly). I trained as an electrician. Housework = keeping it just above slovenly. I like bees but hate slugs. I don't like buttons (now that IS weird!) or tripe (and, yes, I have tried it - twice). I'm an INTJ to those who know what that means. like to think I can be funny, but that's for you to judge.
OK, so I'm new to the Kink thing, BUT I'd like to meet a woman who's prepared to explore being a Sub and who will accept that I may make mistakes. But if I do make a mistake and the safe word is used it all stops and the Sub is comforted and reassured. End of. It was my mistake. That's my understanding of how it works. Ideally sufficient discussion has been had so as to minimise the chance of a mistake or misunderstanding in the first place.
Restraint and administering corporal punishment would be my particular, society might say 'peculiar', interest. It's something we may need to work towards.
Desires and Fantasies
Disciplining the errant partner, bad secretary, naughty girl etc
Requiring submission in dress, posture, level of restraint(s)
Bringing the sub to a satisfactory conclusion too
Limits
Blood play.
Pissing.
Playing with cum.
Squirting.
Spitting.
Anything that isn't consensual.
I don't like tripe, buttons, large/extensive tattoos or wasps
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Anal Play
- Anal Sex
- Ball Gag
- BDSM
- BDSM Collar
- Bondage
- Bondage Shackles
- Bondage Belt
- Bondage Cuffs
- Breast Play
- Butts
- Chains
- Cuddling
- Deep Throating
- Dildos
- Dirty Talk
- Erotic Art
- Fingering
- Floggers
- Foreplay
- Handcuffs
- Handjobs
- Handyman - Housewife
- Kissing
- Masochism
- Masturbation
- Nipple Clamps
- Nipple Play
- Nipples
- Spanking Paddles
- Porn
- Rimming
- Ring Gag
- Sex Chat
- Sex In Bed
- Sex Toys
- Slave Training
- Spanking
- Spreader Bar
- Submission
- Subservience
- Vibrators
Wanna know what interests me?:
My places
Fetish.com gives you…
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If people are quibbling about the true-ness of you sub-ness I suggest you're better off being a true YOU, whatever that is, rather than fretting about leaping high enough to clear other people's hurdles
Notdeadyet - Good for you. I appreciate your sharing. Stick at it. I'm 70
ampd - I recommend you both read 'Decoding your kink' by Galen Fous. He refers in some depth to people discovering kink aspects of themselves while combating the tendency society has to make something perverse or dirty out of it.
I'm so sad to read this. I see what you're getting at, I think, but I've hugely appreciated getting to grips with insights into what I think of as 'kink in context' - arousal and stimulation as part of a wider experience of life incorporating kinky sex and kinky fantasy. Where would I find a more Read more… wide-ranging community to engage with?
Arch. Thanks (again) for your excellent overviews, explanations and cautions
I agree with @Top2Bottom2 & @R_Bunny3000. That kind of behaviour gives Doms a bad name and equates it with sexual abuse in my view.
You can role play the 'You must put me before anything' (and the consequences of not doing so!) scenario but only once both of you have discussed and agreed it. What happened to you sounds bullying and abusive. He'd be off my Christmas card list for sure
I want someone who will be my partner and equal in life and a sub in the bedroom, or wherever else being a sub would be fun and satisfying
It's not all sex is it? I have passing interests in art, theatre, astronomy, astrophysics, Read more… Sudoku, other newspaper puzzles, DIY, property management, theology and psychotherapy. I play guitar (badly). I trained as an electrician. Housework = keeping it just above slovenly. I like bees but hate slugs. I don't like buttons (now that IS weird!) or tripe (and, yes, I have tried it - twice). I'm an INTJ to those who know what that means. like to think I can be funny, but that's for you to judge.
OK, so I'm new to the Kink thing, BUT I'd like to meet a woman who's prepared to explore being a Sub and who will accept that I may make mistakes. But if I do make a mistake and the safe word is used it all stops and the Sub is comforted and reassured. End of. It was my mistake. That's my understanding of how it works. Ideally sufficient discussion has been had so as to minimise the chance of a mistake or misunderstanding in the first place.
Restraint and administering corporal punishment would be my particular, society might say 'peculiar', interest. It's something we may need to work towards.
Desires and Fantasies
Disciplining the errant partner, bad secretary, naughty girl etc
Requiring submission in dress, posture, level of restraint(s)
Bringing the sub to a satisfactory conclusion too
Pissing.
Playing with cum.
Squirting.
Spitting.
Anything that isn't consensual.
I don't like tripe, buttons, large/extensive tattoos or wasps
jdubbs978 - I think one of mine is what you might be looking for
As I've written before I'm rubbish at this. More by luck than judgement in my case. I've got: -
Top line - top left and third from the left
Second line - second third and fourth from the left
Third line - third from the left
Bottom line - fourth from the left
Anyone wants/needs a tile message me. Read more… I'm quite happy to give them a boost
I'm rubbish at finding these, dumb luck really. So if anyone wants one of mine just contact me and you'll be welcome.
This is a terrific overview of the main elements of grief and loss. Thanks
Terrific review of the scene. I'm very impressed with your input. Thank you
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