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Gender Man
Age 29
Status Single
Height 186cm
Weight 90kg
Body shape Average build
Sexual position More bottom
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Short
Beard 5 o'clock shadow
Orientation Bisexual
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Pubic Hair Shaved
Body hair None
Zodiac sign Aries
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings

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About me:

I've been involved in kink in some regard since I was around 16, for the majority of that time I considered myself purely submissive but have come to realise that I'm more of a switch as I've grown. That being said I would still consider myself sub heavy.

My BDSM Test can be found Read more… here:

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Masochist
100% Primal (Prey)
100% Degradee
100% Rope bunny
99% Sadist
98% Switch
96% Boy/Girl
92% Primal (Hunter)
90% Ageplayer
87% Experimentalist
84% Degrader
82% Pet
79% Submissive
76% Voyeur
75% Daddy/Mommy
63% Dominant
62% Rigger
53% Vanilla
49% Master/Mistress
49% Slave
49% Brat
46% Brat tamer
43% Owner
40% Exhibitionist
3% Non-monogamist

Dominant side:

My Dominant side almost always shows itself when I feel the need to be parental or nurturing with someone, not to say it always shows up every time I am that way but they usually coincide. Usually I'm very soft and caring however sometimes I can become quite sadistic, although it all depends on the situation, I find my sadism doesn't come out very often at all.

Submissive side:

This one is a lot easier to talk about for me because it's the one I have far more experience with. I find it incredibly easy to be submissive to someone if they're a good fit with me and I respect them. Generally appearance doesn't matter to me nor does age, it's the person I care about sincerely. Not to say it happens easily with everyone but when it's right it's incredibly obvious to me. When around someone I consider myself subservient to my attitude changes entirely and I feel safe and happy almost by default. I can be pretend cheeky at times but almost never genuinely, for the most part I don't really have a brat side or even much fight in me. I tend to be very obedient and follow instructions exactly, I'm terrible at even attempting to power bottom or anything similar, so much so that I'd consider it pretty close to, if not entirely, a limit.

Generally speaking when I'm in a submissive head space my number one focus is if my Dominant is happy with me/pleased. I'm almost always happy if they are. I derive the majority of my pleasure from pleasing them, in whatever form that may be, meaning a lot of the time I don't necessarily require sexual attention unless that is specifically wanted by them. Not only that but because I'm this way I've found thus far that I don't seem to have many hard limits. Depending on my dynamic with the person a few might arise however I'm yet to find many things to add to my list of limits from a submissive side.

Little side:

This one only usually comes out if I'm both submissive in some regard and very trusting of someone, takes a lot more time to show than the others although it's definitely part of me enough for me to feel the want to list here. It usually shows through an attitude and head space shift more than anything physically, is harder to explain here than the others. I tend to be far less masochistic when in this space and much more dependent on affection.

Travel:

I tend to move around a lot for one reason or another, I'm based in Scarborough but am often around York, Leeds, Manchester, Liverpool, Sheffield, Durham, Middlesbrough, Darlington and London among a few others so travelling generally isn't an issue for me.

Contacting me:

If you'd like to contact me please feel free, I'm open to any type of message and guarantee a reply to everything, I'll delete this text if that is ever not true. I'm friendly honest ♥

I don't plan on uploading many photos, generally I'm not one for sharing my own nudity publicly or anything close to it. I can assure you I am who I say though and would of course be willing to prove it if genuine interest was to arise.

If you made it this far then thank you so much for reading, it's honestly appreciated. Hope you have a good day. ♥
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About me:

I've been involved in kink in some regard since I was around 16, for the majority of that time I considered myself purely submissive but have come to realise that I'm more of a switch as I've grown. That being said I would still consider myself sub heavy.

My BDSM Read more… Test can be found here:

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Masochist
100% Primal (Prey)
100% Degradee
100% Rope bunny
99% Sadist
98% Switch
96% Boy/Girl
92% Primal (Hunter)
90% Ageplayer
87% Experimentalist
84% Degrader
82% Pet
79% Submissive
76% Voyeur
75% Daddy/Mommy
63% Dominant
62% Rigger
53% Vanilla
49% Master/Mistress
49% Slave
49% Brat
46% Brat tamer
43% Owner
40% Exhibitionist
3% Non-monogamist

Dominant side:

My Dominant side almost always shows itself when I feel the need to be parental or nurturing with someone, not to say it always shows up every time I am that way but they usually coincide. Usually I'm very soft and caring however sometimes I can become quite sadistic, although it all depends on the situation, I find my sadism doesn't come out very often at all.

Submissive side:

This one is a lot easier to talk about for me because it's the one I have far more experience with. I find it incredibly easy to be submissive to someone if they're a good fit with me and I respect them. Not to say it happens easily with everyone but when it's right it's incredibly obvious to me. When around someone I consider myself subservient to my attitude changes entirely and I feel safe and happy almost by default. I can be pretend cheeky at times but almost never genuinely, for the most part I don't really have a brat side or even much fight in me. I tend to be very obedient and follow instructions exactly, I'm terrible at even attempting to power bottom or anything similar, so much so that I'd consider it pretty close to, if not entirely, a limit.

Generally speaking when I'm in a submissive head space my number one focus is if my Dominant is happy with me/pleased. I'm almost always happy if they are. I derive the majority of my pleasure from pleasing them, in whatever form that may be, meaning a lot of the time I don't necessarily require sexual attention unless that is specifically wanted by them. Not only that but because I'm this way I've found thus far that I don't seem to have many hard limits. Depending on my dynamic with the person a few might arise however I'm yet to find many things to add to my list of limits from a submissive side.

Little side:

This one only usually comes out if I'm both submissive in some regard and very trusting of someone, takes a lot more time to show than the others although it's definitely part of me enough for me to feel the want to list here. It usually shows through an attitude and head space shift more than anything physically, is harder to explain here than the others. I tend to be far less masochistic when in this space and much more dependent on affection.

Other:

If you'd like to contact me please feel free, I'm open to any type of message and guarantee a reply to everything, I'll delete this text if that is ever not true.

I don't plan on uploading many photos, generally I'm not one for sharing my own nudity publicly or anything close to it. I can assure you I am who I say though.

If you made it this far then thank you so much for reading, it's honestly appreciated. Hope you have a good day. ♥
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