I am mainly blaming capitalism but also the people (i only have experiance with women) that aren‘t really into this but just do it for *** anyway. Not people who do this as a job with passion, no. Because those usually aren‘t the problem.
Also the Problem is that this exact people are the ones Read more… shaming it the most. Wich in turn discurages others from joining or, at this point you might aswell say „coming out“.
There used to be a Point where it was okay to say that you are into this stuff but the extreme commercialising of kinks to the point where basically everyone thinks that men with this kinks are just weird lonely freaks who only deserve love for *** or not at all is what really broke the szene for most of the young ppl

Imo the problem is that kinks got commercialised too hard. Most dom women my age are using this site to sell themselves, exploit the community for *** and barely any „real“ kinksters that actually wanna meet up and do things or get to know people remain.

Honestly it felt weird. I was submitting in the cause of a truth or dare game with some Friends and the girl i submitted to irdered me around and made me massage her feet. It was pure fun for her but for me it awoke something. The longer it lasted the more i enjoyed it and since then i crave the Read more… feeling more than anything else

Getting Trampled

Getting beaten up by a girl