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Please READ my profile before assuming I want to be your Daddy or have a hook up. I don’t.
I’ll start by saying I am not new to this lifestyle, I am also not new to FetLife and just joined again.
Do not ask me about my profession and what I do for work.
Please know that I am not interested in hook-up, FWB or Poly relationships. I’m on here to genuinely find a long term partner that wants the best of both worlds, vanilla and kink for life. I care about a deep connection and love, you can laugh all you like but that’s whats important to me.
I’m looking to find that balance with the right girl that wants a vanilla and a kinky lifelong relationship, and to build a beautiful life together potentially. I’m very caring, affectionate and loving when it comes to my partner. That being said, I believe in working on the relationship no matter what barriers and problems life throws at us. I tend to devote myself to the person I am with, I can be protective and possessive because I believe in being with only 1 partner for life. That devotion doesn’t come from any faith, it’s just something I have grown up to believe and care about. I would hope that my partner also is protective of me.
I predominantly fall in the Daddy-Dom category but I have Master and Sadist tendencies. I have a ENFJ personality so my Daddy-Dom side is right on point, I care a lot about my girl when I am with her and want to protect her. Her wellbeing is important to me as my partner means everything to me. My Master tenancies come from craving control and order, and I believe in ownership both ways as the D/s-M/s lifestyle is endearing to me.
My Sadist side is more so amplified by my partners love for the pleasure of , when she gets off of knowing I like to hurt her and she enjoys the herself, bit because I do, but because she does as well.
I require a woman that can give me attention, affectionate and is able to keep up with it. I can’t reiterate enough, if you can’t give me enough attention on a daily basis, we won’t compatible. When I am with someone, they are MY priority and I MAKE time for them. Even at work, I make time for my partner to text her back or call.
As such, you can tell I need CRAVE consistency, routine and I believe in structure & discipline. If you are someone that needs the above from you partner and for him to be able to give you that, I will do so if we are compatible and are looking for the same things in life and from your partner.
What I am NOT looking for:
• Men
• Hook-ups/Casual Dating/Open relationships/FWB/Poly-anything
• Domme or Dominant/Switch or Goddess
• Someone older than me (39)
• Anyone NOT from London, ON and immediate area
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HARD NO LIMITS:
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• Cutting/Needles
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My Hobbies and interests:
• Travel, hiking and camping
• Anything to do with Dogs as I have GSD
• Computer repairs/tinkering, game console repairs and modding & other various electronics
• Home repairs, renovations & improvements
• 3D printing and model design
• Video games/Movies & Shows - anything Horror & Sci-fi
• Comic-Con and any other similar like gatherings
• Auctions
== My roles ==
100% Master/Mistress
100% Degrader
100% Sadist
100% Caregiver
53% Brat Tamer
43% Rigger
25% Brat
18% Hunter
18% Pet Owner
13% Pet
0% Rope Bunny
0% Slave
0% Degradee
0% Masochist
Puke
Cutting
Needles
Knifes or Guns
Underage minors
I dunno, does a cock belong in an asshole? Yes.
Why don’t you ask your friend? Lol
:1776142977,7058289, Very glad to see this comment on here. It's an interesting time when people are looking for advice on how to be seen as a hook-up-only person. No disrespect to the author of the OP, but it's nice to have someone mentioning sexual safety and I'd extend this Read more… to emotional health. Whether monogamy or polygamy, in my personal opinion any connection is more nourishing if it is involving the whole system, including the heart. That doesn't mean that it has to become a marriage-like situation as in forever and ever, but for whatever time is being spend together, there is a deeper and I'd claim a more fulfilling connection.
Unfortunately, I agree, it seems there's a clear tendency towards quick and physical. However, what the excessive consumption of fast food leads to is no secret.
I’ve honestly become more of a Demisexual person, I can’t jump in bed with just anyone anymore. I feel I would need a deeper bond and connection, I want to know that the person I’m with is strongly and deeply attached to me emotionally. I want to form an emotional bond, I want person be me “My person” and I theirs.
When you know someone is afraid to show you all their emotions and feelings, whatever they may be. You just appreciate that person so much more. You both know you aren’t afraid to be weak in front of one another if and when the time comes, only to reply on the other person to help you get backup and not take advantage of your low.
Interesting this topic came up, I have been thinking a lot lately about how I only see women looking for nothing serious/casual/etc. or majority are Poly. This goes for dating apps and kink websites like FetIfe and Fet app.
I make my intentions known on my profile, I don’t do hookups/casual/open Read more… relationship or Poly anything. While I’m not religious, my dating values are more so stemming from my *** and European nationality.
When I think of dating someone, I don’t think of dating multiple people, but solely 1 person at a time. I don’t like how dating has gone to people dating multiple people at once, then the other person doesn’t even say anything about it and you don’t know if they’re being sexually safe with other people.
People are fucking greedy, they want instant gratification and won’t commit to 1 thing. If people see something better and they can acquire it, they’ll dump and leave the person their with currently. The way these people don’t have any emotional attachment to someone they’re seeing is fucking scary, they’ll lie about loving you and caring about you.
Dating is a fucking joke.
Yeah I found that the website/app sensors it because they don’t want people selling things or themselves on here lol.
Yup, the “I don’t give care” mentality prevails in today’s day and age with lots of the people. People all too often ghost and avoid communication altogether because they can’t form a sentence let alone a profile that’s worth anyone’s time.
Apparently this app blanks out the word “m o n e y” with ***
You aren’t wrong, you hit so many points that are the truth. I’m starting to question is kink, fetishes and BDSM can have a long lasting and happy relationship. I genuinely seek love and someone to spend the end of time with while being into the all the kinks/fetishes and BDSM, but, people are so Read more… against a single partner that wants it all and look for whats the best next thing. Hence why I get frustrated and give up for weeks if not months trying dating. I sometimes wish I had stayed vanilla as to be in a loving relationship instead. There is another theory of mine, western society doesn’t value relationships and *** as European, middle eastern and Asian cultures. I was born in Europe but live in Canada. I see *** back home that have happy relationships, *** and function as a nuclear ***. Here in Canada it’s all about what’s better and who can I swipe in next, do they make good *** and are they attractive.
That stuff isn’t toxic for the junk and doesn’t cause bad redness/rash after? They area can be really sensitive!
