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Some things to clear up right away:
• Do NOT message me if you are outside of LONDON, ONTARIO!
• If you’re going to message me, I’m not looking for someone who wants to play games and never messages back.
• If you recognize as a “Goddess” or a “Switch”, I’m not interested.
• Not looking for hookups, I can get attached too easily and value a meaningful relationship.
• I'm very much monogamous and Demi-sexual. I’m okay with my girl being with another girl(I don’t have to be involved, but I have to be present). I am not okay with other men involved physically in anyway with my girl.
• I am not into polygamy or “open relationships”. I just want 1 partner, that’s it. So, stop bothering me.
• I do not want to meet just anyone on here for a quick hook up or to dominate you. I'm looking for something real, meaningful, serious and a relationship over "hook-ups" or "casual dating".
• I have a social life and work outside my Kinky and Dominate side, so someone who wants more than sex and likes being social together.
• I do not want ANY online relationships of any kind.
What I’m after:
I am a Dom-Daddy, but one who wishes a submissive to find a feeling of strength from wanting to kneel and offer your submission, in return you will find that place where you are held and shown that care and affection when you have done well and made your Master proud in what ever way that may end up being. Both, with me or even something you have had to overcome in your day to day....Just as much as you will find that disappointment will find you punished in a place where your tears mean very little.. I am looking for something built on trust and honesty from the start, so if you would like to find something real, and something lasting where you can enjoy the feeling of pleasure from truly being collard and having a place to call home in your ownership.
What I want and need:
Please read and understand my needs, wants, agreements, etc in an ideal sub/little/partner/match:
I need someone who like me is extremely needy of their partner and likes constant attention from them, I like a girl that is clingy.
You LOVE being with and around their Daddy all the time, unless either of us are working.
I like to text and message all day, so if you can’t give back the same amount of attention, we won’t work :/
I like and need consistency, a LOT.
I don’t like my girl hanging out with other men alone, unless it’s family. I can get jealous due to some bad ex-partner, I’m sorry I’m not perfect. I don’t hang out with women period, I really feel like that is not ok to do when you are with someone.
I can be possessive of what’s mine. I’m putting it out there so you are aware and can’t handle that. I actually like my girl being possessive and territorial of me, it makes me feel like that person cares about me, gives a shit and it excites me sexually.
How it all started:
Well, it started years ago when I was discovering who I really am and how I didn't realize why I was the way I am. I got introduced into BDSM/DDlg with a girl I was seeing who I didn't know was into BDSM, Dom/sub or DDlg lifestyle. She brought the Daddy in me first; the caring, affectionate, loving and protective side while we dated. Later on we went even further by exploring what she enjoyed…..being spanked and other forms of impact play, breath play, hair pulling, anal play, nipple/breast play, /, etc….so many kinks to list and my Kinks and fetishes started to open up. Then we started to explore the role playing....I found out I enjoyed Taboo sex like Father/daughter and Daddy/little girl and everything to do with it. I loved that I was able to explore the / aspects of BDSM. From all that, I also learned to provide aftercare for my partner when the sessions were long and/or rough. Me being someone that is extremely affectionate, caring and emotional person, I tend to care a lot about MY person, her mental health and wellbeing.
About me:
I was born in ex-Yugoslavia close during the start of the war in the 90’s, my family fled to Germany where we lived for some years until we applied for Canadian residency. In ‘99 me and my family moved to Ontario to settle here in London eventually and get Canadian citizenship. I recently started working for the government and I am truly humbled with my job. When I am dating and with someone, I only care about my partner and they come first above everything else and of course my pup. European people are family oriented and care more for them on a different level than North Americans Iv’e noticed. Maybe that’s where my “Daddy” side in the Daddy-Dom comes from? Lol.
My Hobbies and interests:
• Travel, hiking and camping
• Anything to do with Dogs as I have GSD
• Computer repairs/tinkering, game console repairs and modding & other various electronics
• Home repairs, renovations & improvements
• 3D printing and model design
• Video games/Movies & Shows - anything Horror & Sci-fi
• Comic-Con and any other similar like gatherings
• Auctions
== My roles ==
100% Master/Mistress
100% Degrader
100% Sadist
100% Caregiver
53% Brat Tamer
43% Rigger
25% Brat
18% Hunter
18% Pet Owner
13% Pet
0% Rope Bunny
0% Slave
0% Degradee
0% Masochist
Puke
Cutting
Needles
Knifes or Guns
Underage minors
I dunno, does a cock belong in an asshole? Yes.
Why don’t you ask your friend? Lol
:1776142977,7058289, Very glad to see this comment on here. It's an interesting time when people are looking for advice on how to be seen as a hook-up-only person. No disrespect to the author of the OP, but it's nice to have someone mentioning sexual safety and I'd extend this Read more… to emotional health. Whether monogamy or polygamy, in my personal opinion any connection is more nourishing if it is involving the whole system, including the heart. That doesn't mean that it has to become a marriage-like situation as in forever and ever, but for whatever time is being spend together, there is a deeper and I'd claim a more fulfilling connection.
Unfortunately, I agree, it seems there's a clear tendency towards quick and physical. However, what the excessive consumption of fast food leads to is no secret.
I’ve honestly become more of a Demisexual person, I can’t jump in bed with just anyone anymore. I feel I would need a deeper bond and connection, I want to know that the person I’m with is strongly and deeply attached to me emotionally. I want to form an emotional bond, I want person be me “My person” and I theirs.
When you know someone is afraid to show you all their emotions and feelings, whatever they may be. You just appreciate that person so much more. You both know you aren’t afraid to be weak in front of one another if and when the time comes, only to reply on the other person to help you get backup and not take advantage of your low.
Interesting this topic came up, I have been thinking a lot lately about how I only see women looking for nothing serious/casual/etc. or majority are Poly. This goes for dating apps and kink websites like FetIfe and Fet app.
I make my intentions known on my profile, I don’t do hookups/casual/open Read more… relationship or Poly anything. While I’m not religious, my dating values are more so stemming from my family and European nationality.
When I think of dating someone, I don’t think of dating multiple people, but solely 1 person at a time. I don’t like how dating has gone to people dating multiple people at once, then the other person doesn’t even say anything about it and you don’t know if they’re being sexually safe with other people.
People are fucking greedy, they want instant gratification and won’t commit to 1 thing. If people see something better and they can acquire it, they’ll dump and leave the person their with currently. The way these people don’t have any emotional attachment to someone they’re seeing is fucking scary, they’ll lie about loving you and caring about you.
Dating is a fucking joke.
Yeah I found that the website/app sensors it because they don’t want people selling things or themselves on here lol.
Yup, the “I don’t give care” mentality prevails in today’s day and age with lots of the people. People all too often ghost and avoid communication altogether because they can’t form a sentence let alone a profile that’s worth anyone’s time.
Apparently this app blanks out the word “m o n e y” with ***
You aren’t wrong, you hit so many points that are the truth. I’m starting to question is kink, fetishes and BDSM can have a long lasting and happy relationship. I genuinely seek love and someone to spend the end of time with while being into the all the kinks/fetishes and BDSM, but, people are so Read more… against a single partner that wants it all and look for whats the best next thing. Hence why I get frustrated and give up for weeks if not months trying dating. I sometimes wish I had stayed vanilla as to be in a loving relationship instead. There is another theory of mine, western society doesn’t value relationships and family as European, middle eastern and Asian cultures. I was born in Europe but live in Canada. I see family back home that have happy relationships, *** and function as a nuclear family. Here in Canada it’s all about what’s better and who can I swipe in next, do they make good *** and are they attractive.
That stuff isn’t toxic for the junk and doesn’t cause bad redness/rash after? They area can be really sensitive!
