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Personal details

Gender Man
Age 70
Status Single
Height 174cm
Weight 102kg
Body shape Curvy
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Grey
Hair length Long
Beard Full beard
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Pubic Hair Natural
Body hair Some hair
Zodiac sign Pisces
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings
Languages German
English

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

Description

Seeking a relationship exclusively with a woman including kink.

I want someone who will be my partner and equal in life and a sub in the bedroom, or wherever else being a sub would be fun and satisfying

It's not all sex is it? I have passing interests in art, theatre, astronomy, astrophysics, Sudoku, other newspaper puzzles, DIY, property management, theology and psychotherapy. I play guitar (badly). I trained as an electrician. Housework = keeping it just above slovenly. I like bees but hate slugs. I don't like buttons (now that IS weird!) or tripe (and, yes, I have tried it - twice). I'm an INTJ to those who know what that means. like to think I can be funny, but that's for you to judge.

OK, so I'm new to the Kink thing, BUT I'd like to meet a woman who's prepared to explore being a Sub and who will accept that I may make mistakes. But if I do make a mistake and the safe word is used it all stops and the Sub is comforted and reassured. End of. It was my mistake. That's my understanding of how it works. Ideally sufficient discussion has been had so as to minimise the chance of a mistake or misunderstanding in the first place.
Restraint and administering corporal punishment would be my particular, society might say 'peculiar', interest. It's something we may need to work towards.

Desires and Fantasies
Disciplining the errant partner, bad secretary, naughty girl etc
Requiring submission in dress, posture, level of restraint(s)
Bringing the sub to a satisfactory conclusion too

Limits

Blood play.
Pissing.
Playing with cum.
Squirting.
Spitting.
Anything that isn't consensual.
I don't like tripe, buttons, large/extensive tattoos or wasps

My places

Fetish.com gives you…


Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Coventry with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!

John54
icon-wio John54 wrote something in the forum
  • 01.05.2024 2:06:39
  • Male (70)
  • Coventry
  • Single
‘Are You a True Sub?’ and Other Questions - A Newbie’s Reaction to Toxic Rhetoric and Manipulative Language around Submission

If people are quibbling about the true-ness of you sub-ness I suggest you're better off being a true YOU, whatever that is, rather than fretting about leaping high enough to clear other people's hurdles

LikeRainbowTea, Wolfmandave83 · Jump to discussion
John54
icon-wio John54 wrote something in the forum
  • 09.04.2024 12:23:10
  • Male (70)
  • Coventry
  • Single
Tips for people who want to meet kink minded partners

Notdeadyet - Good for you. I appreciate your sharing. Stick at it. I'm 70

John54
icon-wio John54 wrote something in the forum
  • 06.04.2024 17:01:48
  • Male (70)
  • Coventry
  • Single
new Dom, facing unexpected issues

ampd - I recommend you both read 'Decoding your kink' by Galen Fous. He refers in some depth to people discovering kink aspects of themselves while combating the tendency society has to make something perverse or dirty out of it.

John54
icon-wio John54 wrote something in the forum
  • 03.04.2024 8:42:58
  • Male (70)
  • Coventry
  • Single
When The Magic Is Lost

I'm so sad to read this. I see what you're getting at, I think, but I've hugely appreciated getting to grips with insights into what I think of as 'kink in context' - arousal and stimulation as part of a wider experience of life incorporating kinky sex and kinky fantasy. Where would I find a more Read more… wide-ranging community to engage with?

John54
icon-wio John54 wrote something in the forum
  • 01.03.2024 7:36:49
  • Male (70)
  • Coventry
  • Single
An Introduction to BDSM - Arch Style

Arch. Thanks (again) for your excellent overviews, explanations and cautions

John54
icon-wio John54 wrote something in the forum
  • 25.02.2024 22:35:36
  • Male (70)
  • Coventry
  • Single
Please help, was i a terrible person and wrong to block them?

I agree with @Top2Bottom2 & @R_Bunny3000. That kind of behaviour gives Doms a bad name and equates it with sexual abuse in my view.

LikeKyraKaterinaKerosna, LordMacTire83, GlitterieGodd3ssand 2 more… · Jump to discussion
John54
icon-wio John54 wrote something in the forum
  • 19.01.2024 16:08:42
  • Male (70)
  • Coventry
  • Single
Please help, was i a terrible person and wrong to block them?

You can role play the 'You must put me before anything' (and the consequences of not doing so!) scenario but only once both of you have discussed and agreed it. What happened to you sounds bullying and abusive. He'd be off my Christmas card list for sure

LikeKyraKaterinaKerosna · Jump to discussion
John54
icon-wio John54 found their first icon!
  • 18.08.2023 4:08:34
  • Male (70)
  • Coventry
  • Single
John54
icon-wio John54 has updated their profile description
  • 23.07.2023 1:12:24
  • Male (70)
  • Coventry
  • Single
Seeking a relationship exclusively with a woman including kink.

I want someone who will be my partner and equal in life and a sub in the bedroom, or wherever else being a sub would be fun and satisfying

It's not all sex is it? I have passing interests in art, theatre, astronomy, astrophysics, Read more… Sudoku, other newspaper puzzles, DIY, property management, theology and psychotherapy. I play guitar (badly). I trained as an electrician. Housework = keeping it just above slovenly. I like bees but hate slugs. I don't like buttons (now that IS weird!) or tripe (and, yes, I have tried it - twice). I'm an INTJ to those who know what that means. like to think I can be funny, but that's for you to judge.

OK, so I'm new to the Kink thing, BUT I'd like to meet a woman who's prepared to explore being a Sub and who will accept that I may make mistakes. But if I do make a mistake and the safe word is used it all stops and the Sub is comforted and reassured. End of. It was my mistake. That's my understanding of how it works. Ideally sufficient discussion has been had so as to minimise the chance of a mistake or misunderstanding in the first place.
Restraint and administering corporal punishment would be my particular, society might say 'peculiar', interest. It's something we may need to work towards.

Desires and Fantasies
Disciplining the errant partner, bad secretary, naughty girl etc
Requiring submission in dress, posture, level of restraint(s)
Bringing the sub to a satisfactory conclusion too
John54
icon-wio John54 has updated the limits
  • 23.07.2023 1:12:24
  • Male (70)
  • Coventry
  • Single
Blood play.
Pissing.
Playing with cum.
Squirting.
Spitting.
Anything that isn't consensual.
I don't like tripe, buttons, large/extensive tattoos or wasps
John54
icon-wio John54 wrote something in the forum
  • 17.06.2023 23:21:42
  • Male (70)
  • Coventry
  • Single
EXSENS TREASURE HUNT👄 AND THE WINNERS ARE...

jdubbs978 - I think one of mine is what you might be looking for

John54
icon-wio John54 wrote something in the forum
  • 17.06.2023 23:20:12
  • Male (70)
  • Coventry
  • Single
EXSENS TREASURE HUNT👄 AND THE WINNERS ARE...

As I've written before I'm rubbish at this. More by luck than judgement in my case. I've got: -
Top line - top left and third from the left
Second line - second third and fourth from the left
Third line - third from the left
Bottom line - fourth from the left
Anyone wants/needs a tile message me. Read more… I'm quite happy to give them a boost

John54
icon-wio John54 wrote something in the forum
  • 17.06.2023 17:15:49
  • Male (70)
  • Coventry
  • Single
EXSENS TREASURE HUNT👄 AND THE WINNERS ARE...

I'm rubbish at finding these, dumb luck really. So if anyone wants one of mine just contact me and you'll be welcome.

John54
icon-wio John54 wrote something in the forum
  • 03.06.2023 20:47:33
  • Male (70)
  • Coventry
  • Single
The Five Stages of Grief

This is a terrific overview of the main elements of grief and loss. Thanks

Likelil-monster, Mirtna · Jump to discussion
John54
icon-wio John54 wrote something in the forum
  • 03.06.2023 20:27:40
  • Male (70)
  • Coventry
  • Single
An Introduction to BDSM - Arch Style

Terrific review of the scene. I'm very impressed with your input. Thank you

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