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Well...where do you ever begin on these things lol... I'm saphy, I'm pretty much the kinda girl who wears her heart on her sleeve, I'm quite well balanced, socially extroverted with an attuned empathetic nature.
I'm a slave, so naturally I'm pleasing to be around (it's my job lol), I'm completely loyal, I'm stubborn at times but always right and I have a little bit of a minx (please note..NOT brat!) inside of me.
I'm a lover not a fighter but I'm a Taurean too....which translates to i'm territorial and animalistic and a typical nature girl....so I will lock horns with the best if you threaten me or mine in any way, shape or form. I love fiercely but I protect with my life. So, if I do get smart mouthed with ya...chances are you've overstepped and deserve it ;)
But outside all of that...I love people, I love learning and I love my lifestyle! ✌
Committed and devoted to mySir with every breath in my body. He's the other half to my whole, the Ying to my yang, the reason I wake each morning with a smile on my face. Utterly and completely....His. ❤️❤️❤️
Desires and fantasies...Hmmm...where to begin.
We all have a stronghold of fantasies and a treasure-trove of desires..but to whittle them down into what could be a reflection of reality? That's hard work. But here goes. Let's give it a bash.
I'm not by any means a 24/7 slave and nor am I interested in that dynamic but the concept of following rules that He's given, spending every moment of the day in His expectations and realising His every whim is something I find intriguing and irresistible. Personally, I don't see a lifestyle dynamic any differently than what a vanilla relationship/marriage should be...Yeah a few sprinkles here and there (ok, alot of sprinkles lol) but at the crux of it all, the connection and the respect, the trust given between the couple is what sets the foundations for what lies ahead. So that being said, I guess I desire a 'normal' relationship where I'm accepted for who I am, for my Sir to not think twice or raise an eyebrow when I kneel before Him, not because He's my Sir and it's protocol, but because He's everything I cherish and awe in a person and theres no other place I'd rather be.
My fantasies vary...theres experiences I've tried and enjoyed and would try again, which is fine in itself...but it's never the same experience you once had because you're not with that same person. We all react and thrive differently, so my fantasies I guess will never change in that regard but my experiences will.
My deepest, most thought consuming fantasy is to be outdoors, in nature and dressed in nothing but shibari...to be suspended on a frame and for the riggers art to be captivating an audience...to be blindfolded and sensory deprived, to be tantalised and teased by crops, floggers and cane and then to be used relentlessly suspended and debilitated. To feel complete in servitude, to feel myself drown in a melancholy of emotions...to be free of all that is for all that is given. To be slave. Utterly.
Depending on where your spanking...straps and tawses may be rather difficult to aim properly and chances are you might mark in places you hadn't intended. I spent a period of time where I was required to take punishment in His absence ....if found that a sturdy wooden hairbrush worked wonders at Read more… leaving marks as did the wooden sole of a sandal. The thing with canes, tawses, whips and paddles is that generally although they CAN be used if you're facilitating your own spanking...the best effects will only be given by these impliments IF the strength of the impact is behind the tool which typically requires another person.
I understand the need to feel those bruises in the days after...something reassuring and comforting about it. 😊 so I hope you get there and have plenty of sensations to enjoy.
There is no rule to say that submissives are unable to message Dominant types. I do however agree with whats been said already, the fear of rejection will be a barrier to most (submissive and Dominant alike) in saying that though, Dominants and submissives may have a variety of skills to hand, but Read more… you'll find most aren't psychic 😉
If you're interested in someone's abilities and see that person as a potential Dominant (and providing they are open to relationships!) Then go ahead...message them 😊 good communication is ALWAYS a key point within the communities.
Some will merit your messages with a reply, others who may not be interested might not. Usually though, it's respectful to be acknowledged regardless. Just be prepared to be accepting of whatever is given. 😊
The ONLY thing I will say is that IF your going to be messaging a pespective Dominant then be polite, courteous and respectful and remember being true to yourself and who you are is probably the most beneficial influence that first step will provide to the D type. First impressions DO count.
You're more than welcome lula 😊
I had assumed as much initially but it's best to be certain before you find yourself in a position where you assume wrongly ....there's a huge difference between being influenced by the perception of becoming Kajira to actually living the lifestyle of a Kajira, as I'm sure you understand firsthand. Read more… A Kajira will, without exception be dedicated and committed to excessiveness when it comes to servitude. Their ONLY priority is their Master and their life dictates such. It's such a hard lifestyle and one which deserves the highest levels of respect. I've been there and done that and know the lengths and measures that a Kajira will go to to serve their Master. Hence why I embraced my submissiveness again, it's not that my need for servitude is no longer there, its just my life dictates that I have limits to which I need to adhere to. So submissiveness and servitude can indeed embrace one another but it's quite the eclectic mix that's surreal in itself. I generalise it for the understanding of the broader spectrum as being 'slave to your submission'. But to extend on that theory, you have the benefit of teaching yourself about submission and what you strive to achieve and also, to embrace the slave within you so that those needs are met too. There is a lot online that you can immerse yourself in and I'm sure you'll find a hunger there that every submissive/slave feeds on. That need to be the best version of yourself that you could possibly be, because that's a responsibility we take upon ourselves, it's not something any One Master or Dominant can teach.
Your fire is your own..find it and fuel it.
Bright blessings and I hope you find your desired paths.
Firstly, what with your chosen name here...do you or did you strive to be a kajira at one point?? Does that still influence you? What do you identify with mostly? Servitude or submission? Alot of questions there but it allows a broader insight into the areas you wish to learn from 😊