Status

Not single

D/s relationship with Jed

Personal details

Gender Woman
Age 37
Status Not single
Height 172cm
Zodiac signs Taurus

About me

Description

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Well...where do you ever begin on these things lol... I'm saphy, I'm pretty much the kinda girl who wears her heart on her sleeve, I'm quite well balanced, socially extroverted with an attuned empathetic nature.
I'm a slave, so naturally I'm pleasing to be around (it's my job lol), I'm completely loyal, I'm stubborn at times but always right ;) and I have a little bit of a minx (please note..NOT brat!) inside of me.
I'm a lover not a fighter but I'm a Taurean too....which translates to i'm territorial and animalistic and a typical nature girl....so I will lock horns with the best if you threaten me or mine in any way, shape or form. I love fiercely but I protect with my life. So, if I do get smart mouthed with ya...chances are you've overstepped and deserve it ;)

But outside all of that...I love people, I love learning and I love my lifestyle! ✌

Committed and devoted to mySir with every breath in my body. He's the other half to my whole, the Ying to my yang, the reason I wake each morning with a smile on my face. Utterly and completely....His. ❤️❤️❤️

Fantasies

Desires and fantasies...Hmmm...where to begin.

We all have a stronghold of fantasies and a treasure-trove of desires..but to whittle them down into what could be a reflection of reality? That's hard work. But here goes. Let's give it a bash.

I'm not by any means a 24/7 slave and nor am I interested in that dynamic but the concept of following rules that He's given, spending every moment of the day in His expectations and realising His every whim is something I find intriguing and irresistible. Personally, I don't see a lifestyle dynamic any differently than what a vanilla relationship/marriage should be...Yeah a few sprinkles here and there (ok, alot of sprinkles lol) but at the crux of it all, the connection and the respect, the trust given between the couple is what sets the foundations for what lies ahead. So that being said, I guess I desire a 'normal' relationship where I'm accepted for who I am, for my Sir to not think twice or raise an eyebrow when I kneel before Him, not because He's my Sir and it's protocol, but because He's everything I cherish and awe in a person and theres no other place I'd rather be.

My fantasies vary...theres experiences I've tried and enjoyed and would try again, which is fine in itself...but it's never the same experience you once had because you're not with that same person. We all react and thrive differently, so my fantasies I guess will never change in that regard but my experiences will.

My deepest, most thought consuming fantasy is to be outdoors, in nature and dressed in nothing but shibari...to be suspended on a frame and for the riggers art to be captivating an audience...to be blindfolded and sensory deprived, to be tantalised and teased by crops, floggers and cane and then to be used relentlessly suspended and debilitated. To feel complete in servitude, to feel myself drown in a melancholy of emotions...to be free of all that is for all that is given. To be slave. Utterly.

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icon-wio saphy created a status update
So after four days and nights of camping with six kids....theres a need to apologise for our lack of appearance last night. We had placed an ad for an open play session but sadly, what with being SO unbelievably tired and the urgent need for us to FINALLY find our solace in each another...we got a Read more… little bit sidetracked to say the least. So our heartfelt apologies to those who were awaiting our arrival but we'd appreciate your understanding under the circumstances 😘😘 needless to say this girl has a little bit of a tender ass this morning and we had an amazing amazing time together as always ❤️❤️❤️
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icon-wio saphy created a status update
my head is filled with thoughts of mySir, not unlike any other day....but TODAY my libido has rocketed through the roof and His absence just now is sheer fucking torture!!!!!
I can't focus on anything (and I have sooooooo much to be doing!!!) all I want to do is constantly orgasm......we spoke Read more… last night at length! We uncovered some more layers and reminiscing over those conversations today, having those visuals play out in my head is so fucking intense!!!!!! 😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈 So I apologise in advance if You see me around today and I'm a little hyped 😂😂😂
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icon-wio saphy created a status update
So, here's a thought....how many people have clicked the fetish link for hypersexuality? I did and I curiously clicked it to see what was what and who was what, to find.....that there's nothing very much there at all.
Now the given google definition of hypersexuality is....

"Sexual addiction or Read more… hypersexuality is defined as a dysfunctional preoccupation with sexual fantasy, often in combination with the obsessive pursuit of casual or non-intimate sex; pornography; compulsive masturbation; romantic intensity and objectified partner sex for a period of at least six months." but it can also be a specific period of time where one has an increased libido to the point of concern.

A great example was spoken about within the lobby earlier on today, where a depressive mindset can have, say an excessive urge or craving for impact play, impact play to the point where it becomes dangerously close to a person's limits, but hypersexuality inevitably knows no bounds.

I guess I was just somewhat disappointed to see that the link presented wasn't indeed infact a link at all.
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icon-wio saphy wrote something in the forum
New kinks for an old kinkster

I couldnt love this more!!!!!! Welcome Captain, to Your re-awakening 🤗

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icon-wio saphy wrote something in the forum
Mindset and clarity.

mySir ❤️❤️
I think I've started and deleted about six times at this stage because I have no clue where to actually start lol
Let's take the 'mum' role...absolutely there's a measure of control there, there needs to be but let me clarify that I don't see it as 'taking control'...i see it as Read more… nurturing, being in control of myself and the positive choices and decisions I ultimately make for the care and wellbeing of my children.
These characteristics and traits also wind their way into my life outside of the family home, I'm exactly the same way with those I meet in RL and online regardless of whether it's friendships, my volunteering or anything else I turn my hand to.
All of these situations are extremely dependant on my ability to remain in control of MYSELF, it can be equally draining as it is stressful and that's where the drive to succeed is a bit detrimental to my own wellbeing and mindset.
It's wrong, I don't condone it but helping and maintaining that constant for those around me, for making their lives a little easier or more fulfilled, in giving them the pleasure out of that which they hold dearest is EXACTLY what my purpose is. My purpose pretty much is...to be pleasing.
Instinctly that's who I am and needless to say, a very wise person once said "You're spreading yourself too thin and you're not leaving enough for yourself" and "we sometimes make choices on impulse instead of taking the time to breath, reflect and realise"...words and advice I am slowly learning to take heed of lol.
But differentiating between life outside the dynamic with mySir isn't a black and white scenario for me. I've been trained as a slave in the past and I've accommodated 24/7 (albeit for a short stint) but just enough to see that really, the ONLY difference between my purpose in RL and my present dynamic is that in my dynamic I strive to please Him and WITHOUT any element of control.
my natural instinct kicks into play and there really is no conscious effort nor relative thought and I can be free within Him, without stress and well, if I'm drained, in whatever regard....then i categorically know He is pleased 😈
But nope...in my submission there is no switch that flicks, there is no hampered thought process nor a need for a question to leave my lips. my servitude to mySir is pretty much the only sanctuary I do have lol ❤️❤️

saphy
icon-wio saphy wrote something in the forum
Online dynamics, yey or ney?

I would have loved to have commented on this purely for the fact that people (especially those within the lifestyle community) NEED to be open minded to the fact that there infact IS online dynamics that are completely viable. Having Y/your dynamic online is an extremely intense experience and Read more… primarily focuses on mind control and the ability to submit to that concept. Ive had a few online dynamics, both as submissive and slave but I fear I'd be repeating what @BigPolly has already so adequately stated.
Tbh....i think You will find that You will be judged alot more by those on the site for being married rather than looking for online relationships. Again, been there and wore the t-shirt on that one!
Good luck to you and I hope You find whatever it is that enriches Your life.
Blessed be.

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icon-wio saphy wrote something in the forum
Manners....another powerful Asset👍👍

@MsJax there is and was never any intended malice or confrontation toward You within any of what I said in this post. I clarified what I had said purely to eradicate any and all confusion, which was evident and needed to be addressed. Misinterpretation happens, its one of the joys of being online Read more… But Your opinion is and always will be valued so please don't feel the need to withdraw Yourself from any of the topics.
Be safe and well.

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icon-wio saphy wrote something in the forum
Manners....another powerful Asset👍👍

And last, but by no means least. LeatherDom2020 was condescending toward mySir. I would draw attention to my profile at this point where it clearly states in black and white, and always has done, that ANY attack on me or what I hold dear will be met with the harsh side of my tongue. I won't Read more… apologise for doing so.
I will and always have, shown respect where respect is due. I'm submissive to One, mySir.....just because someone is Dominant doesn't mean that if they pull a dickish move, that I can't and won't put them right for it. Be assured, I will.
So in retrospect, I hope this clears up any misunderstanding and/or confusion and highlights the need for civility.
Be safe and well.

saphy
icon-wio saphy wrote something in the forum
Manners....another powerful Asset👍👍

And secondary, it would have been hypocritical of me had it been my post in the first place.

saphy
icon-wio saphy wrote something in the forum
Manners....another powerful Asset👍👍

MsJax....my issue wasn't with your post. x

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icon-wio saphy wrote something in the forum
Manners....another powerful Asset👍👍

*growls a little* I think someone seriously needs to keep a civil tongue in their head, or keep their unwarranted opinions to themselves. Diverting from the OP to discuss something that's irrelevant is hardly very intellectual. As for telling mySir to "smarten up"......thats just not a smart move Read more… at all. Do not make the same mistakes a second time dear.

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icon-wio saphy wrote something in the forum
What is true BDSM not just the physical,how deep does it go.

hahahhaha love, no it won't! 😂😂😂

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icon-wio saphy wrote something in the forum
What is true BDSM not just the physical,how deep does it go.

Damn! I JUST noticed how close you actually are!!!! 😂😂😂 But youre right, we're realists, we dont believe in fucking about. But that's also the Scot in us lol we thrive to make a success of everything we do.
The 'community' here, I found is the best going so your in good hands tainted! Just reach Read more… out, you'll see that we all hold each other up and can help you along the way! 😊

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icon-wio saphy wrote something in the forum
What is true BDSM not just the physical,how deep does it go.

Well tainted, I truly hope that youre able to find something else on the same level with another and that you both can develop and incorporate your love of all things kink/BDSM into your dynamic. If either of U/us can help you on your journey then please don't hesitate to reach out. We'll be more Read more… than happy to help. Warmest blessings to ya and the best of all things good! ❤️

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