Status

Not single

D/s relationship with Jed

Personal details

Gender Woman
Age 37
Status Not single
Height 172cm
Zodiac signs Taurus

About me

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Well...where do you ever begin on these things lol... I'm saphy, I'm pretty much the kinda girl who wears her heart on her sleeve, I'm quite well balanced, socially extroverted with an attuned empathetic nature.
I'm a slave, so naturally I'm pleasing to be around (it's my job lol), I'm completely loyal, I'm stubborn at times but always right ;) and I have a little bit of a minx (please note..NOT brat!) inside of me.
I'm a lover not a fighter but I'm a Taurean too....which translates to i'm territorial and animalistic and a typical nature girl....so I will lock horns with the best if you threaten me or mine in any way, shape or form. I love fiercely but I protect with my life. So, if I do get smart mouthed with ya...chances are you've overstepped and deserve it ;)

But outside all of that...I love people, I love learning and I love my lifestyle! ✌

Committed and devoted to mySir with every breath in my body. He's the other half to my whole, the Ying to my yang, the reason I wake each morning with a smile on my face. Utterly and completely....His. ❤️❤️❤️

Fantasies

Desires and fantasies...Hmmm...where to begin.

We all have a stronghold of fantasies and a treasure-trove of desires..but to whittle them down into what could be a reflection of reality? That's hard work. But here goes. Let's give it a bash.

I'm not by any means a 24/7 slave and nor am I interested in that dynamic but the concept of following rules that He's given, spending every moment of the day in His expectations and realising His every whim is something I find intriguing and irresistible. Personally, I don't see a lifestyle dynamic any differently than what a vanilla relationship/marriage should be...Yeah a few sprinkles here and there (ok, alot of sprinkles lol) but at the crux of it all, the connection and the respect, the trust given between the couple is what sets the foundations for what lies ahead. So that being said, I guess I desire a 'normal' relationship where I'm accepted for who I am, for my Sir to not think twice or raise an eyebrow when I kneel before Him, not because He's my Sir and it's protocol, but because He's everything I cherish and awe in a person and theres no other place I'd rather be.

My fantasies vary...theres experiences I've tried and enjoyed and would try again, which is fine in itself...but it's never the same experience you once had because you're not with that same person. We all react and thrive differently, so my fantasies I guess will never change in that regard but my experiences will.

My deepest, most thought consuming fantasy is to be outdoors, in nature and dressed in nothing but shibari...to be suspended on a frame and for the riggers art to be captivating an audience...to be blindfolded and sensory deprived, to be tantalised and teased by crops, floggers and cane and then to be used relentlessly suspended and debilitated. To feel complete in servitude, to feel myself drown in a melancholy of emotions...to be free of all that is for all that is given. To be slave. Utterly.

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Desperate for that Dominant other???

Hi sparky 😊 and that's why I said there 'shouldn't be an expectation of sexual interactions'....sometimes, as part of a submissives training... (dependant on the Dominant) there are rare occasions where They will need to decipher what reactions a submissive will have to certain situations. After Read more… all, there's no point in punishing the submissive with something that they enjoy is there lol...
there's loads of different mentoring dynamics....but the key word there is 'mentoring'. Above all else everything that commences throughout training is consensual and clarified and the submissive is free to speak at will. Only clear communication will do. A good understanding to have when entering a D/s or M/s dynamic.

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First session - a story long in the making

I'm so very happy for you both!!! I can actually feel the excitement and the relief of all that pent up frustration come pit in what I've read. Huge congrats and....welcome to Fetish 😊

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There are times and circumstances that occur, which inevitably find you looking around yourself, glancing sideways at a chair and thinking "that would look great on your face!"....lifestylers?? Some people need to remember the tenants of being such.....to be non judgemental and to be open minded Read more… being two of those.....*shakes her head*....we all have hormones and character but its a poor excuse for a lack of self control.
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Desperate for that Dominant other???
Just a fleeting thought....as a submissive, I know firsthand the need for Dominance within our lives... (the same can be said for the D types out there who are searching for their ideal 's' type).....but I also recall how intense the need was to learn and to satiate that need for knowledge....maybe Read more…this post is to part with some invaluable advice...a 'been there, done that' kinda moment....
If you're struggling to find that missing piece at this moment in time, don't become desperate and frustrated by it...maybe revert your focus to finding a 'mentor'...
Mentors are different from actually being within a dynamic. A mentors role is to solely be that 'D' type personna that's required but are there purely to nurture the submissiveness nothing more.
There shouldn't be an expectation of sexual interactions (within D/s..M/s this isn't a priority) but if there IS a need for servitude and obedience and you're new to the lifestyle, I would urge anyone to first seek a mentor.
As long as you're focused on your growth at all times, whether that be alone or under the hand of another...then all is not lost....blessed paths 💜
saphy x
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VictoriaBlisse
VictoriaBlisse As an addition, you may be able to find mentors at your local dungeons/BDSM clubs. Often the house Dom/mes at these places are happy to take on a mentoring role for newbies. This way you know you're getting involved with someone who knows their shit. A mentor is a great thing, but don't jump into any kind of relationship like this without checking the person out first and always follow your instincts. As an addition, you may be able to find mentors at your local dungeons/BDSM clubs. Often the house Dom/mes at these places are happy to take on a mentoring role for newbies. This way you know you're getting involved with someone who knows their shit. A mentor is a great thing, but don't jump into any kind of relationship like this without checking the person out first and always follow your instincts.
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Subdomstew I'm switch recently realizing I am more into being dominated by a fem. I'm male I was wondering if any females be interested in mentoring me into this I'm switch recently realizing I am more into being dominated by a fem. I'm male I was wondering if any females be interested in mentoring me into this
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Gingerluv
Gingerluv Oh this is actually just what I could do with having. A mentor to help me serve Sir well. If anyone would like to mentor me please do! Oh this is actually just what I could do with having. A mentor to help me serve Sir well. If anyone would like to mentor me please do!
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Theres definitely an appreciation that goes beyond words when you find yourself within a dynamic that you can properly get 'lost' in.

Sir and i have came leaps and bounds in such a relatively short space of time given the nature of how we initially met...a relationship like ours will inevitably Read more… continue to evolve and grow for countless years to come....

.....there are those times when we still have to figure each other out and as each day passes, as each layer unfolds we are enlightened to more of one another ....but in those cherished moments when we come together as One, when the need for 'thinking' is left with your discarded clothes...thats when your eyes are truly opened.
When your body unquestionably yields to Him...when His touch sears across your skin...when your mind cloaks in fog and nothing else matters....thats when you realise that at your deepest core, you are His. ❤❤❤
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That feeling of being freshly and violently throat fucked *melts*..... ❤❤
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Even within its subtleties....there is ALWAYS a lesson to learn 😍😍

Reminiscing over a specific moment within RL where a discreet direction was given, a few unknowing raised eyebrows surrounded us but still, obedience was given. ❤

Those little moments that resonate hugely!
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Is it me or the rope

I would love to try suspension....like the sheer thought of it I find so very enticing and enthralling....it's for sure up there on my need to try. I guess I have the heart of a rope bunny but not the body that would do it justice...and that's where my biggest downfall lays. It's very hard to Read more… imagine (knowing that I'm pretty solid and FAR from delicate) that there's ANY suspension form out there that could withhold such tension....so although it breaks my heart everytime I watch the sheer pleasure and dazed look in a submissive/rope bunny's face...I've adapted and learnt to appreciate it from a distance. Much respect to the intricacy of all that You achieve Morris.

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Replacements for lubricants?

Coconut oil that just melts into your palms and makes things deliciously slippy 😍

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icon-wio saphy wrote something in the forum
Any advice?

I may be way off mark here but if you're so new to the scene and you've only 'recently acquired' a dom, would it be safe to assume that He's interested in a poly relationship over a D/s dynamic... is this something you're open to? I'm merely curious because opportunists do exist and I'd hate to Read more… think that He was abusing His 'Dominant' status... usually talks like this would only ever happen once limits and foundations have been firmly discussed and attuned to. But like I said, I may be wrong and I apologise if that's the case.

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