Just a freaky fucker occasionally a switch leaning toward sub. Trying to enjoy life while pretending to be a grown up.
I think I skipped the candy shop time period. I had a fairly gradual and steady slope into this world. Looking back I had a couple middle term relationships that were already lifestyle mixed with regular world stuff before I had noticed the community.
Good post with great feedback all. There's Read more… some compassionate and great minds in the community once the online d bags and scammers are pushed aside but don't tell anyone or they'll expect intelligent answers all the time.
We can't have that pressure on us being a bunch of freaks and kinksters! 😏
This get dispenser mentality many would be subs have makes it diffucult for the rest of us as well. There seem to be so many of them that trying to talk to or get to know any dominant woman is harder for those of us truly in the LS interested in knowing the people but gktging past a hello is met Read more… with annoyed frustration and harder to do. I actually had a woman go off when I was totally polite inquiring if I could get to know more about her not pushy demanding etc. I replied that if not of interest a simple polite no thank you would have been fine and how I felt it was out of line. If swaying hi is an issue why be on social media. Long convo later I was amazed at the shit ton of crazy things she had told me about when she replied apologizing. I knew it could be a pain but it sounds like it's constant bs. I guess like in every other part of the world many are narrow sites and only concerned with themselves.
Anyway good post and stopping my novel and rant
Hell no im in process right now.
Are you looking for a play partner only or are you meeting new people and enjoying the journey and people met? Try making friends and a play partner may come of it. Just like vanilla land you can't run around the pub hi I wanna fuck. Well they might it doesn't mean they might with you. Just because Read more… a lady enjoys slapping guys asses with a boat oar doesn't mean she's a paddle vending machine to all that say hi. Try getting to know people and stop being in a frantic kink chase. That's the best advice I can give you. If not patient you'll have to pay to play. That's more of a fetish on demand scenario. I'd rather make friends but it's up to you.