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Personal details

Gender Man
Age 49
Status Single
Height 182cm
Weight 72kg
Body shape Slim
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Long
Beard Full beard
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Zodiac sign Libra
Glasses
Smoker
Piercings

About me

Interested in:

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Description

I've always known I was kinky, though early in life I never really pursued submissive women before. However, in my relationships, in the bedroom, I've always been the one in control. Then over the years my tastes became more and more.. refined. Wicked. Evil. It started out maybe with some hair-pulling here, an ass-slap there. A good hard crack in the mouth. Then the taunting. "You like that, don't you?"... and eventually I found myself with my hand around my girlfriend's throat, spitting in her face, and forcing her to knees at my feet.. and further still on all fours to give my boots a good polish with her tongue.

Despite being a rather chill and pleasant guy I have a mean streak a mile wide, and have found that it takes a special kind of girl to be able to handle the particular brand of I love dishing out. which can range from very subtle, simple, and discrete to the overt, extreme, and downright cruel. Unfair. Unforgiving even. She should expect to be a vessel for that. Be excited about it even. Eager and enthusiastic. A shameless little slut. A willing victim. Complicit in her own defiling.

I'm an artist by trade and inspiration is a very big thing for me. I find that plans almost always fall through anyway and anything that's born out of the moment is infinitely more satisfying. I say this as sort of an explanation to my 'style' as a Dom. I can be very unpredictable and chaotic. I might let you get away with something on Monday that you may get called out for on Tuesday. And despite not being a mood-driven individual, I do find that my mood almost always determines how I wish to be approached and how you will be treated at any given moment. To me it adds an extra level of spontaneity and excitement to the whole thing. If you don't agree, that's fine, it's just the way I like to do things, and so far I haven't had any complaints. Predictability while comforting can be utterly boring sometimes. Don't you agree?

I don't believe your submission to me should stop at the bedroom either. If I own you, you are -mine- and I'll do as I please with you. Whenever, wherever. Thought truth be told I enjoy a 24/7* dynamic more than just straight up 24/7. I don't ONLY ever want to be a Dom all the time. That would be boring too.

Mainly I'm looking for the kind of submissive/slave that wants to be shaped and molded into the ultimate fulfillment of my desires. The living embodiment of my pleasure. Yet at the same time be able to not lose herself entirely under my control. I want to dominate a person, a personality, not program some android sex-bot automaton that needs to be micro-managed every step of the way. I might as well just jerk off at that point.

Right now I'm looking for anything from play partners, to friends, to potential slaves, pets, prey, toys. Primarily a new little plaything who I can pass off as my girlfriend. And on that note my favorite types are petite women, pale skinned redheads, anyone with green eyes, pretty feet, sweet and good-natured, friendly, a little ( or a lot ) weird or eccentric, artistic, stylish, cute.

Having said that my tastes in women and in life are really quite varied. As long as you're interesting I'll be interested. Don't get hung up on my holy grail of hotness and feel the need to list the ways you don't add up to it either. That's not a list of criteria you need to meet, just some things I find particularly appealing. Don't feel the need to point out you don't have red hair, or green eyes, or whatever the fuck else. Why not point out what you DO have that you think will drive me wild instead, hm?

Also please don't be shy and feel free to message me and make the first move if you like the vibe here and haven't been crushed to death by this mountain of text. It's 202X ladies. How 'bout you chase us around a lil for a change, eh? ;)

Limits

***, age regression, rudeness disguised as 'bratting', and no hitting or fighting me unless we talked about it beforehand. I'm not the masochist here after all. :P

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Apearance

Your personal experience doesn't extend to the entire rest of the world though.

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Apearance

It's not a problem with 'western women' it's just human nature. Looks are important. It's sad but true. People try to downplay it for a whole host of reasons but still. They matter quite a bit. If you think that Asian or European women aren't going to judge you based off of looks too you're Read more… dreaming. Unless you're implying they have less of a choice or something else, which is kinda gross, it's not going to be a whole lot different than it is here in the states.
Not that it isn't shitty to just ghost someone on sight after you been talking for a while and they finally reveal their face though either.

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Apearance

That's a very good tl;dr of what I said yeah, lol.

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Apearance

TY, and yes a lot of what people find attractive looks-wise is definitely subjective too. I forgot to mention that.
Also I should add that even chemistry is subjective. Maybe even more so than looks.
Some people will value certain things way more than others will, and some people will ngaf about Read more… things that make you seem like the sexiest person on earth to someone else.

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Apearance

Here's the honest unfiltered truth, people like to downplay how important looks are. Looks actually tell a whole lot about you. Sometimes you can judge a book by it's cover, but despite that looks for most people are just what gets your foot in the door, and then chemistry and compatibility, etc is Read more… what invites you in and lets you stay a while. But you will be treated better or worse depending on who you're dealing with based solely off of how you look, whether the person means to do that or not. It's just how people are wired. No one wants to seem like they're superficial when the topic comes up either so they bend over backwards trying to convince anyone who happens to be paying attention ( and possibly themselves ) how little it actually matters, but it matters quite a bit. The good news is it's not the ONLY thing that matters though, and especially for men chasing after women your personality will count for a whole lot more than how you look unless you're in like the top 1% of ridiculously attractive looking people, lol. So to answer your question, yes most chemistry is only somewhat based on how you look and the rest comes down to how charming or funny and interesting and exciting you are. If you share the same moral framework with someone. If your interests and hobbies align, and if you have complimentary personality traits. If they think you're a good person, or someone they can see themselves starting a family with. And etc etc etc. Besides anyone who is only interested in you based off of how you look isn't someone you want to be with in the first place. Hope that helps.

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Desirable Traits of a Submissive

Mind you this is all a personal list, but I think a quality submissive should embody most or all of these traits:
Eagerness, enthusiasm, consistency, reverence, honesty, ability to communicate directly and unambiguously, attentiveness, attention to detail, the ability to be proactive and anticipate Read more… my needs once she knows what I like in particular, someone who doesn't need to be micromanaged every step of the way with every little thing, lack of a bad attitude and/or no desire to use 'bratiness' as an ass covering mechanism for shitty behavior. Being thoughtful, mindful, and considerate. Understanding the fact that you need to 'quiet your mind' doesn't take precedence over everything else. Which ties into selflessness instead of being selfish or entitled. Not treating the dynamic like I'm here to fulfill all your needs without the expectation of doing the same in return. Not having the outlook that your submission is a gift without acknowledging what I do as a Dominant is equally as important and meaningful and needs to be earned every bit as much. Understanding that outside of the dynamic we're still equals.

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Abandoned by a Dom.

It's unfortunate but this happens to a lot of us these days. I really don't know what it is, but people have gotten increasingly flaky and terrified of actually telling someone they don't think things are working out, so they just vanish like this. Who knows what the reason was. He could have been Read more… cheating on someone and finally felt the remorse or it could've been a 1000 other different things. At the end of the day it's usually not you or anything you did wrong. I know it's shitty but honestly the only thing you can really do is wait until you don't feel like crap about it any more then put yourself back out there because someone else wil almost certainly come along. Although having said all that this was a particularly creepy fucking thing to do to someone. You should actually consider yourself lucky because you dodged a bullet here. Anybody who's capable of doing some shit like this is probably a real disgusting person.

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In the closet

You can post whatever you want but you're not exempt from hearing what other people have to say about it.
If you only capable of hearing positive things then save it for your friends and family. Don't share it publicly.

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Okay sure but if he's entitled to post it we're entitled to voice our reaction to it as well.
So no, 'scroll n roll' doesn't apply here.
Free s***ch isn't freedom from the consequences of what you have to say.

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Mistress

The writing is normal, but no neither of those things are.
The contract and signing up for a website are tools for scammers.
Don't ever do that.

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No dude the whole 'website contract' thing that you have to pay for is a scam. Don't do that. You're only going to lose your *** and be disappointed.

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