Honest trustworthy and caring...i take great pride in my appearance...i hv flair and a touch of daring do....here to find that certain one!
Feel free to chat to me i wont bite ?
The ONE is found and completes me.
She completes me....the other half of me
And the bond we have is electric....intense....powerful.
She is Saphy....my lady my love ❤❤❤
We are together at last and the journey continues in our home which is Scotland.
Rope play and control methods such as bars...cuffs
Orgasm control and denial
Fisting and stretching
Dear Leila....knowing and understanding your emotions and feelings and sharing this with your D is important...your bond together will grow and have greater depth thro this....its paramount to understand that with any high there is sometimes going to be a low...may it be thro separation or just Read more… thro sheer intensity of play that brings your feelings down to a low point between you and your D sharing those moments will definitely help...best wishes and hugs xx
I think the first recommendation I can make is there is no fixed formula/rulebook, secondly what works for one is no guarantee to work for another, the single biggest thing you both need to do is communicate, find your balance point between comfortable and what needs to be pushed explored. If you Read more… have that mindset of control already and your sub is allowing an inner Dom emerge your already on the right path.
Scenes themselves can take varying degrees of intensity dependant on your communication, find out limits, agree passages of play and the boundaries set, but most importantly think about aftercare, think about how you will both need time to chill and relax in each other after your scene, making note of how your sub feels and reacts is hugely important and sets the cornerstones for your dynamic. Your journey can be a beautiful free flowing memory filled journey and it's the communication that builds the base for all of this.
I wish you both well in your journey and keep asking questions, this is how we all Grow.
As always Victoria your posts make excellent reading and have within them a great deal of sensibility towards OUR world.
For me it's a mixture of many things, specifically my sense of being a gentleman with my lady, that encourages her submissive side, coupled within that our dynamic has an ebb n Read more… flow that allows free communication and the ability to question and determine the right course or path, sprinkle in the rewards, nurturing and good aftercare allows us to explore the very boundaries we all seek.
As a footnote to any aspiring Dom, if you treat them well, show respect and don't think this is all about pain and degradation you may find your feet rather quickly(and so much more enjoyable)
That's my formula, it works well for Me, but find yourself first, question what it is you want, and then take the next step.