Status

Not single

D/s relationship with saphy

Personal details

Gender Man
Age 49
Status Not single
Body shape Average build
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Brown
Beard Full beard
Orientation Straight
Origin UK
Pubic Hair Shaved
Body hair Some hair
Zodiac signs Libra
Tattoos

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

Description

Honest trustworthy and caring...i take great pride in my appearance...i hv flair and a touch of daring do....here to find that certain one!
Feel free to chat to me i wont bite ?
The ONE is found and completes me.
She completes me....the other half of me
And the bond we have is electric....intense....powerful.
She is Saphy....my lady my love ❤❤❤
We are together at last and the journey continues in our home which is Scotland.

Fantasies

Rope play and control methods such as bars...cuffs
Orgasm control and denial
Obeidence
Spanking
Suspension
Outdoor play
Insertions
Fisting and stretching
Squirting
Control
Slave training

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Honest trustworthy and caring...i take great pride in my appearance...i hv flair and a touch of daring do....here to find that certain one!
Feel free to chat to me i wont bite ?
The ONE is found and completes me.
She completes me....the other half of me
And the bond we have is Read more… electric....intense....powerful.
She is Saphy....my lady my love ❤❤❤
We are together at last and the journey continues in our home which is Scotland.
Jed
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What about fisting

Fisting is a wonderful way to pleasure your partner....patience and good lube medical grade gloves help...the initial stretch thro to full insertion is a a very rewarding experience...👊👊

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Outline of a scene.

Read the Story of O.....a thoroughly good read and very informative.

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Outline of a scene.

I think the first recommendation I can make is there is no fixed formula/rulebook, secondly what works for one is no guarantee to work for another, the single biggest thing you both need to do is communicate, find your balance point between comfortable and what needs to be pushed explored. If you Read more… have that mindset of control already and your sub is allowing an inner Dom emerge your already on the right path.
Scenes themselves can take varying degrees of intensity dependant on your communication, find out limits, agree passages of play and the boundaries set, but most importantly think about aftercare, think about how you will both need time to chill and relax in each other after your scene, making note of how your sub feels and reacts is hugely important and sets the cornerstones for your dynamic. Your journey can be a beautiful free flowing memory filled journey and it's the communication that builds the base for all of this.
I wish you both well in your journey and keep asking questions, this is how we all Grow.
Jed

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I Did it My Way!

As always Victoria your posts make excellent reading and have within them a great deal of sensibility towards OUR world.
For me it's a mixture of many things, specifically my sense of being a gentleman with my lady, that encourages her submissive side, coupled within that our dynamic has an ebb n Read more… flow that allows free communication and the ability to question and determine the right course or path, sprinkle in the rewards, nurturing and good aftercare allows us to explore the very boundaries we all seek.
As a footnote to any aspiring Dom, if you treat them well, show respect and don't think this is all about pain and degradation you may find your feet rather quickly(and so much more enjoyable)
That's my formula, it works well for Me, but find yourself first, question what it is you want, and then take the next step.
😈

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So another journey back....after a week filled with fun, laughter and further exploration of Our dynamic...the connection is oh so beautiful and so very synched...She is everything to me and the bond with the wee one's grows stronger....the next page in our chapter will be the most exciting....
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So a date for Your diary....next week i will be in Scotland with @saphy for our camping trip...but on the Thursday night we will be relaxing in the hotel suite we have booked...on that evening i will open a room in the lobby...named Dungeon of Dreams and Desires...whereby an opportunity will become Read more… available for YOU to direct play for ONE HOUR!!! I will of course vet entrants and requests but if your request is sensible and practical You will get to have a direct impact on play😈
So be around on the 9/8 evening time
LikeMrchristopher70, saphy, Fairylight
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Rope play and control methods such as bars...cuffs
Orgasm control and denial
Obeidence
Spanking
Suspension
Outdoor play
Insertions
Fisting and stretching
Squirting
Control
Slave training
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Body confidence.

@SweetSurrender I don't know you all that well and your post highlights the fact that we live in a world where to much is taken at face value....but your Sir is an amazing guy by the sounds of it and now is the time to *shine in the light* he bathes you in!!!!
Stay strong stay smiling ❤

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New kinks for an old kinkster

Beautiful.....a very warm welcome to you

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Diffrence Between a Sub vs Slave?

Two things to point out @bingobaby one I don't troll....as a member on this site I'm entitled to respond to any post I seem fit....and I take the opportunity to readily do that when the information that's relayed is either detrimental to the good of the community or the post is providing Read more… misinformed opinion.
Secondly I have been in a dynamic with a very well respected lady who is Kajira trained and has trained many others in this form....her knowledge base far exceeds many and all in here and I can quite happily say that what your perception of what a slave needs to move from one position to another is so wrong....in fact it's rather detrimental to anyone reading this post.
I have built a very healthy knowledge base from my years in Lifestyle....you on the other hand seem to be quoting from resources unknown to better suit your own position.
Maybe spending sometime reflecting on the true meanings and values to which most of us hold very dear will enlighten you.

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Mindset and clarity.

Thanks Fairy for sharing your thoughts.

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icon-wio Jed wrote something in the forum
Mindset and clarity.

Thanks 3SumQueen great insight and great for others to read.