Status

Not single

D/s relationship with saphy

Personal details

Gender Man
Age 49
Status Not single
Body shape Average build
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Brown
Beard Full beard
Orientation Straight
Origin UK
Pubic Hair Shaved
Body hair Some hair
Zodiac signs Libra
Tattoos

About me

Interested in:

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Description

Honest trustworthy and caring...i take great pride in my appearance...i hv flair and a touch of daring do....here to find that certain one!
Feel free to chat to me i wont bite ?
The ONE is found and completes me.
She completes me....the other half of me
And the bond we have is electric....intense....powerful.
She is Saphy....my lady my love ❤❤❤
We are together at last and the journey continues in our home which is Scotland.

Fantasies

Rope play and control methods such as bars...cuffs
Orgasm control and denial
Obeidence
Spanking
Suspension
Outdoor play
Insertions
Fisting and stretching
Squirting
Control
Slave training

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Jed
icon-wio Jed wrote something in the forum
24/7 Dynamics and daily life

@Carnelian2 and @Lilmonster thanks both of you...much love 😍

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24/7 Dynamics and daily life

Thanks Jinx and the same to you and yours x

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24/7 Dynamics and daily life
As I sit here writing this my thoughts are with the one I share my life with.
So to share my experience with you all and maybe get some feedback....
It's often been the case that in most relationships the initial phase of being with a new partner is a whirlwind of romance, followed by a settling in Read more…and a return to normality, and at some point in that your understanding of your significant other will develop and grow, finding out the niggly bits, learning each other's needs and wants, defining what the best path is for you both by offering constructive critique and gaining knowledge of what works best for you both.
It's the conversations that you have with one another that will allow that development/growth and hopefully identify areas of weakness that affords you both the opportunity to fight thro the adversities that life throws at you from time to time....lets not kid ourselves here were human beings we have off days we have external influences whether that's work, children and families, and were all prone to opening mouth before engaging brain, but for anyone who wants to commit to a 24/7 dynamic trusting each other to be honest, even when it feels like your carrying the weight of the world on your back is paramount to moving forward.
I can be my own worst enemy at times, my thought process and a tinge of pride don't afford me the ability to offload my problems/issues and share with the one that I share my life with, but I know that being honest and trusting in my partner will allow some of that burden to be shared. Regardless of status we all benefit from sharing our problems concerns, it's having the faith and trust in one another that this will benefit you both regardless of how trivial that thing maybe.
I have spoken to many of you in here and appreciate that were all on different paths but I suppose the big message within all of this is be open be honest and have faith that no matter what the issue is a problem shared is a problem halved.
Blessed be to all of you...and a very merry kinky Xmas to you all.🎅🎄🎁
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BigPolly Beautifully written & I totally totally understand where you’re coming from as I don’t share my troubles with anyone, to me they are mine to deal with, they are under my control & nobody needs to know the stress I’m under as they have their own problems. We all deal with things differently.
I also feel that sharing my problems opens them out ‘ makes them seem bigger so for me they will always remain my own 😊
Thank you for sharing your thoughts & Yuletide Blessings to you both ☺️❤️Xx Beautifully written & I totally totally understand where you’re coming from as I don’t share my troubles with anyone, to me they are mine to deal with, they are under my control & nobody needs to know the stress I’m under as they have their own problems. We all deal with things differently.
I also feel that sharing my problems opens them out ‘ makes them seem bigger so for me they will always remain my own 😊
Thank you for sharing your thoughts & Yuletide Blessings to you both ☺️❤️Xx
LikeLilmonster, Jed, saphy · 12.12.2018 22:14:34
saphy
saphy
➦saphy quote Jed:❝@Carnelian2 and @Lilmonster thanks both of you...much love 😍❞
I second that sentiment...thank you both and a very blessed Christmas season for you and your loved ones too ❤❤🎅
➦saphy quote Jed:❝@Carnelian2 and @Lilmonster thanks both of you...much love 😍❞
I second that sentiment...thank you both and a very blessed Christmas season for you and your loved ones too ❤❤🎅
LikeLilmonster, Jed · 12.12.2018 21:37:41
Jed
Jed @Carnelian2 and @Lilmonster thanks both of you...much love 😍 @Carnelian2 and @Lilmonster thanks both of you...much love 😍
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Sub Drop

Dear Leila....knowing and understanding your emotions and feelings and sharing this with your D is important...your bond together will grow and have greater depth thro this....its paramount to understand that with any high there is sometimes going to be a low...may it be thro separation or just Read more… thro sheer intensity of play that brings your feelings down to a low point between you and your D sharing those moments will definitely help...best wishes and hugs xx

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icon-wio Jed has updated their profile description
Honest trustworthy and caring...i take great pride in my appearance...i hv flair and a touch of daring do....here to find that certain one!
Feel free to chat to me i wont bite ?
The ONE is found and completes me.
She completes me....the other half of me
And the bond we have is Read more… electric....intense....powerful.
She is Saphy....my lady my love ❤❤❤
We are together at last and the journey continues in our home which is Scotland.
Jed
icon-wio Jed wrote something in the forum
What about fisting

Fisting is a wonderful way to pleasure your partner....patience and good lube medical grade gloves help...the initial stretch thro to full insertion is a a very rewarding experience...👊👊

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icon-wio Jed wrote something in the forum
Outline of a scene.

Read the Story of O.....a thoroughly good read and very informative.

Jed
icon-wio Jed wrote something in the forum
Outline of a scene.

I think the first recommendation I can make is there is no fixed formula/rulebook, secondly what works for one is no guarantee to work for another, the single biggest thing you both need to do is communicate, find your balance point between comfortable and what needs to be pushed explored. If you Read more… have that mindset of control already and your sub is allowing an inner Dom emerge your already on the right path.
Scenes themselves can take varying degrees of intensity dependant on your communication, find out limits, agree passages of play and the boundaries set, but most importantly think about aftercare, think about how you will both need time to chill and relax in each other after your scene, making note of how your sub feels and reacts is hugely important and sets the cornerstones for your dynamic. Your journey can be a beautiful free flowing memory filled journey and it's the communication that builds the base for all of this.
I wish you both well in your journey and keep asking questions, this is how we all Grow.
Jed

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The rooms have equipment and facilities to suit all kink, and all kept to a high standard of hygiene.
We were very pleasantly surprised that a rope master was on hand, and watching the graceful art performed was both captivating and enthralling.
I believe we will frequent there very soon and will encourage them to make themselves known on here too.
Jed ❤
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Jed
icon-wio Jed wrote something in the forum
I Did it My Way!

As always Victoria your posts make excellent reading and have within them a great deal of sensibility towards OUR world.
For me it's a mixture of many things, specifically my sense of being a gentleman with my lady, that encourages her submissive side, coupled within that our dynamic has an ebb n Read more… flow that allows free communication and the ability to question and determine the right course or path, sprinkle in the rewards, nurturing and good aftercare allows us to explore the very boundaries we all seek.
As a footnote to any aspiring Dom, if you treat them well, show respect and don't think this is all about pain and degradation you may find your feet rather quickly(and so much more enjoyable)
That's my formula, it works well for Me, but find yourself first, question what it is you want, and then take the next step.
😈

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So another journey back....after a week filled with fun, laughter and further exploration of Our dynamic...the connection is oh so beautiful and so very synched...She is everything to me and the bond with the wee one's grows stronger....the next page in our chapter will be the most exciting....
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So a date for Your diary....next week i will be in Scotland with @saphy for our camping trip...but on the Thursday night we will be relaxing in the hotel suite we have booked...on that evening i will open a room in the lobby...named Dungeon of Dreams and Desires...whereby an opportunity will become Read more… available for YOU to direct play for ONE HOUR!!! I will of course vet entrants and requests but if your request is sensible and practical You will get to have a direct impact on play😈
So be around on the 9/8 evening time
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icon-wio Jed has updated their desires and fantasies info
Rope play and control methods such as bars...cuffs
Orgasm control and denial
Obeidence
Spanking
Suspension
Outdoor play
Insertions
Fisting and stretching
Squirting
Control
Slave training