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Personal details

Gender Woman
Age 34
Status Not single
Height 167cm
Weight 63kg
Body shape Average build
Eye colour Blue
Hair colour Brown
Orientation Bisexual
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin USA
Pubic Hair Shaved
Body hair None
Breast size C
Zodiac sign Sagittarius
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings

About me

I’m looking for:

Description

*** If you are a cis man, odds are not in your favor. Fair warning.

Hello there ~

I'm here for something different from Fetlife. Interested in friends, play partners, and people I can attend munches, classes, and events with.

Connections I'm interested in:

  • Masochists, submissives, bottoms, pets, slaves, or sub-leaning switches for both short term and long term play partner dynamics.
  • Queer community folks and other femmes!
  • Other poly/ENM folks for discussing our dating & relationship experiences! For the record, I am ENM and happily married to my submissive partner.
  • Local community only.
  • Dungeon, kink event, munch, and class partners/friends.
  • Nerdy/Artsy/Weird people for platonic friendships and/or play partners!
  • Rope enthusiasts I can learn from and with.
  • 🩸/Needle play enthusiasts (I require recent testing prior to play).
  • Fire play and wax play lovers.
  • Fantasy, sci-fi, and horror fans (this includes people who love books, D&D, anime, movies, and cons of course).
  • Interesting people who can teach me new things.

    Connections I am NOT interested in:

  • No long distance. No online. No tourists.
  • No racists, homophobes, sexists, transphobes or any other sort of bigoted asshole.
  • No conservatives, centrists, or libertarians.
  • No sissy fetishists.
  • No illegal/abusive activities.
  • No hookups for vanilla sex acts.
  • No swingers/unicorn hunting couples.
  • No pay-for-play dynamics (respect to those who are into it, but I'm not).

Limits

My hard limits include:

  • All the usual illegal things.
  • Vanilla sex acts.
  • Foot fetishists.
  • Sissy fetishists.
  • 💩
  • Sexual harassment.
  • Cis men.
  • Switching.

Groups

    Knowledge is sexy. This group is for sharing guides, tips, and insights about safe, sane, and consensual play. Whether you’re into research, resources, or just learning from others — you’ll find support, clarity, and real talk here.
    No matter your role — Dom, sub, switch, or still figuring it out — this group is your space to connect, ask questions, and share experiences. Let’s talk about dynamics, power shifts, and what it really means to give or take control.
    For lovers of the thud, the sting, and everything in between. Whether you enjoy giving or receiving, this group is your spot to explore spanking, flogging, caning, paddles, and more — with skill, consent, and a good dose of aftercare.
    From silky scarves to full rope suspension — if tying up or being tied down excites you, this is your place. Share techniques, tools, fantasies, and safety tips with fellow bondage enthusiasts.
    Power exchange is one thing — relationships are another. This group is all about navigating love, connection, and long-term dynamics within the world of BDSM. From contracts to communication, poly setups to vanilla blends — let's talk about what makes it work.

My places

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Most men are such garbage.

Typical man: /Sends sexual harassment.

Any femme: /Responds negatively.

Man: Explodes into rage and entitlement and insults and misogyny and *** and blah blah blah blah endless blah.

Any femme: "I don't care, just leave me alone."

Man: /Refuses to leave Read more… because now he feels the need to stay there and hurt you as much as he can.

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A much needed vent moment.

Men:
I really fucking hate most of you.

No, seriously, I really fucking hate most of you and most of you deserve to be lonely. Every damn day, multiple of you prove that. Literally cannot go one day being left the fuck alone, online or in person, without one of you (usually more) proving why hating you is justified and why the "male loneliness crisis" is earned, self-inflicted, and deserved.

You just can't leave someone the fuck alone. No, it's always some bad come-on followed by your misogynistic entitled rage at anything other than "yes" in response to your stupid shit. You never just take the L and move the fuck along, no, you gotta linger where you know you aren't wanted in an effort to cause as much harm as possible for the "crime" of someone not liking you. And then you wonder why so many women don't like men and don't want to date men anymore! 🙄

Christ on a stick, get a fucking clue. You can't all be so actively repellent and then be upset that you've repelled everyone! You can't view and treat someone as "inherently inferior" to you and expect them to want jackshit to do with you.

And without fail, the second a woman goes, "I'm not interested in you" in any format (nice, mean, neutral, doesn't matter cause you all act the damn same), your misogyny instantly comes out because all of you fucking hate women. Instantly it's "bitch, slut, whore" whatever else because she DOESN'T want to fuck you (dumbest insult chain possible for someone *not* fucking you btw).

And before you say, "misandry is bad too!" Women who hate men just want to avoid men. They want men to stay the fuck away from them. They want to be left alone.

Men who hate women on the other hand won't ever leave women alone. I don't think you can. I think men desperately need women in their lives AND hate women for it. This shit is not equal. You fucking *need* us and you still desperately want to feel superior to us. Meanwhile, most of you can't even schedule a goddamn dental cleaning for yourselves consistently. No, you need a wife-slave to manage your life for you while telling her the whole time, while your incompetence and immaturity has ***d her to act like your damn mom, that you're "the leader." It's pathetic.

If you're single: you probably deserve it.
If you're divorced: you probably deserve it.
If you die alone (because men die alone far more often than women ever do, guess why): you probably deserve it.

Men:
I really fucking hate most of you.
I started hating you the day I started getting sexually harassed by adult men (which for every woman is much earlier than it should ever be). I do everything I can to make it very clear and upfront that I'm not interested in men and yet none of you can fucking read. And then when YOU harass ME, ignoring my every indication NOT to reach out to me, your sense of entitlement has you acting like I'm the one who has disrespected you by not being happy to see you in my inbox.

I hate most of you, men. And most of you deserve to be hated and lonely.
Likemrwright4thenight
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So...are we in a war with Iran or not though? Cause this is feeling like an on-again off-again toxic break-up at this point and somehow it's still "not a war," but every other week it's like, "Oh they did something so now we HAVE to respond, obviously."

And that's just war, Read more… y'all.
When you respond to their response with another response they respond to: That's a war.
LadyV
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Religious guys in my DMs:
"The bible/god says women have to-!"

What if I don't give a shit what your bible or your god says though? 🤨
Likesubbyslut907, ThaliaV
LadyV
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Mmm, that freshly washed and deep conditioned feel of long hair. 💖 Thinking about doing a hair mask later today to pamper myself. That silky smooth hydration doesn't come from thin air. Nice hair takes work.
LadyV
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LadyV
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Me:
A Dominant who is explicitly heavily into sadism. My entire kink list revolves around power, S/M, and inflicting ***.

Male "subs" in my DMs:
"You are a female of adequate attractiveness to me. I will need you to perform this list of my kinks on me, most of which are on your hard Read more… limits list which I didn't read. Oh, and no *** allowed."

Buddy, we're incompatible as fuck, why are you HERE? 😭 Get out of my inbox, wtf?!
LikeLoneNordicWolf, daddysworld2869, ThaliaV
LadyV
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My hard limits include:

All the usual illegal things.
Vanilla sex acts.
Foot fetishists.
Sissy fetishists.
💩
Sexual harassment.
Cis men.
Switching.
LadyV
icon-wio LadyV has updated their profile description
*** If you are a cis man, odds are not in your favor. Fair warning.

Hello there ~

I'm here for something different from Fetlife. Interested in friends, play partners, and people I can attend munches, classes, and events with.

Connections I'm interested in:


Masochists, submissives, bottoms, Read more… pets, slaves, or sub-leaning switches for both short term and long term play partner dynamics.
Queer community folks and other femmes!
Other poly/ENM folks for discussing our dating & relationship experiences! For the record, I am ENM and happily married to my submissive partner.
Local community only.
Dungeon, kink event, munch, and class partners/friends.
Nerdy/Artsy/Weird people for platonic friendships and/or play partners!
Rope enthusiasts I can learn from and with.
🩸/Needle play enthusiasts (I require recent testing prior to play).
Fire play and wax play lovers.
Fantasy, sci-fi, and horror fans (this includes people who love books, D&D, anime, movies, and cons of course).

Interesting people who can teach me new things.

Connections I am NOT interested in:


No long distance. No online. No tourists.
No racists, homophobes, sexists, transphobes or any other sort of bigoted asshole.
No conservatives, centrists, or libertarians.
No sissy fetishists.
No illegal/abusive activities.
No hookups for vanilla sex acts.
No swingers/unicorn hunting couples.
No pay-for-play dynamics (respect to those who are into it, but I'm not).
LadyV
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LadyV
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