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Gender Man
Age 43
Status Single
Height 183cm
Weight 86kg
Body shape Average build
Eye colour Blue
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Short
Beard Shaved/no beard
Orientation Bi-curious
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Pubic Hair Part shaved
Body hair Hairy
Zodiac sign Aquarius
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Tattoos
Piercings

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At one time I considered myself a switch, but upon contemplation I don't really think it fits me, Hedonist maybe, Kinkster? Time and experience will decide.
Sometimes I like to be the dominant, other times I like to be controlled.

I enjoy exploring sexual boundaries (consensually of course), this is what makes me want to explore as much as I can with as many different people as possible. Life is short, and it's easy to sit and say 'What if'.

My interest in Fetish and kink dates back many, many years, but apart from one relationship I’ve never had an opportunity to explore what being involved in kink means on a regular basis, although over the past 18 months I've had the opportunity to explore this more. There is more to this than just ropes, chains, and pain.... There is pleasure to be taken and explored, mental as well as physical, sharing experiences. All this is what I wish to explore.

I have an high EQ, so am looking for someone who shares that part of understanding in what being involved within the scene means. And hopefully find a play partner who wants to explore this together.

Kink is not a game for fantasists, it's where I hope to meet someone who shares similar interests and ideals, but who I can have a drink and a chat with first.... This includes messages.

I’m unabashedly single (so no hidden wife, girlfriend or kids), and live alone with my dog. I believe in honesty and respect and will always be courteous when messaging someone (after all manners cost nothing).

Fetish.com gives you…


Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Cheltenham with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!

Rob_Evolving
icon-wio Rob_Evolving posted a status update
  • 10.11.2022 22:03:48
  • Male (43)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
2022 has really made me re-examine what I would like my life to be going forward I'm sure many of us have been through hardships that have tested our mettle since this decade began.
Since losing my Dad nearly two months ago, I realised that I had been more focused on him and his declining health Read more… than living my life and seeking out the things that I'd like to explore. But he was my Dad so what else was I supposed to have done?
I have a job that I cherish but due to the aforementioned issues I could not focus on (My first day, Dad was readmitted to hospital!)
Now that Chapter of my life is over, I know my dad would want me to live the best life I could, and it is time to focus on my mental health and look to the future... Whatever that may hold.
None of the above relates to kink, nor is it me wanting attention, it is simply me expressing my thoughts.
But in the same context I know a lot of people who are into kink carry similar stories and experiences as mine, so I'm hoping to find and build relationships with people and share experiences and help those who maybe struggling.
Rob_Evolving
icon-wio Rob_Evolving posted a status update
  • 09.11.2022 23:52:16
  • Male (43)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
There is a theory that there are three personalities in life. Which can also be attributed to kink. Sheep (submissive), wolf (dominant), and the sheepdog (switch). You can use the third one to do the firsts bidding, and on occasion the roles can and should be reversed. A sheepdog Will never hurt Read more… it's flock. A wolf can be benevolent but ultimately Will succumb to its nature. This is just my observations.
Rob_Evolving
icon-wio Rob_Evolving posted a status update
  • 07.11.2022 23:47:02
  • Male (43)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
So far , so the same 😞
Rob_Evolving
icon-wio Rob_Evolving posted a status update
  • 07.11.2022 23:16:46
  • Male (43)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
Dreaming of having my ass fucked by a fbb with a strapon
Rob_Evolving
icon-wio Rob_Evolving posted a status update
  • 06.11.2022 21:06:32
  • Male (43)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
Well 2022 has made reassess what I am looking to achieve going forward. Been off here for good while but I'm back.
Rob_Evolving
icon-wio Rob_Evolving finished the BDSM Test
  • 06.11.2022 20:52:00
  • Male (43)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single

55%
Dominant

65%
Submissive

Rob_Evolving
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  • 06.11.2022 20:39:14
  • Male (43)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
Rob_Evolving
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  • 06.11.2022 20:32:00
  • Male (43)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
At one time I considered myself a switch, but upon contemplation I don't really think it fits me, Hedonist maybe, Kinkster? Time and experience will decide.
Sometimes I like to be the dominant, other times I like to be controlled.

I enjoy exploring sexual boundaries (consensually of course), this Read more… is what makes me want to explore as much as I can with as many different people as possible. Life is short, and it's easy to sit and say 'What if'.

My interest in Fetish and kink dates back many, many years, but apart from one relationship I’ve never had an opportunity to explore what being involved in kink means on a regular basis, although over the past 18 months I've had the opportunity to explore this more. There is more to this than just ropes, chains, and pain.... There is pleasure to be taken and explored, mental as well as physical, sharing experiences. All this is what I wish to explore.

I have an high EQ, so am looking for someone who shares that part of understanding in what being involved within the scene means. And hopefully find a play partner who wants to explore this together.

Kink is not a game for fantasists, it's where I hope to meet someone who shares similar interests and ideals, but who I can have a drink and a chat with first.... This includes messages.

I’m unabashedly single (so no hidden wife, girlfriend or kids), and live alone with my dog. I believe in honesty and respect and will always be courteous when messaging someone (after all manners cost nothing).
Rob_Evolving
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  • 05.11.2022 8:32:53
  • Male (43)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
  • Rob_Evolving
Rob_Evolving
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  • 01.11.2022 13:27:08
  • Male (43)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
Rob_Evolving
icon-wio Rob_Evolving wrote something in the forum
  • 27.12.2018 12:46:02
  • Male (43)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
A newcomers guide to finding a partner.

I concur with haroldcecilgeorge's comment this a very insightful article, having returned to this site after being in my first 'kink/fetish' relationship, I forgot what a minefield it can be, and trying to stand out from the crowd can be a little daunting. I've determined that it will probably take Read more… some time, and also that I need to be true to myself and not try to be someone I'm not. A lot of what you have written backs up my thinking. So Thank you.

Rob_Evolving
icon-wio Rob_Evolving wrote something in the forum
  • 27.12.2018 12:37:54
  • Male (43)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
How do I?

I understand your sentiment very well, my last girlfriend was very submissive and it was my first occasion of being dominant, which I enjoyed. Unfortunately things didn't work out so I'm back to square one. Just this time I have a much clearer idea of who I am what I want. Take a look at Read more… BDSMtest.org, this may help you to determine what interests you and what doesn't. If you want to chat with others there are plenty of other ways as detailed in eymblacksheep's post. Or if you just want to have a respectful talk about things drop me a message, I am not someone who dives into the 'I want to be your dom' Trope. Good luck!

Rob_Evolving
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  • 24.12.2018 16:49:37
  • Male (43)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
  • Rob_Evolving
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  • 24.12.2018 0:14:54
  • Male (43)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single

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