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Age 33
Status Single
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Zodiac sign Cancer

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I love just about every type of movie, several varieties of metal music, and basketball (watching and playing, but I'm much better at watching)...good at word games, ok at board games, bad at video games...I recently got my own place (I can hardly believe it!), and it's a work in progress much like myself

I'm very submissive by nature, but lately I have been curious about playing a dominant role. I would like to try tying someone up, giving them a good spanking, maybe work up to teeth marks and breath play. Any volunteers? 😂
Still, pleasing my Domme is just the best! From giving a massage to getting smothered and from dining out to doing the dishes, I want to be adventurous and devoted as well as guided and desired...
My subby nature can be expressed in different ways, and I guess more ways could be added the more I learn and experience. My 'kink journey' began with trying on my ***s' swimsuits and dresses. IDK if I'm a "sissy" exactly, but I have always enjoyed dressing up and would love to serve as a maid, tutor (schoolgirl), nurse...service could just be chores, or more if we want.
I would also love to be a pet. The only Domme I've met irl asked if I like to be petted, I didn't know so she just reached up and petted my head--and my knees buckled! So yeah, leash and collar, cage, tricks, water bowl.. 🦊
The side I've become interested in showing most recently is the one that doesn't involve lingerie or a tail, it's just plain old me. I want to see how or if just me can serve you, make you smile, or help you explore and express yourself. I have limits, but I'm ready and willing to put them to the test in hopes of pleasing you.
Anyways, that's enough about me, pretty sure you get a cookie if you read all this lol

Limits

This is probably not an exhaustive list, but-
I don't think I could do heavy cbt or sounding, anything public has to be very subtle, race play or poly may require some persuasion

Groups

    Always packing rope next to your passport? This group is for wanderlust-driven fetishists who love to explore the world — and maybe the local scene too. Share travel tips, events, destinations, and connect with fellow globetrotters.
    Love films, but not just the adult kind? This group is for chatting about mainstream movies, indie gems, documentaries, and the art of cinema — no explicit content here. Share reviews, recommendations, and film nerd joy (clothed).

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Deciem
icon-wio Deciem created an entry in Cinephiles & Critics
I saw Project Hail Mary over the weekend. It was good, sort of a Ryan gosling + adorable rock lobster from outer space version of Passengers.
Deciem
icon-wio Deciem wrote something in the forum
  • 04.04.2026 8:23:37
  • Male (33)
  • Phoenix
  • Single
Are gym bros and nerds attracted to plus sized women?

I'm a geek/nerd who's into bi/alt/goth girls 🤘🤓

Deciem
icon-wio Deciem has updated their profile description
  • 30.03.2026 9:40:09
  • Male (33)
  • Phoenix
  • Single
not premium so can't see spanks--please message!

I love just about every type of movie, several varieties of metal music, and basketball (watching and playing, but I'm much better at watching)...good at word games, ok at board games, bad at video games...I recently got my own place (I can hardly Read more… believe it!), and it's a work in progress much like myself

I'm very submissive by nature, but lately I have been curious about playing a dominant role. I would like to try tying someone up, giving them a good spanking, maybe work up to teeth marks and breath play. Any volunteers? 😂
Still, pleasing my Domme is just the best! From giving a massage to getting smothered and from dining out to doing the dishes, I want to be adventurous and devoted as well as guided and desired...
My subby nature can be expressed in different ways, and I guess more ways could be added the more I learn and experience. My 'kink journey' began with trying on my ***s' swimsuits and dresses. IDK if I'm a "sissy" exactly, but I have always enjoyed dressing up and would love to serve as a maid, tutor (schoolgirl), nurse...service could just be chores, or more if we want.
I would also love to be a pet. The only Domme I've met irl asked if I like to be petted, I didn't know so she just reached up and petted my head--and my knees buckled! So yeah, leash and collar, cage, tricks, water bowl.. 🦊
The side I've become interested in showing most recently is the one that doesn't involve lingerie or a tail, it's just plain old me. I want to see how or if just me can serve you, make you smile, or help you explore and express yourself. I have limits, but I'm ready and willing to put them to the test in hopes of pleasing you.
Anyways, that's enough about me, pretty sure you get a cookie if you read all this lol
Deciem
icon-wio Deciem has updated the limits
  • 30.03.2026 9:06:04
  • Male (33)
  • Phoenix
  • Single
This is probably not an exhaustive list, but-
I don't think I could do heavy cbt or sounding, anything public has to be very subtle, race play or poly may require some persuasion
Deciem
icon-wio Deciem wrote something in the forum
  • 28.03.2026 8:20:02
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  • Phoenix
  • Single
What do you think of this fetish…

I think muscular women can be really hot, tho some go a bit crazy with it. I also like to be dommed...the two are probably related 😅

Deciem
icon-wio Deciem wrote something in the forum
  • 24.03.2026 9:22:20
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kinky Christians

I definitely share this dilemma. I am a man, but I enjoy (like super duper enjoy) wearing lingerie and women's clothing. The Bible says a woman shouldn't wear men's clothing or men women's, but hoodies and T-shirts are unisex, so how does the rule apply to those? What about actors back in the day Read more… who provided for their families by playing female roles? And what does 'wear' mean- "ever put on" or "present oneself publicly in"? If I marry a Woman who sometimes likes to peg dolled-up, tied-up lil me, would it be ok since it would be done out of love and kept in the "marriage bed"? I know for the right one I could give up my kinks (I have others hehe). I really want to marry and raise a family with a Domme, but more importantly I want not mine but God's will to be done. If you've read this far, here's the main thing: pray. Pray for guidance, for forgiveness, and for like-minded, similarly conflicted kinky Christ followers out there. I'm praying for you too 😘 God bless

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  • 22.03.2026 8:49:00
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Caged bird

I found this relatable and inspiring, thank you so much for posting, and I hope you find clear blue skies and a good strong tree 💙

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"I want to live the stories I write, see the whole world with my own eyes, take the unknown trail, and hear the songs the night sings."

Introvert, omnivore, escapist: I love movies, gothy metal, traveling, and basketball: good at word games, ok at board games, bad at video games: I'm Read more… working a lot to save up for a place.

submissive, curious about switching: into all sorts of things and still exploring: most interested in giving worship, developing my ou¢h tolerance, and being on a leash (literally and figuratively)