About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- BDSM Lovers
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Erotic Photography
- Amateur Videos
- Anal Play
- Anal Beads
- Anal Plugs
- Blindfolds
- BDSM
- Biting Fetish
- Bizarre Fetish
- Bondage
- Bondage Rope
- Butts
- Chastity
- Circumcised Penis
- Discipline
- Doctor Role Play
- Domination
- Electro Sex Stimulation
- Violet Wand
- Erotic Art
- Erotic Film
- Erotica
- Facesitting
- Female Domination
- Restraints
- Fisting
- Foreplay
- Torturer - Captive Prisoner
- Gender Play
- Genital Torture
- Rough Sex
- Hentai / Anime
- Humiliation
- Kinky Sex
- Kissing
- Costumes
- Lap Dance
- Masochism
- Nipple Clamps
- Nipple Play
- Nipples
- Nudism
- Oral Sex
- Orgasm Control
- Pinching
- Prostate Massager
- Role Play
- Sadism
- Sensory Deprivation
- Sex on the Beach
- Car Sex
- Outdoor Sex
- Shower Sex
- Sex Toys
- Slave Training
- Spanking
- Strap-on
- Striptease
- Sweet Pain
- Testicular Bondage
- Voyeurism
- Wax Play
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Many possibilities! There are plenty of ways to meet new kinksters. Check out our free BDSM dating. Still not convinced to meet in person? Take a look at some kinky discussions taking place, right now...
If you want a reply, be local to the West Midlands, and willing to meet in a public place for a coffee or whatever to see if there’s chemistry there. A brief introduction online is fine but I’m not here for an online wank. I have a life and if I can’t touch you then you don’t exist, sorry!
I don’t Read more… need or want money/gifts/tributes from anyone neither now nor later. I'm very well aware of the issues subs face with fake and self-styled dommes. So please, put down the defensive attitude (or entitlement) when you write me.
I like genuine people. I'm attracted to intelligence and men who like to receive pain. I'm not into anything to do with toilet stuff or blood, hate latex, don't want multiple partners during play and not into women.
I'm into cbt, bondage, giving pain, cp, CFNM, nipple play, pegging, erotic photography, humiliation is more of a party trick Lol don't mind it but not something I'm all out after. However the list of what I like is very long and I like to try new things as long as they're not listed above among my dislikes. I look after my subs' welfare. If that's not your thing now you know.
On the vanilla side, I like factual books, weight training, walking, documentaries, cooking, cats, comedies, history and travelling to a place with a historic backdrop.
I don’t Read more… need or want money/gifts/tributes from anyone neither now nor later. I'm very well aware of the issues subs face with fake and self-styled dommes. So please, put down the defensive attitude (or entitlement) when you write me.
I like genuine people. I'm attracted to intelligence and men who like to receive pain. I'm not into anything to do with toilet stuff or blood, hate latex, don't want multiple partners during play and not into women.
I'm into cbt, bondage, giving pain, cp, CFNM, nipple play, pegging, erotic photography, humiliation is more of a party trick Lol don't mind it but not something I'm all out after. However the list of what I like is very long and I like to try new things as long as they're not listed above among my dislikes. I look after my subs' welfare. If that's not your thing now you know.
On the vanilla side, I like factual books, weight training, walking, documentaries, cooking, cats, comedies, history and travelling to a place with a historic backdrop.
First of all, Idon't need or want money/gifts/tributes from anyone and those who try to swindle you out of some should be ashamed of themselves. I'm independent and value a man who is independent. Submissive men aren't doormats to me. Nor should anyone judge them because they're just the other Read more…
side of the same coin a Domme is on. I'm very well aware of the issues subs face with fake and self-styled dommes. So please, put down the defensive attitude (or entitlement) when you write me.
I like to establish a good connection for us both to feel safe and comfortable. I don't mind getting to know a submissive guy online but anything sexual and virtual at the same time just bores me in a minute.
I like genuine people. I'm attracted to intelligence and men who like to receive pain. I'm not into anything to do with toilet stuff or blood, hate latex, don't want multiple partners during play and not into women.
I'm into cbt, bondage, giving pain, cp, CFNM, nipple play, pegging, erotic photography, humiliation is more of a party trick Lol don't mind it but not something I'm all out after. However the list of what I like is very long and I like to try new things as long as they're not listed above among my dislikes. I look after my subs' welfare. If that's not your thing now you know.
Please be local to Birmingham and surrounding areas.
Any questions, please ask. If you want a reply don't call me Mistress. I hate the darn word. Just be normal for now. Lol
On the vanilla side, I like factual books, weight training, walking, documentaries, cooking, cats, comedies, history and travelling to a place with a historic backdrop.
I like to establish a good connection for us both to feel safe and comfortable. I don't mind getting to know a submissive guy online but anything sexual and virtual at the same time just bores me in a minute.
I like genuine people. I'm attracted to intelligence and men who like to receive pain. I'm not into anything to do with toilet stuff or blood, hate latex, don't want multiple partners during play and not into women.
I'm into cbt, bondage, giving pain, cp, CFNM, nipple play, pegging, erotic photography, humiliation is more of a party trick Lol don't mind it but not something I'm all out after. However the list of what I like is very long and I like to try new things as long as they're not listed above among my dislikes. I look after my subs' welfare. If that's not your thing now you know.
Please be local to Birmingham and surrounding areas.
Any questions, please ask. If you want a reply don't call me Mistress. I hate the darn word. Just be normal for now. Lol
On the vanilla side, I like factual books, weight training, walking, documentaries, cooking, cats, comedies, history and travelling to a place with a historic backdrop.
Word of caution to new subs
My words here are to truly submissive men and women. Without any further introduction, as a female Domme, I must make a few things clear:
As a sub you are fully entitled to how you feel. Don't let anyone rob you of how you feel and your right to make your feelings known. If you're not able to talk Read more…freely with your dom(me), they're not the right Dom for you.
Distinguish between being dominated and being just blatantly used and abused. One leaves you feeling fulfilled while the other leaves you feeling like shit about everything that went down. Don't ever blame yourself for feeling horrible after play. It's a sign that the dom don't know what they're doing and need to be kicked to the curb. Many people style themselves masters and mistresses to take their insecurities out on people. Their damaged attitude towards you isn't your fault. A true Dom(me) will seek to protect you during play and look after you after play. The harsher the play, the more responsibility a dom has. If they can't provide that, then they have failed. Not you.
If your dom(me) can't address your needs or comments, it's not your problem. If you've been respectful and honest with them, don't allow anyone to rob you of your right to be heard and having your needs met. If you decide to walk away, don't guilt trip yourself that you'll hurt the dom's feelings for walking away. You're walking away for a good reason.
If your dom violates your trust by breaking a limit, and you're not likely to stop seeing them over it, DEMAND an apology in-kind. Words are cheap. Have standards. Not because you're submissive in the bedroom, it means you're a doormat for them to wipe the lows of their lives on. Make what you want and need versus what you WILL NOT deal with clear from the beginning. This is not you domming from the bottom, this is you sorting the wheat from the chaff.. sorting the real doms from bratty people with mommy/daddy issues... and a stick!
Finally, laugh at a Dom(me) that asks you for money! Being dominant is about being in control of OURSELVES before we can even dream of being in control of you! But we need your money (I.e. Your independence) to supplement our own? If a Domme is an industry pro then the deal is clear. But putting you in a situation of manipulation for you to pay for "stuff" is nothing but a scam. No excuses. As a Domme, I have the toys I'm domming with. Otherwise how am I a Domme? What was I domming with? No self respecting dom takes money from subs. Just in the same manner you wouldn't be paid to be a sub.
Just my two cents.
Stay safe, happy and clever
As a sub you are fully entitled to how you feel. Don't let anyone rob you of how you feel and your right to make your feelings known. If you're not able to talk Read more…freely with your dom(me), they're not the right Dom for you.
Distinguish between being dominated and being just blatantly used and abused. One leaves you feeling fulfilled while the other leaves you feeling like shit about everything that went down. Don't ever blame yourself for feeling horrible after play. It's a sign that the dom don't know what they're doing and need to be kicked to the curb. Many people style themselves masters and mistresses to take their insecurities out on people. Their damaged attitude towards you isn't your fault. A true Dom(me) will seek to protect you during play and look after you after play. The harsher the play, the more responsibility a dom has. If they can't provide that, then they have failed. Not you.
If your dom(me) can't address your needs or comments, it's not your problem. If you've been respectful and honest with them, don't allow anyone to rob you of your right to be heard and having your needs met. If you decide to walk away, don't guilt trip yourself that you'll hurt the dom's feelings for walking away. You're walking away for a good reason.
If your dom violates your trust by breaking a limit, and you're not likely to stop seeing them over it, DEMAND an apology in-kind. Words are cheap. Have standards. Not because you're submissive in the bedroom, it means you're a doormat for them to wipe the lows of their lives on. Make what you want and need versus what you WILL NOT deal with clear from the beginning. This is not you domming from the bottom, this is you sorting the wheat from the chaff.. sorting the real doms from bratty people with mommy/daddy issues... and a stick!
Finally, laugh at a Dom(me) that asks you for money! Being dominant is about being in control of OURSELVES before we can even dream of being in control of you! But we need your money (I.e. Your independence) to supplement our own? If a Domme is an industry pro then the deal is clear. But putting you in a situation of manipulation for you to pay for "stuff" is nothing but a scam. No excuses. As a Domme, I have the toys I'm domming with. Otherwise how am I a Domme? What was I domming with? No self respecting dom takes money from subs. Just in the same manner you wouldn't be paid to be a sub.
Just my two cents.
Stay safe, happy and clever
Deleted profile Wow some very powerful words and everything that is said is very true and to the point
From a Submissive side
It takes ages to get to a level of trust where you can just naturally play and not force things
If your Dom oversteps what you agreed or takes no notice of your safe words (We have two Read more… First one means I'm ok but about at my limit so ease back a bit Second is stop ! Personally I have never had to use my stop safe word and hope I never have to) you should walk away
Respect is earned no matter what the situation is
Never do anything that you are not comfortable doing no matter how much you are asked or ordered We all have our limits at the end of the day
From a Submissive side
It takes ages to get to a level of trust where you can just naturally play and not force things
If your Dom oversteps what you agreed or takes no notice of your safe words (We have two Read more… First one means I'm ok but about at my limit so ease back a bit Second is stop ! Personally I have never had to use my stop safe word and hope I never have to) you should walk away
Respect is earned no matter what the situation is
Never do anything that you are not comfortable doing no matter how much you are asked or ordered We all have our limits at the end of the day
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18.10.2017 9:59:04
VictoriaBlisse Agreed, at the end of the day any relationship needs mutual respect and I could argue a BDSM one really needs that to work. Agreed, at the end of the day any relationship needs mutual respect and I could argue a BDSM one really needs that to work.
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Deleted profile I couldn't agree more. To be honest, I think the sub is actually the one in charge as it's they who give their submission & we have to earn it. If we overstep the line it's us who should apologise. As was said, a subs needs are equally as important as the dominants & great care should be taken to Read more… look after them during & after play. Although some really do want to be treated like dirt, during & after play, most don't. So remember all you subs, if your dom doesn't discuss what your wants & boundaries are, doesn't care if they harm you or not & doesn't wrap you up in cotton wool after a play session & make you feel safe then you should tell themto change & if they don't, then dump them ! And good luck to you all XXX
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How to deal with another dom?
My opinion is that you don't deal with him at all. Forget about this guy completely and don't play with him. Manipulation, entitlement and disrespect from the get go is a recipe for epic disaster. No real Dom behaves this way. Too many brats with sticks about.
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Is it right for mistresses to ask for tribute?
Asking for money is cheap and disgusting. No excuses. If she's a sex worker she should say it from the get go. I buy the toys Im interested in. If the guy is interested in something I don't have, he buys it and keeps it. Other than that, I'm not even interested in a gift and consider them a gateway Read more… to misunderstandings and problems. Don't budge on your rules. Don't let anyone guilt trip you for having them.
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Pegging training - sub
I'm not sure if you want to try it giving or receiving. In my experience as a giver, you don't just try it. It may cause injury to an anal virgin. You gotta try small butt plugs and build up to larger ones until the sphincter muscle is ready to receive the girth of a penis or strap on.
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First of all, I don't need or want money/gifts/tributes from anyone and those who try to swindle you out of some should be ashamed of themselves. I'm independent and value a man who is independent. Submissive men aren't doormats to me. Nor should anyone judge them because they're just the other Read more…
side of the same coin a Domme is on. I'm very well aware of the issues subs face with fake and self-styled dommes. So please, put down the defensive attitude (or entitlement) when you write me.
I like to establish a good connection for us both to feel safe and comfortable. I don't mind getting to know a submissive guy online but anything sexual and virtual at the same time just bores me in a minute.
I like genuine people. I'm attracted to intelligence and men who like to receive pain. I'm not into anything to do with toilet stuff or blood, hate latex, don't want multiple partners during play and not into women.
I'm into cbt, bondage, giving pain, cp, CFNM, nipple play, pegging, erotic photography, humiliation is more of a party trick Lol don't mind it but not something I'm all out after. However the list of what I like is very long and I like to try new things as long as they're not listed above among my dislikes. I look after my subs' welfare. If that's not your thing now you know.
Please be local to Birmingham and surrounding areas.
Any questions, please ask. If you want a reply don't call me Mistress. I hate the darn word. Just be normal for now. Lol
On the vanilla side, I like factual books, weight training, walking, documentaries, cooking, cats, comedies, history and travelling to a place with a historic backdrop.
I like to establish a good connection for us both to feel safe and comfortable. I don't mind getting to know a submissive guy online but anything sexual and virtual at the same time just bores me in a minute.
I like genuine people. I'm attracted to intelligence and men who like to receive pain. I'm not into anything to do with toilet stuff or blood, hate latex, don't want multiple partners during play and not into women.
I'm into cbt, bondage, giving pain, cp, CFNM, nipple play, pegging, erotic photography, humiliation is more of a party trick Lol don't mind it but not something I'm all out after. However the list of what I like is very long and I like to try new things as long as they're not listed above among my dislikes. I look after my subs' welfare. If that's not your thing now you know.
Please be local to Birmingham and surrounding areas.
Any questions, please ask. If you want a reply don't call me Mistress. I hate the darn word. Just be normal for now. Lol
On the vanilla side, I like factual books, weight training, walking, documentaries, cooking, cats, comedies, history and travelling to a place with a historic backdrop.
Dominant female looking for an intelligent single submissive male for fun and a possible relationship though can't promise a relationship till I've known the guy for long. I'm not here to sub for anyone or play online. I'm into the real thing. Just to get one thing (or two) out of the way, I'm not Read more…
a sex worker (I don't care what they call themselves) asking for money or begging for gifts. I don't need financial support from anyone and I will NOT offer any financial favours in ANY form. I don't give gifts, I don't move strangers in whether they "love me" or not and whatever other forms of bs losers pretending to be subs want to project on women. Secondly (and lastly thank goodness), I'm not here for whack whack whack .. I like to establish a good connection for us both to feel safe and comfortable. And if you must know the first couple of times with me are awkward till I get a feel of the guy.
I like genuine people. I'm attracted to intelligence and men who like to receive pain. ImNot into anything to do with toilet stuff or blood, hate latex, don't want multiple partners during play and not into women.
I'm into cbt, bondage, giving pain, cp, CFNM, nipple play, pegging, erotic photography, humiliation is more of a party trick Lol don't mind it but not something I'm all out after. However the list of what I like is very long and I like to try new things as long as they're not listed above among my dislikes. I look after my subs' welfare. If that's not your thing now you know.
Please be local to Birmingham and surrounding areas.
I
Any questions, please ask. If you want a reply don't call me Mistress. I hate the darn word. Just be normal for now. Lol I'm not looking for drones.
On the vanilla side, I like factual books, weight training, walking, documentaries, cooking, cats, comedies, history and travelling to a place with a historic backdrop.
I like genuine people. I'm attracted to intelligence and men who like to receive pain. ImNot into anything to do with toilet stuff or blood, hate latex, don't want multiple partners during play and not into women.
I'm into cbt, bondage, giving pain, cp, CFNM, nipple play, pegging, erotic photography, humiliation is more of a party trick Lol don't mind it but not something I'm all out after. However the list of what I like is very long and I like to try new things as long as they're not listed above among my dislikes. I look after my subs' welfare. If that's not your thing now you know.
Please be local to Birmingham and surrounding areas.
I
Any questions, please ask. If you want a reply don't call me Mistress. I hate the darn word. Just be normal for now. Lol I'm not looking for drones.
On the vanilla side, I like factual books, weight training, walking, documentaries, cooking, cats, comedies, history and travelling to a place with a historic backdrop.
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