Happy early birthday I am looking for that too. I don't know the "ropes" just the concept and the mental fortitude. I too have a goal to be more open and free like many others.

This is a question I have always wanted to ask. Honeslty I thought about doing a photo school to feel comfortable in my own skin and help to build my self image.

I dont know it i am confident enough to attend a munch alone yet. But also i dont have people that i would be okay on telling people about my kinks. So i am been silently reading. I have issues with rejections and social anxiety. Has anyone over came this before.

I feel that this kink is not as weird at all. In a weird way that reminds me when I was young a girl had a crush on me that I didn't know and would constantly bully me. Slam me into the fence pick on me weggies and the occasional pantsing. At the time I didn't understand it but now I can see where Read more… someone would like that kind of aspect of it if the feeling was mutual. Not sure where one would begin because it could cover over many kinks and as the once comment above. They don't know someone would like it done to them when I is ment to annoy. But in the larger picture is just effection that your being noticed. Hope you find a good one. Sounds fun.

You're a very beautiful woman you are enough. I wish I can say the same for myself. Been alone going on 8 years. I'm still trying to find myself to make myself whole by myself. Once I found out I am a caregiver I have a high need to give my all to someone and become quickly attached. I was cheated Read more… on I years and deflect on that I was the cheater. So I felt horrible having somebody leave me when I gave them my world for then and their kids. Let me know how long it take to recover I still am

Wooot I feel this. I had been doing that dance for about 6 years. It's gotten worse and worse it seems for me.

Honestly I don't understand why others have a hard time grasping the concept that not every guy is confident enough to message people online at first. I know i am not reasons why i am single number one. 2 i feel as if a guy was to make a good coherent messages you get way less replys back. Honestly Read more… i have tried putting some serious effort in first messages and get nothing back. Its disappointing when I personally fail so many times. So why put in that much effort? 9 times at of 10 people will know if they will respond based on attraction allone. is a huge ratio difference between women getting messages and men getting messages obviously