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Gender Woman
Age 32
Status Single
Height 170cm
Weight 200kg
Body shape Plus-size
Eye colour Blue
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Long
Orientation Bi-curious
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Pubic Hair Natural
Body hair Some hair
Breast size J
Zodiac sign Libra
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings
Disability

About me

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Description

Newly peaked and learning that the fantasies I've had most of my life are actually part of BDSM.

Hers to meet others and explore my kinks and limits.

Im a SSBBW and a wheelchair user. Some of my limits are pretty much linked to physical issues, and the safety of everyone involved is most important.

Recently met up with a complete arse and got hurt, so don't be surprised if it takes me a little while to get to know and trust you

Limits

Scat. Animals. Breath control/face fucking or anything that can restrict breathing.

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Lifeofedge
icon-wio Lifeofedge has updated their profile description
  • 21.05.2024 16:53:51
  • Female (32)
  • Cambridge
  • Single
Newly peaked and learning that the fantasies I've had most of my life are actually part of BDSM.

Hers to meet others and explore my kinks and limits.

Im a SSBBW and a wheelchair user. Some of my limits are pretty much linked to physical issues, and the safety of everyone involved is most Read more… important.

Recently met up with a complete arse and got hurt, so don't be surprised if it takes me a little while to get to know and trust you
Lifeofedge
icon-wio Lifeofedge wrote something in the forum
  • 20.05.2024 18:10:27
  • Female (32)
  • Cambridge
  • Single
Losing virginity...

I know it's kinda confusing because I posted about this here, but there wasn't any discussion of BDSM involved. I did warn him it was my first time having sex with a man, and he said he had been with others when it was their first time too. I know that it wasnt rape, I agreed to him having sex with Read more… me, I just wasn't expecting what happened. Tbh I think I kind of pissed him off because I cried, so he shoved my face into the sofa cushions.

Likemythicalman, Mistressjoy22 · Jump to discussion
Lifeofedge
icon-wio Lifeofedge created a topic in New to BDSM, Kink & Fetish?
Losing virginity...
Okay, so I'm in my early 30s, and in the past I've had some kinky online relationships, and fooled around with other females in my teen. I've always known my tastes align more with people who are into BDSM, and I like a bit of pain with my pleasure.
Last month I met up with a guy I met online and Read more…had sex with him, it was my time. We actually didn't talk about anything BDSM related so I was kinda expecting vanilla type sex. He went hard quickly and kind of shoved in, and was pretty rough. I knew it was going to be sore but I was in tears, and bled after. I guess I just didn't expect it to be more painful than pleasurable.
What can I do to prepare for my next time? How do I make sure it's less painful and more enjoyable?
Likelake-city167458, myfaerie, TwistedTruckerand 10 more… · 16 Replies
arnhem961
arnhem961 ➦arnhem961 quote Lifeofedge:❝I know it's kinda confusing because I posted about this here, but there wasn't any discussion of BDSM involved. I did warn him it was my first time having sex with a man, and he said he had been with others when it was their first time too. I know that it wasnt rape, I Read more… agreed to him having sex with me, I just wasn't expecting what happened. Tbh I think I kind of pissed him off because I cried, so he shoved my face into the sofa cushions. ❞
It may not have been your definition of rape, but please don't think it's normal for someone to hear you crying from being in distress & respond by muffling your cries to still have their way with you.
You may be inexperienced, and that's fine. But don't ever think that it makes you anything lesser of a person. Saying you pissed him off because you cried sounds like you feel ashamed for crying. Really, do not beat yourself up for what this bastard did. You were wronged, but it's not your fault.
Likejmal7, coquette- · 22.05.2024 1:52:19
PillowPrincess1
PillowPrincess1 ➦PillowPrincess1 quote Lifeofedge:❝I know it's kinda confusing because I posted about this here, but there wasn't any discussion of BDSM involved. I did warn him it was my first time having sex with a man, and he said he had been with others when it was their first time too. I know that it wasnt Read more… rape, I agreed to him having sex with me, I just wasn't expecting what happened. Tbh I think I kind of pissed him off because I cried, so he shoved my face into the sofa cushions. ❞
Oh no baby girl! I understand why you feel guilty saying so but you were raped. Not saying you HAVE TO report it- but you should definitely talk to someone - you need care. Just because you agreed to sex does not mean he gets to just do whatever! OMG IM SO ANGRY FOR YOu!!
Likecoquette-, strawberry_babie, arnhem961 · 21.05.2024 22:16:25
coquette-
coquette- I have messaged you away from the conflict between the others arguing I have messaged you away from the conflict between the others arguing
Like · 21.05.2024 12:19:28
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Lifeofedge
icon-wio Lifeofedge wrote something in the forum
  • 19.05.2024 17:15:35
  • Female (32)
  • Cambridge
  • Single
Medical fetish

If you want to have some sort of airwary inserted, a basic OP airway would be much safer.

Lifeofedge
icon-wio Lifeofedge finished the BDSM Test
  • 24.04.2024 15:49:08
  • Female (32)
  • Cambridge
  • Single

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Lifeofedge
icon-wio Lifeofedge wrote something about themself
  • 24.04.2024 15:20:47
  • Female (32)
  • Cambridge
  • Single
Newly peaked and learning that the fantasies I've had most of my life are actually part of BDSM.

Hers to meet others and explore my kinks and limits.
Lifeofedge
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  • 24.04.2024 15:20:47
  • Female (32)
  • Cambridge
  • Single
Scat. Animals. Breath control/face fucking or anything that can restrict breathing.
Lifeofedge
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  • 24.04.2024 15:06:34
  • Female (32)
  • Cambridge
  • Single

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