About me
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- Events & Places
- Networking
- BDSM Lovers
Description
I am going away for a while. My single toggle will be off till I am back.
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Only try to connect with me if you intend to meet soon. If I have to tell you how to be a dominant then you are not the right dominant for me. I am not a sissy. And please don't use or save my photos.
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I am here to seriously explore real life d/s relationship/dynamic among other things (like platonic friends and stuff). I am a switch in kink, but right now I mostly want to explore as a submissive (I won't switch with the same person); outside of kink I am kind of undefined. I am inexperienced sexually but I have good understanding of sex, kink, and bdsm dynamics. I am looking for a dominant kink partner (and friends) who gives me exposure to new experiences and adventures.
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I am a very dynamic person, an ambivert (but more introverted rn), and therefore, like a lot of things. I am looking for a partner who isn't rigid and is open to new perspectives. I enjoy and don't cringe at being authentic and unfiltered. I don't want anything or anyone superficial.
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I am girl/feminine side leaning genderfluid. I want to explore and develop my feminine/girl self authentically and build confidence/comfort in being able to overtly express that prominent side of me, which I am hoping to do with the support of those I find here. I intend to only/mostly be in girl identity with my kink partner, especially as a submissive. I have an amab body (no hrt yet, can explain/discuss; exploring my options right now). My body is good for both amab and afab partners. Into guys mostly for kink & fun. My serious love interest is cis girls and not-butch nb afabs. (Note: What is written in this description is not intended for primary relationship because I don't expect to find one here; if we are looking in that direction, it is a whole separate discussion, please don't assume anything.)
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I seriously prefer a dependable dominant in the relationship who can, as needed or mutually desired, cover things like: dates, kink stuff (at the very least even if you can't manage other things), and outfits for play time or going out based on your taste (because I mostly have gender-neutral or androgynous clothes). This is because I am not independent and a student right now; it is unintentional. I am not comfortable calling someone daddy or mommy but I am curious about daddy/mommy/master and princess dynamic (it is not necessary though).
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Limits
The following things are a big NO. I am open to exploration outside of what is listed.
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×/serious /, unhygienic (, , butthole licking, etc.), and other risky/hazardous stuff.
×Manipulation (especially gaslighting, it is a total hard limit and I will cut off immediately).
×Non-sexual and demeaning words (dirty talk and calling me slutty stuff is enjoyable but shaming me and stuff like that is not).
×Serious sadomasochism is hard limit. Light stuff that doesn't break any limits is ok and enjoyable.
×Posting my photos where I can be recognized in any way or without my consent. You are not allowed to save it on your end in any form as well unless I know you and explicitly give you consent.
×Entitled dominants who expect honorifics or my submission before we even know each other or have a relationship/contract formed; pretentious people.
×If you ghost me I will exorcise you out of my dms. Have the integrity to at least be honest about your intentions.
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Soft Limits
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•Sexting: I don't like it but would be open to it after some stable offline dynamic has formed.
•Chastity: I don't like it in general. If we decide that I should try it, then I will hold its access and have physical control of it even if I will mostly be following your commands/instructions for it or predecided rules.
•Open to conditional CNC once something stable has formed.
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I value clear and honest communication. I will know more as I gain experience.
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
Wanna know what interests me?:
- Anal Sex
- Anal Plugs
- Androgyny
- BDSM
- BDSM Collar
- Bisexual
- Bondage
- Bondage Cuffs
- Bondage Harness
- Bondage Rope
- Caregiver / little
- Collar & Leash
- Corsets
- Cosplay
- Cuddling
- Cunnilingus
- Lingerie Fetish
- Dirty Talk
- Threesomes
- Edgeplay
- Spandex Fetish
- Erotic Hypnosis
- Erotica
- Sex Worker - Client
- Restraints
- Fetish Wear
- FFM Threesome
- Foreplay
- Futanari
- Gangbang
- Gender Play
- Goth
- Rubber Fetish
- Handjobs
- Hentai / Anime
- Heterosexual
- High Heel Fetish
- Human Pony Harness
- Hypersexuality
- Kamasutra
- Kinky Sex
- Kissing
- Costumes
- Patent Leather Fetish
- Latex Fetish
- Leather Fetish
- Lesbian
- Masks
- MMF Threesome
- Multiple Orgasms
- Nylon Fetish
- Oral Sex
- Pansexual
- Polyamory
- Puppy Play
- Quickies
- Role Play
- Velvet Fetish
- Sapiosexual
- Silk Fetish
- Cottaging
- Car Sex
- Sex In Bed
- Sex Machine
- Older Sex Partners
- Sex Toys
- Slave Training
- Spreader Bar
- Steampunk
- Striptease
- Submission
- Tantric Sex
- Uniform Fetish
- Subservience
- Vanilla
- Vibrators
- Wet Look Clothing
My places
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Only try to connect with me if you intend to meet soon. If I have to tell you how to be a dominant then you are not the right dominant for me. I am not a sissy. And please don't use or save my photos.
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I am here to Read more… seriously explore real life d/s relationship/dynamic among other things (like platonic friends and stuff). I am a switch in kink, but right now I mostly want to explore as a submissive (I won't switch with the same person); outside of kink I am kind of undefined. I am inexperienced sexually but I have good understanding of sex, kink, and bdsm dynamics. I am looking for a dominant kink partner (and friends) who gives me exposure to new experiences and adventures.
.
I am a very dynamic person, an ambivert (but more introverted rn), and therefore, like a lot of things. I am looking for a partner who isn't rigid and is open to new perspectives. I enjoy and don't cringe at being authentic and unfiltered. I don't want anything or anyone superficial.
.
I am girl/feminine side leaning genderfluid. I want to explore and develop my feminine/girl self authentically and build confidence/comfort in being able to overtly express that prominent side of me, which I am hoping to do with the support of those I find here. I intend to only/mostly be in girl identity with my kink partner, especially as a submissive. I have an amab body (no hrt yet, can explain/discuss; exploring my options right now). My body is good for both amab and afab partners. Into guys mostly for kink & fun. My serious love interest is cis girls and not-butch nb afabs. (Note: What is written in this description is not intended for primary relationship because I don't expect to find one here; if we are looking in that direction, it is a whole separate discussion, please don't assume anything.)
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I seriously prefer a dependable dominant in the relationship who can, as needed or mutually desired, cover things like: dates, kink stuff (at the very least even if you can't manage other things), and outfits for play time or going out based on your taste (because I mostly have gender-neutral or androgynous clothes). This is because I am not independent and a student right now; it is unintentional. I am not comfortable calling someone daddy or mommy but I am curious about daddy/mommy/master and princess dynamic (it is not necessary though).
...
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×/serious /, unhygienic (, , butthole licking, etc.), and other risky/hazardous stuff.
×Manipulation (especially gaslighting, it is a total hard limit and I will cut off immediately).
×Non-sexual and demeaning Read more… words (dirty talk and calling me slutty stuff is enjoyable but shaming me and stuff like that is not).
×Serious sadomasochism is hard limit. Light stuff that doesn't break any limits is ok and enjoyable.
×Posting my photos where I can be recognized in any way or without my consent. You are not allowed to save it on your end in any form as well unless I know you and explicitly give you consent.
×Entitled dominants who expect honorifics or my submission before we even know each other or have a relationship/contract formed; pretentious people.
×If you ghost me I will exorcise you out of my dms. Have the integrity to at least be honest about your intentions.
...
Soft Limits
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•Sexting: I don't like it but would be open to it after some stable offline dynamic has formed.
•Chastity: I don't like it in general. If we decide that I should try it, then I will hold its access and have physical control of it even if I will mostly be following your commands/instructions for it or predecided rules.
•Open to conditional CNC once something stable has formed.
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I value clear and honest communication. I will know more as I gain experience.
Well, you will have to find a therapist who works with subconcious (not simpy a counselor or talk therapist) and work on that trauma because currently this intimate activity and pleasure is likely subconsciously associated with *** and/or trauma for you, which is why you don't feel interest in it Read more… personally. The other person picked up on it because it is a common thing for someone to have seemingly changed sexuality or repulsion to sex and trauma being a cause for it (though not denying the natural existence of various sexualities).
Oh... my bad. The part about being physical went out of mind. Sorry. For that part, I agree.
Yup, it is important to maintain clarity to avoid misunderstandings, and part of it is to make sure the picture with other person is not your main profile picture and that person is either hidden or at least not the center of the picture.
It is not about inbox. It is about what is being posted in the images on profile.