Only try to connect with me if you intend to meet soon. If I have to teach you how to be a dominant then you are not the right dominant for me. I am not a sissy. Don't use or save my photos. I don't have premium so can't text you even if I like your profile, you will have to text first. Not looking for long distance because I want something regular, at least bi weekly.
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My sexuality: Main/serious romantic interest is cis and nb girls/women (I like to refer to females in my non-kink age range as girl, anyone older as woman because woman feels more formal). I am open to guys and other genders for kink dynamic, play, and other fun stuff; I will still feel affection and desire for pleasure with non-female kink partner but it will be more so from my role as your kink partner or submisive companion and because of the bond we share instead of life partner type love.
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My gender: Fem(girl identity) leaning genderfluid.
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I am seeking whimsy and exposure to new experiences and socially, a kinky escape that corrupts me, affection, and more in form of platonic close friends, close friend who also engages in kink with me and somewhat ENM but serious relationships (relationship anarchy type thing? also, I am open to sugar companion relationships) until I find someone who I can mutually choose and commit to before and over everything else.
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More info about me and my kinks on my fetlife profile.
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The following things are a big NO. I am open to exploration outside of what is listed.
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×/serious /, unhygienic (, , butthole licking, etc.), and other risky/hazardous stuff.
×Manipulation (especially gaslighting, it is a total hard limit and I will cut off immediately).
×Non-sexual and demeaning words (dirty talk and calling me slutty stuff is enjoyable but shaming me and stuff like that is not).
×Serious sadomasochism is hard limit. Light stuff that doesn't break any limits is ok and enjoyable.
×Not going to put my mouth on your butthole, it is unhygienic and I like having good health. I am also not going to peg a guy or do any kind of penetration to a man.
×Posting my photos where I can be recognized in any way or without my consent. You are not allowed to save it on your end in any form as well unless I know you and explicitly give you consent.
×Entitled dominants who expect honorifics or my submission before we even know each other or have a relationship/contract formed; pretentious people.
×If you ghost me I will exorcise you out of my dms. Have the integrity to at least be honest about your intentions.
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Soft Limits
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•Sexting: I don't like it but would be open to it after some stable offline dynamic has formed.
•Chastity: I don't like it in general. If we decide that I should try it, then I will hold its access and have physical control of it even if I will mostly be following your commands/instructions for it or predecided rules.
•Open to conditional CNC once something stable has formed.
•I am not into feet and won't put my mouth on it to suck it but I am open to it being part of stimulation intended for arousal (but feet must not be the only thing).
• Presently not open to penetrative sex or french kissing with men and only into kink play or most other sensual interactions. Exception is a threesome involving a cis or nb girl. This would likely change in future. Doesn't apply to toys or anything else.
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I value clear and honest communication. I will know more as I gain experience.