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Gender Woman
Age 41
Status Single
Height 153cm
Body shape Curvy
Eye colour Blue
Hair colour Other
Hair length Long
Orientation Straight
Body hair None
Breast size F
Zodiac sign Aquarius
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Description

Don’t be shy… I don’t bite.
Well. Not without permission. 😉

I’m looking for a local, steady, dominant man who exists in real life, not just in my inbox. Presence is attractive. Follow through is irresistible. I’m drawn to the kind of man who is grounded, emotionally intelligent, and quietly powerful. The one who doesn’t need to posture because his confidence speaks for itself.
A little about me… I’m perceptive and intuitive. I read energy well. I’m thoughtful, playful when I’m comfortable, and I have a sharp streak of wit that likes to test the waters. I value depth over noise, quality over quantity. I take care of myself, I communicate clearly ( well try too 🙃), and I don’t do chaos for sport. When I feel safe and understood, I soften in ways that surprise people. My submission isn’t automatic. It’s intentional. It’s earned. And when it’s given, it’s genuine.
I want connection that builds in real time. Eye contact that lingers. Conversations that unfold naturally. Chemistry that grows across a table, not just across a screen. I crave steadiness, structure, warmth, and yes… consistent affection and those end-of-day cuddles that feel grounding.
If you’re local, emotionally mature, and understand that dominance is about responsibility and care as much as control, we’ll likely get along very well.

If you’re not local, not real, not authentic, I genuinely wish you luck. I’m building something intentional. Something steady. Something that exists beyond a screen and actually shows up in the daylight.

Limits

hard limits
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Building Forever in Temporary Rooms

I wonder what would happen if I stopped seeing all play partners.
Then I realize… I almost already have.
On the surface it’s simple. My toys would get more use. My time would be mine. My bed quieter. I already hike solo, camp solo, wander lakes and new Read more… trails alone. I have wrestled my anxiety to the ground and learned how to move through the world by myself. Solitude isn’t the threat.
So why does this pattern keep repeating?
I know myself. I can hold detachment for months, sometimes six. I enter with clear agreements. This is play. No feelings. No emotional entanglement. Boundaries clean and defined. I mean it when I say it. I deliver the s***ch like I’m handing out a user manual for my heart.
And then something shifts.
It isn’t dramatic. It’s subtle. A longer conversation. A softer look. A moment where my body relaxes in someone’s presence. I start caring in ways that go beyond the script.
And here’s the part where I almost have to laugh at myself.
I choose dynamics that are explicitly not built to last… and then act surprised when I start craving depth inside them. I step into containers labeled temporary and quietly begin redecorating them like I plan to live there.
Brilliant strategy.
It’s a self fulfilling prophecy with impressive consistency. I pick connections that cannot meet my deeper needs. I tell myself that’s the point. Safe. Structured. Limited. And then when my need for emotional intimacy wakes up, I blame the container for being too small.
That’s where it turns.
It isn’t avoidance. It isn’t *** of being seen. It’s me breaking the agreement. The play agreement was clear. No feelings. And yet mine grow anyway. Not because anyone misled me. Because I let them.
I tell myself I can manage it. I convince myself I still have control. But if I’m honest, that’s the fracture point. My emotional control slips. I don’t speak up when the dynamic changes internally for me. I let it build quietly. I let attachment root where it was never supposed to survive.
I crave depth in spaces designed for surface tension. I want to be chosen in arrangements that were never about choosing long term. I want safety and surrender, intensity and containment, connection without consequence.
It is almost artful, the way I engineer my own heartbreak.
And then the weight of it becomes unbearable.
Not because they did something wrong.
Because I stepped outside the container we both agreed to.
So I leave.
Not out of panic. Not to escape. But because I crossed a boundary I promised I wouldn’t cross. I feel the integrity break inside myself before anything else breaks. And I would rather end it than continue pretending I am unaffected.
So what would happen if I just stopped entirely?
Would it protect the agreements?
Would it finally stop me from choosing dynamics that can never hold the fullness of what I actually want?
Or is the deeper truth this:
I say I want “no feelings” because it sounds controlled.
But what I actually crave is depth, consistency, emotional presence.
And I keep searching for those things in places I already know they are not designed to exist.
Maybe the real work isn’t going solo.
Maybe it’s admitting I am not built for shallow containers and finally choosing connections that can survive the weight of my heart.
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Don’t be shy… I don’t bite.
Well. Not without permission. 😉

I’m looking for a local, steady, dominant man who exists in real life, not just in my inbox. Presence is attractive. Follow through is irresistible. I’m drawn to the kind of man who is grounded, emotionally intelligent, and quietly Read more… powerful. The one who doesn’t need to posture because his confidence speaks for itself.
A little about me… I’m perceptive and intuitive. I read energy well. I’m thoughtful, playful when I’m comfortable, and I have a sharp streak of wit that likes to test the waters. I value depth over noise, quality over quantity. I take care of myself, I communicate clearly ( well try too 🙃), and I don’t do chaos for sport. When I feel safe and understood, I soften in ways that surprise people. My submission isn’t automatic. It’s intentional. It’s earned. And when it’s given, it’s genuine.
I want connection that builds in real time. Eye contact that lingers. Conversations that unfold naturally. Chemistry that grows across a table, not just across a screen. I crave steadiness, structure, warmth, and yes… consistent affection and those end-of-day cuddles that feel grounding.
If you’re local, emotionally mature, and understand that dominance is about responsibility and care as much as control, we’ll likely get along very well.

If you’re not local, not real, not authentic, I genuinely wish you luck. I’m building something intentional. Something steady. Something that exists beyond a screen and actually shows up in the daylight.
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Learning to believe in self again

As hard as it is, living without trust is hard, separating, stressful and leaves you feeling on edge and has long terms consequences.
Live it for awhile, do the work with the professionals and share your story in group. You will learn a lot, from, different ways to approach, to different wording, Read more… to standing firm, and slowly, you will heal and slowly start to trust yourself and others again. I hate saying it but trust the healing process. It's hard, its ***ful and it can be long but you will be happier once you get to the other side.

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Why age isn’t the point!

Yup definitely not just the younger set. Us older ones have gotten tired of the games, and want the steady, calm, present and grounded Doms/masters.
Alot have not mastered finding that balance within and are just out for quick play.

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The Emotions without a Voice

@janinja503 And possibly lose the person?
I think I would rather feel and enjoy their presence while it lasts than lose them prematurely

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The Emotions without a Voice
If only I could let it spill.

If only the gag could be lifted and I could finally speak instead of holding everything inside my mouth, my chest, my body, where it presses and aches and waits.
Because you live there.

In the quiet.
In the stillness where I stop myself again and again.
In the Read more…moments where I almost say something and then swallow it back down, afraid of what would happen if I didn’t.
I carry you everywhere.

In the way my breath catches when I think of you.
In the way my body responds before my thoughts can intervene.
In the way my mind circles you endlessly, looping and tightening, pulled toward you even when I try to pull away.

Your name appears and my pulse stutters.
My shoulders soften.
My awareness narrows until there is nothing but you and the way my body remembers you.
Your voice low and steady settles into me like an anchor.
Like a command I do not resist.
Like something that quiets me without ever needing to ask.
And that scares me.

Because this wasn’t how it was supposed to be.
Because this is not what we agreed upon.
Because I was supposed to stay contained.
Because I was supposed to know my place and keep my feelings inside it.

But they keep growing.
Quietly.
Relentlessly.

I ache to kneel in the truth of it.
To tell you how deeply I soften in your presence.
How my strength drains away when you focus on me.
How your touch is not just sensation but direction.
How it steadies me and unravels me at the same time.

Your kiss lives in my memory longer than it should.
Sweet and sharp and lingering.
Like a promise I never asked for but can’t stop reaching toward
.
And then there is the silence.
The space you leave unanswered.
The pauses that stretch and stretch until my chest tightens with meaning I never wanted to assign.
I read too much into it and then tell myself not to.
I tell myself it means nothing.
I tell myself it means everything.
I am afraid that your quiet is telling me something I am not meant to hear.
Afraid that I feel this alone.
Afraid that if I speak it out loud, I will confirm what I already ***.
So I stay still.
Because staying silent feels like obedience.
Because silence feels like safety.
Because not speaking is the only way I know how to protect what we have without asking for more than was ever promised.

Your scent stays with me long after you are gone.
Like rain soaked earth.
Like something alive and waiting.
Like something I want to sink into and disappear beneath.
I hold myself back constantly.

Biting down on words.
Reining in thoughts.
Reminding myself of boundaries even as my body leans toward you without permission.

If I could speak freely, I would tell you how heavy this feels.
How the wanting tightens instead of loosening.
How discipline and desire blur until I cannot tell where one ends and the other begins.
How I live in the ***ful awareness that my feelings are stronger than what we agreed upon.

If the gag were lifted even for a breath, I would tell you you are the gravity that keeps pulling me inward.

The fire I orbit without meaning to.
The quiet authority written into my pulse that I follow without question.
But I do not speak.
Because silence is part of my submission.
Because restraint is how I stay in control while losing it at the same time.
Because longing held inside hurts less than risking everything by letting it escape.

So I stay here.
Quiet.
Trembling.
Contained by choice.

And maybe you feel it anyway.
The pull.
The surrender.
The emotions without a voice
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Deano78
Deano78 ➦Deano78 quote Boojlr:❝Its like you read my mind .❞I can't help feeling that I would just love to know more about you. Anyone that responds like that has my attention. Unfortunately, so far, from my point of view at least, i don't have yours. And apparently the system will only let me try so many times without a response... ➦Deano78 quote Boojlr:❝Its like you read my mind .❞I can't help feeling that I would just love to know more about you. Anyone that responds like that has my attention. Unfortunately, so far, from my point of view at least, i don't have yours. And apparently the system will only let me try so many times without a response...
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DominaLuna333
DominaLuna333 This is so achingly beautiful. Suffering in silence is sometimes the masochist in us. This is so achingly beautiful. Suffering in silence is sometimes the masochist in us.
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Boojlr
Boojlr Its like you read my mind . Its like you read my mind .
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Subtle Strings of Intimacy
It isn’t the floggers,
not the spankings,
not even the sex.

It’s sharing the quiet thoughts,
the feelings you tuck away,
the emotions you rarely name.

It’s curling into them when the day has worn you thin,
sitting close when *** shakes their breath,
offering quiet support in the rough Read more…moments,
celebrating with full hearts in the bright ones.

It’s so much more than the play.
It’s exchanging limits and boundaries with honesty,
letting someone see the softer shadows beneath the surface.

So many think intimacy is sex and kink—
but it stretches deeper,
warmer,
more terrifying,
more soothing.

It is the weaving of trust,
the slow bonding of souls,
the gentle strings that tie two people
closer and closer
until the connection
Becomes it's own language
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Another_kinkster Very nice Very nice
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Kimber469ing
Kimber469ing Words strung together beautifully Words strung together beautifully
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Leonrantsky
Leonrantsky Beautifully said. You nailed it. Beautifully said. You nailed it.
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Invisible

To love someone and they won't recognize it or return those feelings?

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Invisible

Thank you

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Invisible

It's a hard place to be. I hope you are able to have the conversation and they share the same feelings as you 🫂

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Invisible
It happened.
Somewhere between one heartbeat and the next, something shifted.
She cannot trace the beginning no matter how many times she rewinds the memories in her head.

There was no big bang to signal the moment.
No cinematic spark.
No warning.
Nothing she could point to and say yes, that was Read more…the second everything changed.
It simply wasn’t there.

You slipped in with quiet steps she never heard.
You curled around her mind like a whisper that grew louder before she realized it was speaking in her voice.
Her emotions wrapped themselves around you before she knew they were moving.
Her soul leaned toward you as if it recognized something ancient, something it had been aching for without admitting it.

She longs for every second near you.
She clings to the smallest crumbs of your attention as if they are sacred.
She notices each shift in your tone, every change in your presence, every slight that might mean nothing to you but everything to her.
She waits for your messages.
She replays your words.
She studies your silences even more.

You found a crack in walls she built from years of hurt and promises she made to herself.
You slid through as if the opening had been waiting for you alone.
And then you settled in her life, in her thoughts, in the deepest parts of her without permission, without resistance, without any understanding on her part of when she let you.

Now you hold the gravity of her world.
Everything in her stops when you approach.
Her pulse stutters.
Her attention narrows.
Her mind empties except for one instinct that keeps rising again and again
give
care
serve
make him happy.
She wants to anticipate your needs.
She wants to make sure your comfort comes before her own.
She wants to be the calm in your day, the warmth you reach for, the place you rest.

Sometimes she catches herself in moments of clarity, small fragile flashes of awareness that leave her breathless.
How did she get here.
How did this happen again.
Why does her heart keep choosing before her logic has a chance to speak.
She asks herself when the shift occurred, but there is no clear memory, no precise instant.
Just a slow unraveling and the quiet realization that it had already happened before she even noticed she was falling.

She lies awake trying to name the moment, but her mind offers only fragments.
Your smile.
Your voice.
The way you look at her.
The way she felt seen for a second too long.
The warmth that bloomed in her chest before she pushed it away.
The ache that returned even stronger when she tried to ignore it.

Nothing makes sense.
Everything makes sense.
She is confused by the intensity, overwhelmed by the depth, terrified by how easily the walls she thought were immovable softened for you.

And the truth settles heavy on her, undeniable and trembling.

It happened.
She belongs to someone.
And the strangest part, the most ***ful part, the part that leaves her breathless every night

is that you do not even know.
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boilerbern81
boilerbern81 Wanna chat or want to play and watch 💯🥵😈🍆💦📸 Wanna chat or want to play and watch 💯🥵😈🍆💦📸
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Wikifofo Very beautiful touch my heart deeply Very beautiful touch my heart deeply
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Unknown98292 ➦Unknown98292 quote ddlg8689:❝ I long for this

To love someone and they won't recognize it or return those feelings? ➦Unknown98292 quote ddlg8689:❝ I long for this

To love someone and they won't recognize it or return those feelings?
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