Don’t be shy… I don’t bite.
Well. Not without permission. 😉
I’m looking for a local, steady, dominant man who exists in real life, not just in my inbox. Presence is attractive. Follow through is irresistible. I’m drawn to the kind of man who is grounded, emotionally intelligent, and quietly powerful. The one who doesn’t need to posture because his confidence speaks for itself.
A little about me… I’m perceptive and intuitive. I read energy well. I’m thoughtful, playful when I’m comfortable, and I have a sharp streak of wit that likes to test the waters. I value depth over noise, quality over quantity. I take care of myself, I communicate clearly ( well try too 🙃), and I don’t do chaos for sport. When I feel safe and understood, I soften in ways that surprise people. My submission isn’t automatic. It’s intentional. It’s earned. And when it’s given, it’s genuine.
I want connection that builds in real time. Eye contact that lingers. Conversations that unfold naturally. Chemistry that grows across a table, not just across a screen. I crave steadiness, structure, warmth, and yes… consistent affection and those end-of-day cuddles that feel grounding.
If you’re local, emotionally mature, and understand that dominance is about responsibility and care as much as control, we’ll likely get along very well.
If you’re not local, not real, not authentic, I genuinely wish you luck. I’m building something intentional. Something steady. Something that exists beyond a screen and actually shows up in the daylight.
hard limits
, , permanent marks, face slapping, fists used for impact play
As hard as it is, living without trust is hard, separating, stressful and leaves you feeling on edge and has long terms consequences.
Live it for awhile, do the work with the professionals and share your story in group. You will learn a lot, from, different ways to approach, to different wording, Read more… to standing firm, and slowly, you will heal and slowly start to trust yourself and others again. I hate saying it but trust the healing process. It's hard, its ***ful and it can be long but you will be happier once you get to the other side.
Yup definitely not just the younger set. Us older ones have gotten tired of the games, and want the steady, calm, present and grounded Doms/masters.
Alot have not mastered finding that balance within and are just out for quick play.
@janinja503 And possibly lose the person?
I think I would rather feel and enjoy their presence while it lasts than lose them prematurely