This is quite a common message on forums. Not aimed at you, just reminding people when responding to the original post that this is not the place to try to proposition the original poster (or any of the other posters). That it’s meant to be a safe place to talk or ask advice without people turning Read more… it into something else, this happens a lot for a lot of women. It’s meant to make it so people can feel comfortable posting responses without having a deluge of people trying to hit on them.

Living in a current 24/7 dynamic (and having done so in the past), we know our roles… or rather they aren’t really roles, just a natural part of who we both are. There are rules and structure (which my partner thrives off and I enjoy), but whilst the dynamic is always there it’s not always played Read more… upon (though it could be at any time). And for my part that takes a lot of consistency and clear communication (including listening). We are also both fully aware that real life has to come first. Whether through illness, work, company or any multitude of other reasons sometimes things have to take a back seat or it may be that I’m the one doing all the things she would normally do. We also enjoy each others company, whether playing games, watching whatever takes our fantasy or having a few drinks. We also find ways to maintain the dynamic in company that we both are aware of but no one else would pick up on. The other aspect of it is I encourage her to do healthy things and have her own interests and friends… because she’s a human being… shock horror I know… subs are human too.

Also… I don’t get the correlation between a hobby and social media… any hobby or involvement in any group or lifestyle could both take you away from social media as you explore and enjoy it or draw you towards social media related to that. Interest.

Is this not a bit like asking if poker is a hobby? For some it’s something they have watched or had an interest ing, for others it’s something they enjoy periodically, for others it’s something that they actively involve in their life and for others it’s their whole identity.

Um no. He shouldn’t have to agree… I mean none of us have to agree to anything if we don’t want to. Obviously there is more to it… if he doesn’t agree what does that mean for the relationship. Was this known before marriage. But ultimately if it’s an impasse for both people and no compromise can be Read more… made then it comes down to accepting different needs.

Hmm the ones that come to mind with pockets or pouches are Punisher, Joker, some variations of catwoman, the Batman extended family, deadpool and most variants, cable, cyclops, jubilee, gambit… in fact a lot of the xmen in some variations, star-lord, rocket raccoon, lobo, squirrel girl, Harley Read more… Quinn (sometimes a handbag rather than pockets), mandrake the magician, Flash Gordon, huntress, most arrow users, black widow, nick fury, forge…. In fact there are loads and plenty I have missed thinking about it.

No… strength has many connotations. It depends on the circumstances. There are many stereotypically physically strong people that would cave instantly when thrown under the bus. Strength is an abstract concept.

Also… asking for “tricks” isn’t a good look.

Ok… my experience for what it is worth. This app is exactly the same as the others I have been on (since 1998 approximately). We all start somewhere and all have plenty to learn. Ask questions, read forums etc… and some of those people will have something to offer. There is no correct way to be sub Read more… or Dom… just what works for those involved. Focus on you and what works for you… and then also focus on your interests as a person… and then find someone that you can create a connection with on as many levels as you can.
As I say only my perspective and opinion. But I have had and am currently in a long term relationship for whatever that is worth.

Not female but my perspective. I have had partners 19 years older and 17 younger. So for me it was never about age and I never really thought about age. My brain is not good at time or dates or age (I forget my own age frequently. It was all about connection.
But that’s me.
If you are solely Read more… going for someone significantly younger it can be perceived (or actually be) quite predatory. There is an imbalance in terms of experience and probably other areas (***, stability, property, freedom etc). That’s why there are laws about certain power imbalances. (Dr/teacher/therapist etc). So a lot depends on where those gaps are, at what age (66 to 56 is vastly different to 26 and 16). There is a lot of nuance.

So there are more extreme clamps (I have some evil ones from extreme restraints that only a couple of people have managed)…. But as others have said there are ways to increase sensations. Rope play and or nipple suction can use *** flow. Not touching or touching everywhere but nipples can increase Read more… the need and focus on the area. Cold and heat used in various ways and against each other. Various different sensations (sharp, soft, pinching, pulling etc) used between each other. Blindfolds and other sensory deprivation. Restraint. A lot can be the mental aspect. Ultimately it’s about the things that work for the person at that very specific time.

So… there are at least a couple of different directions here. You might like to focus on some of her erotic triggers (and having a conversation as to what they are). Or you may want to focus on activating the parasympathetic nervous system, things like humming, havening, breathing techniques, so Read more… she feels safe and secure. There’s a lot of missing context here.