Myself and my partner (linked to my profile below…also just feel free to message and talk to them regardless) are looking for interesting fun people to talk to and get to know, potentially for more fun if the right connection is there. we’ve been together a few years and neither switch (for us they’re not roles, more just an inherent part of who we are). We both have a good level of experience (myself 25 years+ and tanew 10 ish). However, we’re more than happy to chat with anyone who seems to be at least a half decent person, without any expectations for anything else.
When it comes to sex I am a secret, sensual, sybaritic, seraphic, striking, seductive sadist, delighting in degenerate, debauched deviancy.
I thrive on the darker, more adventurous and daring side of carnal delights, with many years as a Dominant (more than all my adult life). Love to explore and experience as much as life has to offer. To tease and expand my partners limits (or with the right partner completely obliterate them, but that is more than most can contemplate). I have almost no limits in what I can enjoy with the right person (I play to other people's limits) but the mental side of things and finding my partner's mental triggers is what really excites me. Where you can tease someone to the point of complete, body trembling, mind numbing, exhausting arousal. By touch, talk, tease, stimulation, excitement, a tinge of , triggers or any other tools that can be utilised. Tying someone so every sense is heightened, every sound sends quakes of anticipation through every atom, every touch causes tremors to run right through you. And for those that are a little more daring the more extreme side of things.
I love taboos; sexual , role play, hypnotism. But again not everything works for everyone. It's all about finding the things that work between you, and the spark between two people is paramount. Even the most 'tame' of things can be amazing with the right person, whereas the most erotic of things can fall flat with the wrong one.
Outside of the lascivious, lecherous, lewd, libidinous, licentious, and lustful joys of life I like to think I am fairly intelligent… possibly ever so slightly pretentious, creative, witty, and companionable but all of that is subjective and obviously I'm biased so you'll have to make up your own mind. Similarly I get told I am attractive but that is for others to say. I am self confident and have been blessed with full and well rounded life to this point. And importantly, in spite of my alternative tastes I am safe, sane and pass for 'normal', keeping the depravity hidden behind my eyes when not appropriate (though it is fun to have that frisson of 'if only they knew').
So if you feel bold and brave, or rash and reckless then please message and let's see what fun we can find together.
Hmmm I have never found my hard limits. I always play to other people’s. That said I have no particular interest in needing to call out the police, ambulance, fire brigade, coast guard or mountain rescue… I’m picky like that.
Q1: varies from person to person
Q2: varies from person to person
Q3: varies from person to person
Speaking professionally… you can get addicted to almost anything. If your brain latches onto something that gives it the chemical release it craves it will seek it out, especially if it’s a quick and easy thing for you.
:1771279010,1299870, What do you get from this/ why is this somthing you want/. I enjoy when people wonder why I want it!
So I can’t answer for the OP… but from my perspective it’s always good to learn more about how other people think Read more… or from their experiences… there is always something more I can learn.
:1771278243,1242149, Hmmm interesting… for me it’s less that I’ve never been asked the question, more that I wouldn’t feel comfortable giving the real answer to someone I’m not already incredibly close to.
So instead I give something Read more… innocuous or facetious.
Hmmm interesting… for me it’s less that I’ve never been asked the question, more that I wouldn’t feel comfortable giving the real answer to someone I’m not already incredibly close to.
I think all of this should apply regardless of the type of dynamic or relationship. Those standards should be the be the base level of expectation.
This is quite a common message on forums. Not aimed at you, just reminding people when responding to the original post that this is not the place to try to proposition the original poster (or any of the other posters). That it’s meant to be a safe place to talk or ask advice without people turning Read more… it into something else, this happens a lot for a lot of women. It’s meant to make it so people can feel comfortable posting responses without having a deluge of people trying to hit on them.
Living in a current 24/7 dynamic (and having done so in the past), we know our roles… or rather they aren’t really roles, just a natural part of who we both are. There are rules and structure (which my partner thrives off and I enjoy), but whilst the dynamic is always there it’s not always played Read more… upon (though it could be at any time). And for my part that takes a lot of consistency and clear communication (including listening). We are also both fully aware that real life has to come first. Whether through illness, work, company or any multitude of other reasons sometimes things have to take a back seat or it may be that I’m the one doing all the things she would normally do. We also enjoy each others company, whether playing games, watching whatever takes our fantasy or having a few drinks. We also find ways to maintain the dynamic in company that we both are aware of but no one else would pick up on. The other aspect of it is I encourage her to do healthy things and have her own interests and friends… because she’s a human being… shock horror I know… subs are human too.
Also… I don’t get the correlation between a hobby and social media… any hobby or involvement in any group or lifestyle could both take you away from social media as you explore and enjoy it or draw you towards social media related to that. Interest.
Is this not a bit like asking if poker is a hobby? For some it’s something they have watched or had an interest ing, for others it’s something they enjoy periodically, for others it’s something that they actively involve in their life and for others it’s their whole identity.
Um no. He shouldn’t have to agree… I mean none of us have to agree to anything if we don’t want to. Obviously there is more to it… if he doesn’t agree what does that mean for the relationship. Was this known before marriage. But ultimately if it’s an impasse for both people and no compromise can be Read more… made then it comes down to accepting different needs.
Hmm the ones that come to mind with pockets or pouches are Punisher, Joker, some variations of catwoman, the Batman extended family, deadpool and most variants, cable, cyclops, jubilee, gambit… in fact a lot of the xmen in some variations, star-lord, rocket raccoon, lobo, squirrel girl, Harley Read more… Quinn (sometimes a handbag rather than pockets), mandrake the magician, Flash Gordon, huntress, most arrow users, black widow, nick fury, forge…. In fact there are loads and plenty I have missed thinking about it.
No… strength has many connotations. It depends on the circumstances. There are many stereotypically physically strong people that would cave instantly when thrown under the bus. Strength is an abstract concept.