:1783542643,5727192, I feel that trying a service sub online is a quick way to go the *** route. They can't really do anything that's actually useful apart from buying you gifts or similar.

Hmmm while possible, would also say not Read more… necessarily, for some it’s the controlling someone/being controlled mental aspects that are what is exciting. So service sub might not quite be the exact applicable term. But could also be with a view to more in the future.

Also things like having to have live location on, not to check up on them so much as the mental side of it.

Some other things could be having to have what they wear be approved, meals approved, permission to go out for anything other than work emergencies etc, permission for making purchases that aren’t necessities (not fin dom in the normal sense as not taking their ***), daily/weekly routines and Read more… schedules for chores/exercise etc, daily mantra, set bedtime without permission for exceptions or emergencies. Service sub isn’t necessarily sexual so not going to assume anything there. Obviously contingencies need to be built in such as if asking permission/approval and not getting a response in a set time then can assume it is ok unless it is something they know wouldn’t have been approved, and normal life has to be taken into account, as well as emergencies obviously. Could also include betterment tasks like learning service skills like cooking, practising silver service. That’s just from the top of my head.

Many people do enjoy it. I have even used hypnosis to make it so my slave literally cannot orgasm no matter how hard they try without permission. That said there are occasions when edging can be problematic for some as can also cause seizures for someone that is prone.

Personal opinion… and general munch principles etc. no you shouldn’t, no everyone is open about their lifestyle and even those that are may not be with everyone. So you don’t want to put them in an awkward situation of being put on the spot as to where you know them from. Even if they’re alone you Read more… don’t know that they’re not meeting the person who is directly behind you or similar.

Honest answer purely from my perspective. I have been on the scene for over 20 years but that doesn’t mean much, my experiences and preconceptions will not mean much to others necessarily. I have had subs and slaves I have loved and others I have not. I have fallen in love very quickly and also had Read more… relationships where I felt no aspect of love. This is regardless of male, female, trans, bratty, “doormat”, pleasure sub etc etc… I have been clear always with everyone since a young age that I would never say I love someone if I didn’t mean it (did once, felt wrong, swore I never would again). But the reality is that love is not a quantifiable property. It means something different to everyone. I would say that from what I have experienced and seen from others it doesn’t matter what your kink/s or personal love language is… you can find love. But that’s a very subjective experience.

Q1: varies from person to person
Q2: varies from person to person
Q3: varies from person to person

Speaking professionally… you can get addicted to almost anything. If your brain latches onto something that gives it the chemical release it craves it will seek it out, especially if it’s a quick and easy thing for you.

:1771279010,1299870, What do you get from this/ why is this somthing you want/. I enjoy when people wonder why I want it!

So I can’t answer for the OP… but from my perspective it’s always good to learn more about how other people think Read more… or from their experiences… there is always something more I can learn.

:1771278243,1242149, Hmmm interesting… for me it’s less that I’ve never been asked the question, more that I wouldn’t feel comfortable giving the real answer to someone I’m not already incredibly close to.

So instead I give something Read more… innocuous or facetious.

Hmmm interesting… for me it’s less that I’ve never been asked the question, more that I wouldn’t feel comfortable giving the real answer to someone I’m not already incredibly close to.

I think all of this should apply regardless of the type of dynamic or relationship. Those standards should be the be the base level of expectation.

This is quite a common message on forums. Not aimed at you, just reminding people when responding to the original post that this is not the place to try to proposition the original poster (or any of the other posters). That it’s meant to be a safe place to talk or ask advice without people turning Read more… it into something else, this happens a lot for a lot of women. It’s meant to make it so people can feel comfortable posting responses without having a deluge of people trying to hit on them.