Many people do enjoy it. I have even used hypnosis to make it so my slave literally cannot orgasm no matter how hard they try without permission. That said there are occasions when edging can be problematic for some as can also cause seizures for someone that is prone.

Personal opinion… and general munch principles etc. no you shouldn’t, no everyone is open about their lifestyle and even those that are may not be with everyone. So you don’t want to put them in an awkward situation of being put on the spot as to where you know them from. Even if they’re alone you Read more… don’t know that they’re not meeting the person who is directly behind you or similar.

Honest answer purely from my perspective. I have been on the scene for over 20 years but that doesn’t mean much, my experiences and preconceptions will not mean much to others necessarily. I have had subs and slaves I have loved and others I have not. I have fallen in love very quickly and also had Read more… relationships where I felt no aspect of love. This is regardless of male, female, trans, bratty, “doormat”, pleasure sub etc etc… I have been clear always with everyone since a young age that I would never say I love someone if I didn’t mean it (did once, felt wrong, swore I never would again). But the reality is that love is not a quantifiable property. It means something different to everyone. I would say that from what I have experienced and seen from others it doesn’t matter what your kink/s or personal love language is… you can find love. But that’s a very subjective experience.

Q1: varies from person to person
Q2: varies from person to person
Q3: varies from person to person

Speaking professionally… you can get addicted to almost anything. If your brain latches onto something that gives it the chemical release it craves it will seek it out, especially if it’s a quick and easy thing for you.

:1771279010,1299870, What do you get from this/ why is this somthing you want/. I enjoy when people wonder why I want it!

So I can’t answer for the OP… but from my perspective it’s always good to learn more about how other people think Read more… or from their experiences… there is always something more I can learn.

:1771278243,1242149, Hmmm interesting… for me it’s less that I’ve never been asked the question, more that I wouldn’t feel comfortable giving the real answer to someone I’m not already incredibly close to.

So instead I give something Read more… innocuous or facetious.

Hmmm interesting… for me it’s less that I’ve never been asked the question, more that I wouldn’t feel comfortable giving the real answer to someone I’m not already incredibly close to.

I think all of this should apply regardless of the type of dynamic or relationship. Those standards should be the be the base level of expectation.

This is quite a common message on forums. Not aimed at you, just reminding people when responding to the original post that this is not the place to try to proposition the original poster (or any of the other posters). That it’s meant to be a safe place to talk or ask advice without people turning Read more… it into something else, this happens a lot for a lot of women. It’s meant to make it so people can feel comfortable posting responses without having a deluge of people trying to hit on them.

Living in a current 24/7 dynamic (and having done so in the past), we know our roles… or rather they aren’t really roles, just a natural part of who we both are. There are rules and structure (which my partner thrives off and I enjoy), but whilst the dynamic is always there it’s not always played Read more… upon (though it could be at any time). And for my part that takes a lot of consistency and clear communication (including listening). We are also both fully aware that real life has to come first. Whether through illness, work, company or any multitude of other reasons sometimes things have to take a back seat or it may be that I’m the one doing all the things she would normally do. We also enjoy each others company, whether playing games, watching whatever takes our fantasy or having a few drinks. We also find ways to maintain the dynamic in company that we both are aware of but no one else would pick up on. The other aspect of it is I encourage her to do healthy things and have her own interests and friends… because she’s a human being… shock horror I know… subs are human too.

Also… I don’t get the correlation between a hobby and social media… any hobby or involvement in any group or lifestyle could both take you away from social media as you explore and enjoy it or draw you towards social media related to that. Interest.

Is this not a bit like asking if poker is a hobby? For some it’s something they have watched or had an interest ing, for others it’s something they enjoy periodically, for others it’s something that they actively involve in their life and for others it’s their whole identity.