I value trust and honesty above anything else, it is critical for the type of relationship and lifestyle I'm looking for. Right now I consider myself re-exploring the community with my priority being to go to events, get to know people, build some friendships. If you peruse my list of kinks, no I didn't just go blindly clicking my way through them ticking off as many as I could, I'm really into a lot of different things. If it is listed as something I'm into I have done it many times and enjoyed it - doesn't mean its my favorite things but I viewed the list of kinks kind of like a list of foods I liked - maybe I'm wrong but hopefully that explains why I've checked so many. Also, I've done a lot of different things and attended many classes over the years or researched these things to the extent I feel comfortable I can do them safely. If you have questions, please ask!! I love sharing knowledge and experience as well as equipment and toys if they are shareable. Life's too short not to share! What is listed below under interests are some of my favorite things.
70% bottom 30% Dominant
Predicament Bondage / Strict bondage with very little movement
Restraints (leather cuffs/collars/leather straps, rope, handcuffs/metal)
Breath play
Impact (flogger/whip/paddle/crop/canes)
Posture collars
Spreader bars
Straightjacket / Armbinders
Medical play
Medieval
Prison/Prisoner scenes
Interrogation/ scenes
Sensory deprivation
Predicament bondage
Tight leather/latex hoods
Electric Play TENS/Violet Wand
CBT / Sounding
Ball Gags / Bit Gags / Dental Gags / Ring Gags
Suspension or partial suspension
Demo bottom
Nipple clamps - Nipple ***
I love body piercing and have a 6ga PA - others migrated out