Safe, sane and consensual. Three pillars of BDSM, at least for me.

26 years old female living in Poland, in a city called (many "funny" polish letters not interpreted by fetish.com properly) Lodz; meaning "Boat City". Seriously.
(I wanted to put a Wikipedia link to my city here but, apparently, it's not allowed in the "description" section; feel free to ask if this is something that interests you enough)

Other Polish people are more than welcome!
I don't have a problem with speaking in English, however, I think that Polish is far more erotic and sensual. Talking/chatting can be very sexy as proper choice of words matters a lot not only in literature.

Another important info - switch here. Definitely "focused" more on the submissive side but switch nevertheless. It's both a blessing and a curse as switch-minded people can be perceived as "undecided" but it's not my case, I like to explore both dominant and submissive ways of experiencing life.

I'm a part-time (semi-online) Management (used to study Psychology first) student and I've been in over two years relationship and then single for a long time before I entered my current not-so-easy-to-define "alliance". My "ally" knows about my BDSM side so I've decided I have to explore and focus on my sexuality more and, boom, I am here, looking for people to know more/talk/meet, not only fuck.

In a perfect world, I'd meet a (wo)man a little bit older than me (mid-30s...?) who knows "something" about bondage, being dominant and also isn't scared of words "rape play" and my switch nature. I sometimes like to let my primal instincts flow, just as Nietzsche said... I'd like to be tied up and taken rather than asked for permission for kissing (of course I'm over-exaggerating here) or looking in my eyes without blushing (and I've met people like this, too...); I'm rather tall person and I know it may be considered important or intimidating at first (180 cm = 5"11 feet) for some so I've put this here.

IRL I'm a bit shy, to be honest, I spend most of my time reading books or using a computer for surfing the net or playing games (I'm a geek/nerd, too); currently, I'm watching The Wire for the first time of my life and it consumes a lot of time...

I used to battle with social phobia and even nowadays I'm concerned about my look and behavior; I know it may seem kind of strange to see someone with anxiety on this site, but we have sexual fantasies and preferences, too. And, to be honest, it's my way to overcome most of my fears.

...and I think it's totally worth it.

PS - sometimes I like to enter "offline" status IRL, meaning focusing on spending time "with myself", walking outside, reading a few books in a row or just putting my phone and computer away for a moment. Please don't feel offended in any way If I don't respond in a, let's say, a week or so. My online-offline time looks like a sinusoidal wave and always has been like this.

I can't stand: dishonesty, expecting somebody to be 24/7 for himself/herself if it wasn't made clear otherwise, not respecting my "free will" or "free time" when I am not collared, pushing soft limits without negotiating first, not respecting hard limits and also not respecting my safeword/so-called "signale" (I like this version better). All of those things are A BIG NOPE! But is it really necessary to write it down...?

Three things to mention: a rape play/consensual non-consent play, a rape fantasy, and a rape itself are three different things. They are entirely different. Two of them are okay.

...and I really appreciate you taking the time for reading all of this, so if you managed to went through all my bio, we will probably get along quite well.

PPS - to all lurking creeps who want to put the widely-called "rape pill" to my drink: I am an aware big-little girl (ex-mod of the biggest meds/drugs forum existing since '96) and I have bigger cross-tolerance on my GABA-receptors than you think (to e.g. benzodiazepines such as Xanax, Klonopin and even stronger ones - yeah, they exist) as I take Klonopin for over a decade (medical reasons, namely grand mal also known as seizure type II). I know that word "seizure" is often associated with an image of a person shaking when exposed to flashing lights, however, they won't do me anything 99% of the time, but this 1% will and, to this day, always did result in zero shaking but 100% cardiac arrest. But don't you worry - modern pharmacology is really effective as I had my last cardiac arrest about 6 years ago and it was the effect of trying to taper down my dosage below, apparently, personal "threshold" level.

hard limits: 24/7; leaving permanent scars or other traces; electrical stimulation (due to medical reasons, see my description); recording and/or publishing porn images and videos with visible face or/and recognizable tattoos; body fluids other than saliva, sweat, tears, blood and cum; involving non-consenting people in any form of a scene; hardcore genital tortures.