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Sirseeksmuse
icon-wio Sirseeksmuse created a topic in BDSM Forum
Submissiveness can be complex. But doesn't need to be
Submission is a complex and intimate lifestyle that requires a great deal of trust between the submissive and their dominant partner. A submissive willingly gives control to their dominant partner, trusting that they will guide and protect them in all aspects of their life. This trust is built over Read more…time and requires a deep understanding of each other's needs and desires.
One of the key responsibilities of a dominant partner, or "Sir," is to provide protection to their submissive. This protection can take many forms, from physical safety to emotional well-being. In any case, the submissive needs to feel secure and protected in the presence of their Sir.
Physical protection is one of the most important aspects of a Sir's role. As a submissive is giving up control, they become more vulnerable to physical harm. A Sir must ensure that their submissive is physically safe at all times, whether that means providing a safe environment or intervening in dangerous situations. The submissive should never feel afraid or unsafe in the presence of their Sir.
Emotional protection is also essential in a D/s relationship. The submissive is often in a vulnerable position, emotionally exposed and open to their Sir. A Sir must be attuned to their submissive's emotional needs and provide a safe space for them to express themselves. This means being understanding, supportive, and non-judgmental, even when the submissive is struggling or feeling overwhelmed.
A Sir's protection also extends to the submissive's reputation and social standing. In some cases, a submissive's lifestyle may not be accepted or understood by society. A Sir must protect their submissive's reputation and privacy, ensuring that their lifestyle choices do not become public knowledge without their consent.
In summary, a submissive needs a Sir's protection for several reasons. The submission lifestyle requires a great deal of trust, and a Sir must ensure that their submissive feels safe and protected at all times. This includes physical safety, emotional well-being, and protection of their reputation and privacy. Ultimately, a Sir's protection is an essential aspect of a D/s relationship and allows the submissive to fully embrace their role and submit to their dominant partne
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thedazedunicorn This! No one wants to get to know you anymore making it feel unsafe from the beginning. This! No one wants to get to know you anymore making it feel unsafe from the beginning.
LikeMiaMaria001 12.07.2023 16:05:26
kree90
kree90 Thissssss. Safety is one of the things that drew me to D/s. Thissssss. Safety is one of the things that drew me to D/s.
LikeEDY7 · 12.07.2023 15:15:06
Shilo66
Shilo66 I am in full agreement with what you've written, and for many "Real Doms" this goes without saying. And, after having read a lot of various forum stuff recently, I think it's a very good idea that occasionally posts like this are aired to remind some others of their responsibilities when they take on this role. I am in full agreement with what you've written, and for many "Real Doms" this goes without saying. And, after having read a lot of various forum stuff recently, I think it's a very good idea that occasionally posts like this are aired to remind some others of their responsibilities when they take on this role.
Likeindyindyindy, EDY7 · 12.07.2023 15:06:30
Sirseeksmuse
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  • 11.07.2023 5:43:47
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How to Handle Complacency

I don't allow it, ever

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  • 10.07.2023 23:33:15
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Sirseeksmuse
icon-wio Sirseeksmuse created a topic in BDSM Forum
Sustaining Engagement and Commitment in a Long-Distance BDSM Relationship
Does your Dom/sub live hours away? This post shares some strategies that kept us connected intellectually, mentally, emotionally, spiritually and yes with amazing off the charts sensuality. Mine Collared Princess lives 238 miles away. We've been together now nearly four years and find great joy, Read more…and solace in finding the ways to stay connected in spite of our distance. Regina ( R) and I share these with you in the hope it helps you thrive!
Maintaining a successful BDSM relationship requires open communication, trust, and mutual engagement. However, when the Dominant and submissive partners are separated by distance, the challenges of staying connected and committed to the surrendered lifestyle can be amplified. I will explore practical strategies for keeping both partners engaged and committed despite the physical separation.
Establish Clear Communication Channels:
Effective communication is the foundation of any relationship, and it becomes even more critical in a long-distance BDSM dynamic. Utilize various communication channels such as phone calls, video chats, emails, and instant messaging to bridge the distance. Regularly scheduled communication sessions can help maintain a sense of connection and provide opportunities for discussing expectations and desires.
Maintain Rituals and Routines:
Rituals and routines play a significant role in BDSM dynamics as they provide structure, guidance, and a sense of belonging. Even though physical proximity is absent, both partners can engage in virtual rituals or routines. For example, the Dom might assign daily tasks or rituals that the sub can perform remotely. This can include maintaining a journal, performing specific exercises, or even wearing specific clothing or accessories. For us having established times to talk about anything, everything and even just being silent, This was huge for us.
Utilize Technology:
In today's digital age, technology offers numerous tools to enhance a long-distance BDSM relationship. Consider exploring various applications, platforms, or websites specifically designed for BDSM couples. These platforms can provide opportunities for shared experiences, such as virtual scenes, online role-playing, or even remote control of sex toys. However, it's essential to prioritize privacy and security when utilizing technology, ensuring all activities are consensual and within established boundaries.
Explore Alternative Forms of Intimacy:
Physical intimacy may be limited due to the geographical distance, but emotional and psychological intimacy can still flourish. Engage in activities that foster emotional connection and trust. This can include sharing fantasies, engaging in deep conversations, or exploring new aspects of each other's personalities. Additionally, exchanging handwritten letters or care packages can be a tangible way to express love and commitment.
Schedule Regular Visits:
While physical visits may not be frequent, planning and scheduling regular visits is essential to strengthen the bond between partners. Set aside specific dates or weekends to spend quality time together. During these visits, both partners can explore their dynamic more intensely, engage in scenes, and reinforce the power exchange. Additionally, the anticipation of upcoming visits can help maintain motivation and commitment between visits.
Participate in BDSM Communities:
Engaging with the larger BDSM community can provide valuable support and resources for both partners. Online forums, social media groups, or local munches can connect you with like-minded individuals who understand the unique challenges of long-distance BDSM relationships. Sharing experiences, seeking advice, and learning from others can help maintain enthusiasm and commitment to the surrendered lifestyle. FET, ALT and other communities are a huge help.
While distance can present challenges in a BDSM relationship, with dedication, creativity, and effective communication, it is possible to keep both partners engaged and committed to the surrendered lifestyle. By utilizing various communication channels, establishing rituals, exploring technology, fostering intimacy, scheduling visits, and connecting with the BDSM community, the Dom and sub can deepen their bond and maintain a fulfilling dynamic despite the physical separation. Remember, each relationship is unique, so it is crucial to tailor strategies to the specific needs and desires of both partners.
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Sirseeksmuse
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  • 10.07.2023 2:34:08
  • Male (61)
  • Glendale
  • Not single
Sustaining Engagement and Commitment in a Long-Distance BDSM Relationship

Does your Dom/sub live hours away? This post shares some strategies that kept us connected intellectually, mentally, emotionally, spiritually and yes with amazing off the charts sensuality. Mine Collared Princess lives 238 Read more… miles away. We've been together now nearly four years and find great joy, and solace in finding the ways to stay connected in spite of our distance. Regina ( R) and I share these with you in the hope it helps you thrive!

Maintaining a successful BDSM relationship requires open communication, trust, and mutual engagement. However, when the Dominant and submissive partners are separated by distance, the challenges of staying connected and committed to the surrendered lifestyle can be amplified. I will explore practical strategies for keeping both partners engaged and committed despite the physical separation.

Establish Clear Communication Channels:
Effective communication is the foundation of any relationship, and it becomes even more critical in a long-distance BDSM dynamic. Utilize various communication channels such as phone calls, video chats, emails, and instant messaging to bridge the distance. Regularly scheduled communication sessions can help maintain a sense of connection and provide opportunities for discussing expectations and desires.

Maintain Rituals and Routines:
Rituals and routines play a significant role in BDSM dynamics as they provide structure, guidance, and a sense of belonging. Even though physical proximity is absent, both partners can engage in virtual rituals or routines. For example, the Dom might assign daily tasks or rituals that the sub can perform remotely. This can include maintaining a journal, performing specific exercises, or even wearing specific clothing or accessories. For us having established times to talk about anything, everything and even just being silent, This was huge for us.

Utilize Technology:
In today's digital age, technology offers numerous tools to enhance a long-distance BDSM relationship. Consider exploring various applications, platforms, or websites specifically designed for BDSM couples. These platforms can provide opportunities for shared experiences, such as virtual scenes, online role-playing, or even remote control of sex toys. However, it's essential to prioritize privacy and security when utilizing technology, ensuring all activities are consensual and within established boundaries.

Explore Alternative Forms of Intimacy:
Physical intimacy may be limited due to the geographical distance, but emotional and psychological intimacy can still flourish. Engage in activities that foster emotional connection and trust. This can include sharing fantasies, engaging in deep conversations, or exploring new aspects of each other's personalities. Additionally, exchanging handwritten letters or care packages can be a tangible way to express love and commitment.

Schedule Regular Visits:
While physical visits may not be frequent, planning and scheduling regular visits is essential to strengthen the bond between partners. Set aside specific dates or weekends to spend quality time together. During these visits, both partners can explore their dynamic more intensely, engage in scenes, and reinforce the power exchange. Additionally, the anticipation of upcoming visits can help maintain motivation and commitment between visits.

Participate in BDSM Communities:
Engaging with the larger BDSM community can provide valuable support and resources for both partners. Online forums, social media groups, or local munches can connect you with like-minded individuals who understand the unique challenges of long-distance BDSM relationships. Sharing experiences, seeking advice, and learning from others can help maintain enthusiasm and commitment to the surrendered lifestyle. FET, ALT and other communities are a huge help.

While distance can present challenges in a BDSM relationship, with dedication, creativity, and effective communication, it is possible to keep both partners engaged and committed to the surrendered lifestyle. By utilizing various communication channels, establishing rituals, exploring technology, fostering intimacy, scheduling visits, and connecting with the BDSM community, the Dom and sub can deepen their bond and maintain a fulfilling dynamic despite the physical separation. Remember, each relationship is unique, so it is crucial to tailor strategies to the specific needs and desires of both partners.
Sirseeksmuse
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  • 09.07.2023 20:26:26
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