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Gender Non-binary
Age 19
Status Single
Height 180cm
Weight 68kg
Body shape Athletic
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Long
Beard Mustache
Orientation Bi-curious
Ethnicity Other
Origin USA
Body hair Some hair
Dick length 20cm
Dick width 4cm
Zodiac sign Cancer
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Languages English
Japanese

About me

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Description

I'm a Cook, semi pro climber, and overall chaotic nightmare in the Denver area

I'm inexperienced and want to learn, but I also just want to have fun and explore the scene naturally. I'd love to make it a bigger part of my life, but until I have a more stable income, this is pretty casual.

My hobbies include
Climbing Hardly a hobby at this point but ¯_(ツ)_/¯
Content creating Yes I know I'm gen z as fuck but if you try to use slang or bring up current trends I will not know what your talking about
Anime and Gaming some if I have time mostly indie titles if a friend getsme into something else.
Hyper-fixating on some off the rails random subject for 2 weeks only to never touch it again
Kink as of recently
And last and unfortunately not least Multi day streaks of AuDHD paralisis (work in progress)

I will not talk about competitive sports IE Football or the other Football the bore me
If you follow me on Instagram or any other non adult specific platform please try and be at least kind of normal
I speak English, shity kitchen Spanish, rusty German and OK japanese

Update because apparently it's not clear I am a leftist

Limits

up for debate

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Alder
Alder entered a new photo into the Adrenaline Rush Challenge contest
  • 26.11.2025 20:57:19
  • Non-binary (19)
  • Denver
  • Single
  • Alder
Alder
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  • 31.10.2025 3:33:12
  • Non-binary (19)
  • Denver
  • Single
I'm a Cook, semi pro climber, and overall chaotic nightmare in the Denver area

I'm inexperienced and want to learn, but I also just want to have fun and explore the scene naturally. I'd love to make it a bigger part of my life, but until I have a more stable income, this is pretty casual.

My Read more… hobbies include
Climbing Hardly a hobby at this point but ¯_(ツ)_/¯
Content creating Yes I know I'm gen z as fuck but if you try to use slang or bring up current trends I will not know what your talking about
Anime and Gaming some if I have time mostly indie titles if a friend getsme into something else.
Hyper-fixating on some off the rails random subject for 2 weeks only to never touch it again
Kink as of recently
And last and unfortunately not least Multi day streaks of AuDHD paralisis (work in progress)

I will not talk about competitive sports IE Football or the other Football the bore me
If you follow me on Instagram or any other non adult specific platform please try and be at least kind of normal
I speak English, shity kitchen Spanish, rusty German and OK japanese

Update because apparently it's not clear I am a leftist
Alder
icon-wio Alder created a topic in New to BDSM, Kink & Fetish?
  • 27.10.2025 7:48:00
  • Denver
The autistic hell of feeling guilty flirting
Almost anytime I'm attracted to someone regardless of the reason I find it hard to express that without feeling like so much as sending a message is misogynistic, disrespectful, or objectifying them in some way,
Is this just a symptom of how dating apps are structured as it is incredibly distanced from actual emotional intimacy.
How do other autistic people navigate this?
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kinkydaddy2point0
kinkydaddy2point0 I’m autistic and I feel the same way at times. It’s different for males and females but as a guy I find that as long as I’m not messaging about looks early then it’s ok. It’s about being respectful and building suspense and intrigue when starting to talk with someone.
Try thinking about what apart from looks makes you want to reach out? Personality, common desires, common interests are usually safe topics to start with. I’m autistic and I feel the same way at times. It’s different for males and females but as a guy I find that as long as I’m not messaging about looks early then it’s ok. It’s about being respectful and building suspense and intrigue when starting to talk with someone.
Try thinking about what apart from looks makes you want to reach out? Personality, common desires, common interests are usually safe topics to start with.
Like · 05.11.2025 17:09:31
eyemblacksheep
eyemblacksheep I think also there's always a reason why you're messaging someone. That message may well be.... you message everyone in a certain radius (don't do that!) but there must be some reason
Highlight it
Why did they stand out, for you? I think also there's always a reason why you're messaging someone. That message may well be.... you message everyone in a certain radius (don't do that!) but there must be some reason
Highlight it
Why did they stand out, for you?
Like · 30.10.2025 10:44:58
MrDDS
MrDDS ➦MrDDS quote Deleted profile:❝Saying you have a big dick gets you responses ? ❞
It isn't my approach, but it's one that I used a fair bit in my younger years. HungConstruction isn't bluffing, it can actually be that simple depending on the person you're chatting with. People come in all flavors and, well, some people are truly very horny always lol ➦MrDDS quote Deleted profile:❝Saying you have a big dick gets you responses ? ❞
It isn't my approach, but it's one that I used a fair bit in my younger years. HungConstruction isn't bluffing, it can actually be that simple depending on the person you're chatting with. People come in all flavors and, well, some people are truly very horny always lol
LikeHungConstruction · 30.10.2025 0:39:49
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Alder
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  • 27.10.2025 6:31:58
  • Non-binary (19)
  • Denver
  • Single
  • Alder
Alder
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  • 26.10.2025 2:52:46
  • Non-binary (19)
  • Denver
  • Single
  • Alder
Alder
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  • 25.10.2025 8:01:12
  • Non-binary (19)
  • Denver
  • Single
I'm a Cook, semi pro climber, and overall chaotic nightmare in the Denver area

I'm inexperienced and want to learn, but I also just want to have fun and explore the scene naturally. I'd love to make it a bigger part of my life, but until I have a more stable income, this is pretty casual.
I'm very Read more… comfortable in my body but somehow manage to be completely unaware of if I'm attractive or not, so complements will get you a long way

My hobbies include
Climbing Hardly a hobby at this point but ¯_(ツ)_/¯
Content creating Yes I know I'm gen z as fuck but if you try to use slang or bring up current trends I will not know what your talking about
Anime and Gaming some if I have time mostly indie titles if a friend getsme into something else.
Hyper-fixating on some off the rails random subject for 2 weeks only to never touch it again
Kink as of recently
And last and unfortunately not least Multi day streaks of AuDHD paralisis (work in progress)

I will not talk about competitive sports IE Football or the other Football the bore me
If you follow me on Instagram or any other non adult specific platform please try and be at least kind of normal
I speak English, shity kitchen Spanish, rusty German and OK japanese

Update because apparently it's not clear I am a leftist
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  • 24.10.2025 23:22:30
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  • Denver
  • Single
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  • 24.10.2025 22:29:47
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  • 24.10.2025 0:21:48
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  • Denver
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  • 24.10.2025 0:01:44
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  • Denver
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  • 23.10.2025 23:59:23
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  • 23.10.2025 23:53:11
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