I always wanted to ask my ex about if she had any kinks. She played a decent Dom. When she wanted to. But she identified as a switch and when I would bring up her interests or fantasies she wouldn't tell me. She would say "I don't really have a specific kink" I feel like that was toward the end Read more… though. Probably after her feelings for me faded. But id always try to make a safe spot for her to be open and honest with her wants and she probably felt this way im guessing