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Gender Man
Age 46
Status Single
Height 172cm
Weight 78kg
Body shape Average build
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Black
Hair length Short
Body hair Some hair
Zodiac sign Leo
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About me

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Description

I am a Dom, Daddy, Play Partner, Mentor, Friend, but not necessarily in that order! I have been involved in the BDSM philosophy and loves D/s lifestyle, exploring kinks and fetishes for most of my life, gaining much experience and insight along the way, long before I discovered FET, .

Vanilla me I am an educated professional with post-graduate degree. I love exploring new places and new experiences, travel, and food cuisine. Always up for a intellectual discussion, love to read, binge watch.

Kinky me I would call myself a gentleman and sensual Dom, Daddy Dom. I love to guide/mentor/train and provide introductory experiences with or without pain for newbies, thru to exploring the high limits of a pain lover, in a large variety of scenes, all the while being polite, well mannered and respectful of the person, their limits, desires, and experience level. Lately, I have become intrigued with remote controlled devices (especially in public!)

I enjoy and am very skilled in impact, sensation deprivation/stimulation with or without impact, reaching subspace, mind games, sensual massage, edging (multi-)orgasm control, wax, and more. I'm all in for the kinky experience!

Looking forward to getting to know. Come say hello!!

My places

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Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Durham with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!

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icon-wio kinkster_dom959 is single again
  • 23.12.2023 4:06:03
  • Male (46)
  • Durham
  • Single
kinkster_dom959
icon-wio kinkster_dom959 wrote something in the forum
  • 17.10.2023 1:38:48
  • Male (46)
  • Durham
  • Single
SWEET PONY TREASURE HUNT 🐴

I need help with clues? I m not sure what clues, I have found and which I haven’t? I show I have 11 icons of 24.

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icon-wio kinkster_dom959 wrote something in the forum
  • 30.09.2023 14:34:35
  • Male (46)
  • Durham
  • Single
Hoping to grow partner’s domme side

Remember exploring kinks starts with curiosity or feeling the need to explore. So communicate and drop hints, which I think you are already doing. But ultimately, your partner has to feel curious, have a open mind and willingness to be dominant and try new things. A lot of times, they may not be Read more… dominant at all or may only like certain kinks which may not be all of them that you want. One cannot turn on or turn off the kink switch!
So be patient, let her figure out organically if she wants to try. Enjoy the time spent with her and grow with her. Hopefully you will figure out with trial and error what she likes or doesn’t. Pushing her will only create challenges because someone is trying to change for another person and it will be forced, awkwardness. The fact that she likes to choke you, shows that she is willing to explore. Give her space and time to explore. All the best in your journey and I hope you both are able to figure out a happy balance😊

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icon-wio kinkster_dom959 wrote something in the forum
  • 16.09.2023 15:40:00
  • Male (46)
  • Durham
  • Single
What to expect from a new Dom/Sun relationship

Be open, communicate with an open mind. But also ensure that you have your eyes open and be lookout for any red flags. It can be easy to taken over by new sensations and lustful cravings that you don’t pay attention to your emotional needs. It’s important to have both. Build trust, relationship Read more… organically as well as by exploring kinks in safe manner. It’s a beautiful relationship!! Enjoy your journey.

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icon-wio kinkster_dom959 wrote something in the forum
  • 16.09.2023 15:36:41
  • Male (46)
  • Durham
  • Single
What is the best way to learn your likes and dislikes?

Trial and Error but with someone who you can trust. Communicate with your partner, your Dom(me) or someone who understands your need to explore kinks. Be open minded and believe, you would be surprised to find out that some of myths/biases that we hold are untrue. When done right with someone with Read more… whom you trust, it can open up a whole new world. Watching porn/erotica or reading it can be one dimensional, but exploring kinks is more than sex. It’s about state of mind as that’s what makes a difference between just experiencing it and a beautiful/sensational experience 😈😈😈

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icon-wio kinkster_dom959 wrote something in the forum
  • 21.04.2023 3:56:09
  • Male (46)
  • Durham
  • Single
EASTER EGGS TREASURE HUNT 🥚🐰 AND THE WINNERS ARE...

I m needing 4 or 5 more eggs and don’t seem to find them….

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icon-wio kinkster_dom959 wrote something in the forum
  • 08.04.2023 23:48:16
  • Male (46)
  • Durham
  • Single
EASTER EGGS TREASURE HUNT 🥚🐰 AND THE WINNERS ARE...

I don’t know which eggs I have! How do I find the remaining 3 eggs?

kinkster_dom959
icon-wio kinkster_dom959 wrote something in the forum
  • 08.04.2023 21:59:54
  • Male (46)
  • Durham
  • Single
EASTER EGGS TREASURE HUNT 🥚🐰 AND THE WINNERS ARE...

I have 7 eggs. I don’t know which remaining 3 eggs I m missing.

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icon-wio kinkster_dom959 wrote something in the forum
  • 15.03.2023 12:54:32
  • Male (46)
  • Durham
  • Single
FIRST MEETINGS -- BEGINNINGS?

Beautiful description of emotions of a first meetings. Would love to read more of what happens next. 😊

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  • 18.12.2022 22:35:37
  • Male (46)
  • Durham
  • Single
ROPEBUNNY.DE TREASURE HUNT 🐇

Need help with clue # 17. Stuck with this clue

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icon-wio kinkster_dom959 found their first icon!
  • 10.12.2022 0:43:20
  • Male (46)
  • Durham
  • Single
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icon-wio kinkster_dom959 wrote something in the forum
  • 04.12.2022 18:32:54
  • Male (46)
  • Durham
  • Single
ROPEBUNNY.DE TREASURE HUNT 🐇

I cannot seem to find Clue #4 in spite all the hints. Need help

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icon-wio kinkster_dom959 wrote something in the forum
  • 04.12.2022 18:29:37
  • Male (46)
  • Durham
  • Single
ROPEBUNNY.DE TREASURE HUNT 🐇

I cannot seem to find clue #4. Looked everywhere

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icon-wio kinkster_dom959 is single again
  • 25.11.2022 1:59:28
  • Male (46)
  • Durham
  • Single
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  • 17.11.2022 12:02:28
  • Male (46)
  • Durham
  • Single
Sub headspace

Agree with all said. Each person’s journey is different. Sub headspace is something of euphoric, a high that a sub including can experience in varying degree. This works by talking with your Dom, exploring with him what works best for you and letting go of yourself by building trust with him. There Read more… is no one fixed recipe for it. But I also want to point out that as part of your journey to explore and experience subspace, please talk to your Dom about the aftercare. Aftercare is always important but it’s all the more important after experiencing sub headspace.
All the best in your journey.

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