Welcome to my little corner of The kinky-verse or should that be the per-verse? Come in and make yourself at home!
I am a sub who may well have a little spark of dominance in him for the right person.
Mainly here to watch and learn, maybe meet some new and interesting people and generally just try and unwind, that being said, sometimes I’m just a dirty little perv, but hey… are t we all?
In vanilla land I have been many things, shop assistant, film set craft services barista, professional touring guitarist, and currently architectural & engineering technician. I have had the dance to do some damn cool things and meet some pretty fine people!
I have had my battles with mental health over the years, anxiety is still a constant war in my head but I’m not very good at surrender so I’m still here and thankful for every day.
I like to think I am a kind and caring person and hope my actions reflect this. I really try not to take life too seriously although sometimes I’m the only one that gets my jokes, I am hilarious though.
I’m a raging nerd and a rampant hobbyist, I feel like my main hobby is collecting hobbies!
Always happy to chat so jump on my comments or into my DM and I’ll do my best to reply!
Hard Limits: Pee, Poo, vomit, race play and minors are all absolutely non-negotiable
Heston Blumenthal 😂
That makes sense, I’m still not sure I would lead with it as an icebreaker though
That’s a habit I’ve never understood, it’s not exactly like penises are works of art
😂 so eloquently put!
As someone who isn’t exactly a natural at breaking the ice with new people, I understand it can be difficult, but I also understand it’s important to make an effort, it’s the same even on vanilla platforms
It screams lack of imagination, it also makes the icebreaker a minefield
It’s good to be an open book, but always remember a book still needs words!
For me a woman that knows how to dress well is a big thing, it doesn’t need to be sexualised as such (don’t get me wrong I love that too) but a woman who dresses with style and elegance feels like they exude a natural power. If that makes sense?
“Remember to blow your nose afterwards”
That’s very kind of you, I will do that
That makes sense, it requires a lot of trust to know someone well enough to know what you can get away with! Officer Storm sounds quite formidable though!
I have to admit, that’s one thing I do worry about with a full D/s dynamic is the fear of losing the playfulness of an equal footing (not sure if that makes sense, I’m not sure how to explain it)
I love that, it’s the great thing about the community when toxicity is put a side and people just take the chance to learn things!