About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- Events & Places
- NSA (no strings...)
- BDSM Lovers
Description
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“Who do you want me to be?”
~ Black Vodka: Ten Stories, Deborah Levy
~ Spike, BtVS: School Hard
🪢 In a nutshell, I’m a dominant, polyamorous, rigger, and occasionally vampiric practitioner of ENM.
🗣️ Mutual respect and communication are always the first priorities in any form of relationship, and they’re the only things I absolutely demand. Even if we roam the corridors of and , that respect will always be there.
🏗️ On the D/s side, and any other side, were building something important to us both, so explicit, predetermined boundaries, and total agreement about our expectations and wishes, with a side order of safety and safe words, are the first order of play. We don’t have to map out every nook and cranny of what we’re building, but as far as I’m concerned, it’s a partnership that’s as much, if not more, about serving your needs as it is about serving mine.
🤷🏻♀️ We are all someone different to everyone we meet and spend time with. The fundamentals remain the same, for the most part, but who we are to someone else and to each other will change based on mutual experience, expectations, and communication. The sweet spot is finding we’re the right someone for the person in front of us, and that may take work, but it’ll be the fun kind, I promise.
“What do you want?”
~ The Notebook, Nicholas Sparks
~ Morden, Babylon 5: Signs and Portents
⛓️ Am I only looking for subs, slaves, and rope bunnies?
No. I’m open to many kinds of relationships. The only redlines I have are that I won’t sub for anyone, and I won’t engage in a monogamous relationship. I’ve tried both, and they simply aren’t for me.
🤴 Do I have predetermined expectations for a D/s relationship?
Again, no (see below for exception). Every sub is different, and no two relationships are the same either. Be you a brat looking to be tamed, a slave who desires to serve completely, or someone looking to find out what kind of sub or slave they are, I can work with that, and they all fall within what I personally enjoy and am looking for. I enjoy both CNC and total subservience, and most things in between, so it will always be about finding the relationship that you’re looking for and that works for us.
🛌 Am I expecting the relationship to be sexual?
Yes. Unless it’s a purely rope-related relationship (rigger/bunny), I do expect our relationship to be sexual. I am an incredibly tactile person, and much of my pleasure comes from touching and being touched. That doesn’t mean I expect sex during our first time together, but I do have an expectation that sex will be involved eventually.
🧙♂️ Do we have to be ourselves?
We don’t. Roleplaying is also one of my kinks.
Limits
No water or hard sports, nothing that will permanently mark or cause serious , anything involving or ***s, and emetophilia is definitely off the menu (haha).
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Anal Sex
- Androgyny
- Fear Play
- Blindfolds
- BDSM
- Begging
- Biting Fetish
- Bondage
- Bondage Shackles
- Bondage Cuffs
- Bondage Hood
- Bondage Rope
- Breath Play
- Glasses Fetish
- Collar & Leash
- Cuddling
- Cunnilingus
- Domination
- Erotic Wrestling
- Exhibitionism
- Restraints
- Fingering
- Floggers
- Foreplay
- Gags
- Goth
- Hair Pulling
- Handcuffs
- Rough Sex
- Kinky Sex
- Kissing
- Knife Play
- Costumes
- Licking
- Lip Fetish
- Massage
- Nipple Play
- Nipples
- Oral Sex
- Spanking Paddles
- Polyamory
- Quickies
- Role Play
- Sapiosexual
- Scratching
- Sensory Deprivation
- Outdoor Sex
- Sex In Bed
- Shower Sex
- Sex Toys
- Slave Training
- Sweet Pain
- Uniform Fetish
- Subservience
- Vampire Role Play
- Vanilla
- Voyeurism
Fetish.com gives you…
Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Stevenage with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!
Found #14 on the website, but it wasn’t visible in the App (iOS version).
“Who do you want me to be?”
~ Black Vodka: Ten Stories, Deborah Levy
~ Spike, BtVS: School Hard
🪢 In a nutshell, I’m a dominant, polyamorous, rigger, and occasionally vampiric practitioner of ENM.
🗣️ Mutual respect and communication are always the first Read more… priorities in any form of relationship, and they’re the only things I absolutely demand. Even if we roam the corridors of and , that respect will always be there.
🏗️ On the D/s side, and any other side, were building something important to us both, so explicit, predetermined boundaries, and total agreement about our expectations and wishes, with a side order of safety and safe words, are the first order of play. We don’t have to map out every nook and cranny of what we’re building, but as far as I’m concerned, it’s a partnership that’s as much, if not more, about serving your needs as it is about serving mine.
🤷🏻♀️ We are all someone different to everyone we meet and spend time with. The fundamentals remain the same, for the most part, but who we are to someone else and to each other will change based on mutual experience, expectations, and communication. The sweet spot is finding we’re the right someone for the person in front of us, and that may take work, but it’ll be the fun kind, I promise.
“What do you want?”
~ The Notebook, Nicholas Sparks
~ Morden, Babylon 5: Signs and Portents
⛓️ Am I only looking for subs, slaves, and rope bunnies?
No. I’m open to many kinds of relationships. The only redlines I have are that I won’t sub for anyone, and I won’t engage in a monogamous relationship. I’ve tried both, and they simply aren’t for me.
🤴 Do I have predetermined expectations for a D/s relationship?
Again, no (see below for exception). Every sub is different, and no two relationships are the same either. Be you a brat looking to be tamed, a slave who desires to serve completely, or someone looking to find out what kind of sub or slave they are, I can work with that, and they all fall within what I personally enjoy and am looking for. I enjoy both CNC and total subservience, and most things in between, so it will always be about finding the relationship that you’re looking for and that works for us.
🛌 Am I expecting the relationship to be sexual?
Yes. Unless it’s a purely rope-related relationship (rigger/bunny), I do expect our relationship to be sexual. I am an incredibly tactile person, and much of my pleasure comes from touching and being touched. That doesn’t mean I expect sex during our first time together, but I do have an expectation that sex will be involved eventually.
🧙♂️ Do we have to be ourselves?
We don’t. Roleplaying is also one of my kinks.
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#16 In a D/s relationship, if you’re not a Dom, you’re a ?
#15 “Who watches the watchmen? You do.”
#14 “I have some control over who I take my slaps from.”
I’ve always enjoyed sex with different people. Everyone’s different, feels different, reacts differently, and I enjoy that variety. Yes, those differences can be explored more fully in FWB or full relationships, but those new experiences are there from the start.
I go to a lot of music festivals, Read more… including ones in other countries, and there’s an additional level of, perhaps, intimacy and urgency being with someone when you both know you’ll probably never meet again, and there’s also a more relaxed feel that come from that knowledge.
There’s also a level of freedom with ONS, where you’re not having to worry about the broader impact of starting a longer term relationship, even a casual one, with the broader group around you, or, indeed, your own friendship with the other person.
That doesn’t mean I prefer ONS: as it happens, most of my ONS have turned in FWBs and, sometimes, full relationships, but ONS do have a special place in my heart as wonderfully unique experiences.
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