Ngl this is all ringing bells I'm curious if it was the person I'm thinking of because they're bad news I'm aware... In which case bullet dodged for sure.
It may be the way it's worded but it sounds very manipulative, I'd definitely say you're incompatible either way. Even online play needs Read more… aftercare and asking you after a day with young family members is a red flag imo, you'll be in the wrong mentality

The verification thing tho, honestly there's so many trolls and spam accounts I genuinely think it may be necessary

More active mods in lobby, possibly making it so you can't msg anyone or use lobby till you verify your account as well to help weed out the spam and scam accounts, bring back the clear rules where it says don't discuss certain topics etc in lobby. Currently the only ruleset for the forums and Read more… lobby is a broad set of guidelines and the whisper of what a mod may or may not have said at one point

I'm not convinced you need a contract so much as an awareness, and an educated and open conversation upon, the limits of all parties involved. Wether to let that result in a written or verbal contract is more a formality for ceremonies sake in my humble opinion, and should remain such. The key is Read more… the communication that could lead to such a decision, and finding a partner that would be open to it

I work on the rule that if I need shock tactics to gain interest, it won't be worthwhile interest. Likewise, any worthwhile interest will be disgusted by the more forward attempts. That's been my experience and observations of what people tend to expect/think here

Over eager, way too public with their affection (like you're a trophy they have to show off), jumping steps ahead without thinking if you're ready etc all spring to mind

Just show her the MSG's 🤷🏼🤷🏼

Sounds like demi or sapiosexual

I'm in

Having no limits, feeling like the Dom owes them dominance for nothing, jumping headfirst in a dynamic or pushing for one